Voluntary celibacy

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Says you.......

Well it is my life, no?

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Well it is my life, no?

It's your personal choice amiok to have that lifestyle........if you want something, you go after it.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

I might as well be voluntarily celebit considering I don't actively look for anyone to date or do anything with.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I might as well be voluntarily celebit considering I don't actively look for anyone to date or do anything with.

I completely agree with you. I've found as I've gotten older that the more you look, the less likely it is you are going to find someone to have fun with and to be your life partner. Just letting go and letting the chips fall where they may seems to work best. So I'm trying that.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I completely agree with you. I've found as I've gotten older that the more you look, the less likely it is you are going to find someone to have fun with and to be your life partner. Just letting go and letting the chips fall where they may seems to work best. So I'm trying that.

yup

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

I completely agree with you. I've found as I've gotten older that the more you look, the less likely it is you are going to find someone to have fun with and to be your life partner. Just letting go and letting the chips fall where they may seems to work best. So I'm trying that.

I would like to look, but I am just not in the party/bar/club circles, which means my chances are pretty low, which they always are anyways. I went to a dating website, but I know that isn't going to get me anywhere.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I completely agree with you. I've found as I've gotten older that the more you look, the less likely it is you are going to find someone to have fun with and to be your life partner. Just letting go and letting the chips fall where they may seems to work best. So I'm trying that.

Also sometimes when you are looking so hard.. you miss what is right in front of you.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

It's your personal choice amiok to have that lifestyle........if you want something, you go after it.

It's not my choice, it's the hand I've been dealt.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

It is your choice.. you are choosing to be alone because its easier then being rejected.
you are choosing to be alone because you live in fear, fear of not being desirable, fear of not being wanted, fear of being hurt.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

It is your choice.. you are choosing to be alone because its easier then being rejected.
you are choosing to be alone because you live in fear, fear of not being desirable, fear of not being wanted, fear of being hurt.

What's better, being alone or being with someone who you don't like but are getting the company etc from?

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

and there is your fear speaking .. you assume that you won't like someones company or they won't like you.

[BTBrian Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BTBrian]

What's better, being alone or being with someone who you don't like but are getting the company etc from?

Why don't you find someone who you do like and go for them then? And if they turn you down find someone else you like and go for them. And if they turn you down find someone else you like and go for them. And if they turn you down find someone else you like and go for them. That's what dating is. It's sifting through all of the people out there who aren't perfect together until two people who are perfect together finally meet.

[TheSnitch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TheSnitch]

What's better, being alone or being with someone who you don't like but are getting the company etc from?

That depends. Do you not like said someone because they aren't what you want them to be or do you actually not like them? If the former than you need to adjust your perspective, if it's the latter than you need to move on. But, going from "having someone around you really don't want to settle for" to "being fully celibate because it's easier" is a very extreme departure from healthy.

How are you doing on your weight loss, or on your PE? Are you hanging, extending, pumping, ADSing yet? Do you have a gym membership? Or are you doing as little as possible in order to have a lot to complain about?

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Tink: No. What I mean is just dating someone who you don't really like but they are into you for whatever reason. That way you are getting the companionship and sex, just to say you are. I'll pass.

BTB: I don't like women. So that's really hard to do

Snitch: I mean I don't really like em. My weight loss is a nothing right now because a) I'm already too light but with pockets of disgusting fat and b) I can't work out because of an injury. As for PE, my dick responds to nothing

[TheSnitch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TheSnitch]

Tink: No. What I mean is just dating someone who you don't really like but they are into you for whatever reason. That way you are getting the companionship and sex, just to say you are. I'll pass.

BTB: I don't like women. So that's really hard to do

Snitch: I mean I don't really like em. My weight loss is a nothing right now because a) I'm already too light but with pockets of disgusting fat and b) I can't work out because of an injury. As for PE, my dick responds to nothing

What do you want Amiok?