Holy shit....

[Jama Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jama]

So I'm about to do my workout, so my ex gf broke up with me wdnesday after noon and fucked some guy Friday. Night, the whole time we were broken up she was telling me she missed me and wanted me back and loved me and all that... I finally started texting her back and she tells me about Friday night... I freak out and basically hate her. But I cleared the air last night but right now I can't see ppl kissing without thinking about what happened... What would you guys do? She def still wants to be with me... And said she regrets it and all that and she started crying right after it happened that night...

[Learns Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Learns]

I wouldn't go back to her immediately, in order to keep you dignity. I would say something to the likes of "I need to sort things out in my head" ask her for space so you can figure things out and come to a rational decision. It is a possibility that if you let her come back to you no questions asked she will think of you as a pushover subconsciously. Being passive is a turnoff for women.

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

Tell her you cant get back together with her yet and need to see if she can go more than 2 days without fucking some guy first...

[PR20 Member Find all posts View Profile Close PR20]

I wouldn't go back to her immediately, in order to keep you dignity. I would say something to the likes of "I need to sort things out in my head" ask her for space so you can figure things out and come to a rational decision. It is a possibility that if you let her come back to you no questions asked she will think of you as a pushover subconsciously. Being passive is a turnoff for women.

Agree, she's the one who's done wrong and it can't go lightly or she'll think it's nothing.

Use it as a chance to show some authoritaaah by showing she can't just walk back to you when she wants to.

[jd10021 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jd10021]

Especially if you're still young and haven't had many serious relationships, a break-up can be troubling and the need to rebound and/or get back together is quite common. Your ex is clearly going through both but that doesn't mean you have to play along. You need to consider whether she is truly "the one" or was this a relationship that may just have run its course. If the answer is maybe but you're not sure, you can always just take her back, have lots of sex with her, ask/make her do everything that you want her to be in a mate and then evaluate whether she is "the one" for you. If, at any time you aren't able to forgive/forget, you can break up with her then.

[Panther Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Panther]

My guess is your relatively young. I suggest you seriously consider whether you should stay with this girl. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you should stay.

If she treats you badly and with disrespect do not stay. Seems a little odd to me that she would break-up with you and then sleep with someone else days later. She probably already had something going with this person and broke up with you so she could sleep with him. What's she going to do next time, break-up so she can sleep around or just do it behind your back.

I would not trust this woman again. If you stay for sex you should let her know. It isn't fair to her to lead her down a path you aren't traveling.

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Sprint away form her as fast as possible. This behavior will continue for sure.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Why'd you guys break up in the first place. Looks like you broke it off in your first post.

If she was texting you the whole time from wednesday to today, that doesn't make sense...

You say she broke up with you...

Going to put it into two windows.

If you broke up with her, you have no right to be angry about what she did on friday. she needed to feel the intimacy and the missing energy to took away from her...

If she broke up with you, there's a likely scenario. Some guy she thought was awesome and hot got into her ear. She thought he wanted her. She f*cked him and he left her that night. never answered her calls, never responded to her texts. she was a f*ck and didn't know it. Now she realizes she screwed up a good thing and wants it back.

Don't give her access too fast. make her make it up to you. Make her feel like she has to win you back.

best way to do that to date other girls.

[secureman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close secureman]

What likely happened is she was after this guy while still seeing you had sex with him and he doesn't want a relationship with her. Feeling lonely she runs back to the next best thing (you) and tries to manipulate you into getting back together until another guy catches her interest. Get some sex make her think everything is OK then DTB when she least expects it.

[hsarge Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hsarge]

What do you want? The hell with the rest of us. You know her.

[malehanger Banned Find all posts View Profile Close malehanger]

You found one woman right?

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

Well if you do want her back you should take it slow until you can trust her again. If not you can either play games, have sex, then dump her or just not do anything.

It really depends on what you want, but I definitely wouldn't go right back to the way you were, just start over until she can prove herself and you can trust her.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I wouldn't go back to her immediately, in order to keep you dignity. I would say something to the likes of "I need to sort things out in my head" ask her for space so you can figure things out and come to a rational decision. It is a possibility that if you let her come back to you no questions asked she will think of you as a pushover subconsciously. Being passive is a turnoff for women.

I totally agree with this. Keep in mind, though, that you were NOT a couple when she had sex with another guy.........just food for thought.

[ProjectX Member Find all posts View Profile Close ProjectX]

Will you ever trust her again? Unless the answer is along the lines of "Yes, I completely forgive her for what she did and am ok with it" then run away. Otherwise you will think of her getting railed by someone else all the time. If you're into that, then good for you. If not, it will drive you mad.

If she was willing to take another guy inside her right after you broke up, you can bet she'll do it again the next time you guys "break up," because if she's looking or finding another cock just around the corner it'll be convenient and she'll always have you to fall back on.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

Show her who's boss .. Make her suffer for her mistake (walk away for a short time from her) .. Like the others said, don't just accept it .. or else she'll definetly do it again.