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5 Reasons that a girl may cheat on you and you don’t know why
Written by: Ronnie Rokk 3-25-12
5 Reasons that a girl may cheat on you and you don’t know why!
There are several reasons why a girl would cheat on you, but we will go over the 5 most common ones here. And then we will go into a little more detail of each.
1. Sex for almost all women is all about passion, so if you are not showing enough passion in the bedroom when having sex with her, then she might go seek it elsewhere.
2. You may not be making her have and orgasm, so she might be faking it. If this is the case she will go find that orgasm with someone else.
3. She thinks you look at her as just a sex object.
4. She has fallen out of love with you.
5. Your cock maybe small or too big. You don’t know how to use it, or a combination of the two.
First of all…
1. What is passion?
Passion: A compelling emotion, strong amorous feeling; love. Strong sexual desire; lust. A strong fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for something.
So you see, women crave emotion in the bed room. You have to really want to have sex with her and want to please her. No just being fucking to get your rocks off.
And I promise you, see can tell the difference.
Women are very keen to these things and can tell what is real and what is put on, even in conversation, they can tell if you are really interested or if you just want a quick fuck.
This is why I associate love and sex as one, while most guys see sex as sex and love as love. Now don’t get me wrong here. I did not say all guys, I said most.
And this goes for the same with women as well to. Some of them don’t associate love and sex as one thing. When this happens, those are the women that don’t care about passion they just want a good fuck.
Personally I prefer a woman that associates love and sex as one. To have sex with someone mean you truly love them, not just to get your rocks off and go about your day. I was born to be this way.
So how can you tell the difference?
Usually the women that don’t care about passion are those that fuck many different guys often, they are the one’s looking for one night stands and quick hook ups.
How can you develop more passion?
Take your time with your women.
Do at least 15-30 minutes of foreplay on her. If you don’t enjoy your woman, she sure won’t enjoy you. Enjoy her body, enjoy the moment.
Concentrate on pleasing her and not you. Don’t be selfish. You please her first and then you. Keep this in your mind the whole time and you will be amazed at how good things will go.
15-30 minutes of foreplay? Why so long?
Remember, a woman takes longer to warm up then guys do.
They get aroused my mental stimulations while we can just look at her and get our cocks hard.
Talk dirty to her (women love this) even if you feel wrong doing it, do it! You will be surprised at how much she likes it.
What is talking dirty?
Talking dirty is not what you might be thinking. It’s not calling your woman a bitch or a slut (unless of course she might like that) or degrading her though name calling.
It is more or less you telling her how beautiful she looks. How sexy her tits look. How fine her ass looks in doggy style or how good her pussy feels when you are stroking her hard and deep.
Whisper in her ear how sexy she is. Tell her a fantasy story. How you are under a water fall and the cool water running over her sexy breast sparkles in the sunlight as you put your open mouth under them to catch the water in it.
Can you see the visual picture there guys? This drives a woman crazy. This is why I send my girl a mental picture though texting her sometimes to stimulate her mind. I tell her exactly what I’m going to do to hear step by step. Here is a little example.
I will face you towards me and unbutton your shirt slowly as I kiss your neck and suck on your ear lobe. I will then slide off your shirt slowly as I rub my hands over your breast until you nipples start to get hard. Then I will pull you close to me so you can feel my masculine chest rub again your sexy hard nipples. Etc.
Do you get the picture here? This is what arouses a woman. Why do you think they love to read romance novels?
2. Why would a woman fake an orgasm?
Well is because you are not supplying her needs in the bed room.
She will not tell you if you are not, because she does not want bad feeling between you and her and she does not want to hurt you ego.
This is one the main problems why sexual relationships fail with so many couples. It’s because a lack of communication. If you can talk about things openly with each other because you don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings then you relationship will fail.
Fuck that!
I am straight up with my girl and I tell her to be straight up with me.
I tell her hey, if I’m not doing something right down here you tell me, I promise you that you will not hurt my fucking feelings, because everyone needs to learn from each other so that you can satisfy each other fully.
I tell her how I like my cock to be sucked. She was stroking my cock one time and she was sliding her and across it up and down and I straight up told her, don’t do it like that baby, hold it tight and make the skin move.
And she said oh, the last guy I was with liked it like that.
And I said, I’m not that guy! I’m different, and I like things differently.
She understood this, and no feelings were hurt, so she did it the way I liked it from then on.
And this is how I think every relationship should be. If you can’t talk to each other without pissing each other off in the process, then you have a problem and you need to fix it, or your relationship is doomed.
3. If you look at your woman as just a sex object then your relationship in the sex department will go to shit!
What do I mean when I say you look at her as a sex object?
If you get mad when your woman is not in the mood to have sex with you and she knows you are mad, this will hurt her feelings and make her think that is all she is worth to you.
Don’t get mad guys. It’s just one night. There are other nights to fuck, don’t be selfish just because you wanted to get off.
Now if she is never in the mood to have sex. Then that is another problem.
It may be that she has lost passion in you because you are the minute man and you can last long enough to satisfy her needs only sees sex has a means of satisfying your needs. She needs to come first.
If you have a problem in that department practice edging.
What is edging?
When jacking off stop right before you cum. Then let it subside a bit.
Then jack off again till you almost cum, and then stop again.
Keep repeating this several times before cuming.
This will help you last longer in bed.
Practice this every day until you can do it for at least 10-15 minutes before you actually let your load out.
This will also help your load to go further and have a much fuller load to spew upon your victim.
Another reason she may be faking an orgasm is that you are not hitting her spots.
Her G spot is one: It is the spot that is only about 3-4 inches right behind the clit. So if you put her legs up on your shoulders and raise her ass up a bit, you should be hitting her G spot nicely.
Another spot is her C spot: This is the woman’s cervix. Some women love it when the tip of your cock hits this.
Other women say that it shocks them and they don’t like it. For you to hit this one though you will need a long peter, because depending on the women’s Virgina size, it usually tucks itself back when she is having intercourse. I think 7 or 8 inches usually does the trick for pretty much most of the women.
There are two other spots and they are called Deep spots. These you will have to find yourself through experimenting on your girl. But there is one on the top of the Virgina canal and to the back while the other is on the bottom and to the back. See if she lets you while finger her find these spots. Ask her to tell you when it feels good while rubbing in those areas. Once you find them you will know where to go next time.
4. If a woman has fallen out of love with you…
Sometimes this happens on both ends, we just fall out of love with people for various reasons and there is nothing we can do.
We can try and rekindle the flame, but for the most part, once it is gone it is very hard to get back.
So we just have to move on and learn from our mistakes. It’s all a learning phase of life that we have to all go through.
In the best case after this happens, we hope that we can remain friends and find out what happen in the first place and learn not to do that again in the future with the next person.
5. It’s your cock or you don’t know how to use it.
Your cock maybe small and you don’t know how to use it.
If you cock is small guys you really need to learn all the techniques you can. If you are average you are ok and chances are you can satisfy her using various techniques. Use passion and know where all her spots are. Learn how to give her that big oh and then you will see that size really does not’t matter to some girls. Some girls it does, but some it don’t as long as you use passion in the bedroom.
Your cock maybe big and you don’t know how to use it.
If you don’t know how to fuck a girl right, it does not’t matter how big you are. I have had women tell me this all the time. Oh, yeah he was big, but he didn't’t know how to use it. I have heard this time and time again. So do your homework guys, and learn all the techniques you need for satisfying her. It’s not as simple as sticking it in and going in and out. In fact, girls don’t really like that. You have to change up your rhythm. Move side to side. Go in circles. If you just stroke her the same speed and rhythm, in and out, in and out, she will get bored with this.
Change up your stroke speed and techniques to keep it fresh and not anticipated your every move. If she does not’t know what you’re going to do next it makes it exciting. Keep that in mind. Women love adventure especially in the bed room.
Your cock maybe to big for her and it hurts her so she does not’t want sex as much.
If your cock is too big for her and you are hurting her, she will not want to have sex with you. Yes, there are girls out there with very small pussies and you cock might be too big to accommodate her. Pussies do stretch to accommodate, but as canny as it may sound, I have heard stories from a few girls that left their man because he was too big for her and it hurt too much to have sex.
Your cock maybe small and it does not fill her up to satisfy her enough.
(In this case PE for more girth, girth is important for most women, whereas length may not be as much) Some girls like more length compared to girth, every women is different. I ask my girl if she had a choice on what she wanted from me more girth or more length and she said more length. So this will tell you that every girl has different preferences of what they like better.
Well I hope you enjoy this and it helps you some.
(If you want to include this on another forum you have my permission to use it as long as you include my name on it, so I remain the author.)
Thanks,
Ronnie Rokk
5 Reasons that a girl may cheat on you and you don’t know why!
There are several reasons why a girl would cheat on you, but we will go over the 5 most common ones here. And then we will go into a little more detail of each.
1. Sex for almost all women is all about passion, so if you are not showing enough passion in the bedroom when having sex with her, then she might go seek it elsewhere.
2. You may not be making her have and orgasm, so she might be faking it. If this is the case she will go find that orgasm with someone else.
3. She thinks you look at her as just a sex object.
4. She has fallen out of love with you.
5. Your cock maybe small or too big. You don’t know how to use it, or a combination of the two.
First of all…
1. What is passion?
Passion: A compelling emotion, strong amorous feeling; love. Strong sexual desire; lust. A strong fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for something.
So you see, women crave emotion in the bed room. You have to really want to have sex with her and want to please her. No just being fucking to get your rocks off.
And I promise you, see can tell the difference.
Women are very keen to these things and can tell what is real and what is put on, even in conversation, they can tell if you are really interested or if you just want a quick fuck.
This is why I associate love and sex as one, while most guys see sex as sex and love as love. Now don’t get me wrong here. I did not say all guys, I said most.
And this goes for the same with women as well to. Some of them don’t associate love and sex as one thing. When this happens, those are the women that don’t care about passion they just want a good fuck.
Personally I prefer a woman that associates love and sex as one. To have sex with someone mean you truly love them, not just to get your rocks off and go about your day. I was born to be this way.
So how can you tell the difference?
Usually the women that don’t care about passion are those that fuck many different guys often, they are the one’s looking for one night stands and quick hook ups.
How can you develop more passion?
Take your time with your women.
Do at least 15-30 minutes of foreplay on her. If you don’t enjoy your woman, she sure won’t enjoy you. Enjoy her body, enjoy the moment.
Concentrate on pleasing her and not you. Don’t be selfish. You please her first and then you. Keep this in your mind the whole time and you will be amazed at how good things will go.
15-30 minutes of foreplay? Why so long?
Remember, a woman takes longer to warm up then guys do.
They get aroused my mental stimulations while we can just look at her and get our cocks hard.
Talk dirty to her (women love this) even if you feel wrong doing it, do it! You will be surprised at how much she likes it.
What is talking dirty?
Talking dirty is not what you might be thinking. It’s not calling your woman a bitch or a slut (unless of course she might like that) or degrading her though name calling.
It is more or less you telling her how beautiful she looks. How sexy her tits look. How fine her ass looks in doggy style or how good her pussy feels when you are stroking her hard and deep.
Whisper in her ear how sexy she is. Tell her a fantasy story. How you are under a water fall and the cool water running over her sexy breast sparkles in the sunlight as you put your open mouth under them to catch the water in it.
Can you see the visual picture there guys? This drives a woman crazy. This is why I send my girl a mental picture though texting her sometimes to stimulate her mind. I tell her exactly what I’m going to do to hear step by step. Here is a little example.
I will face you towards me and unbutton your shirt slowly as I kiss your neck and suck on your ear lobe. I will then slide off your shirt slowly as I rub my hands over your breast until you nipples start to get hard. Then I will pull you close to me so you can feel my masculine chest rub again your sexy hard nipples. Etc.
Do you get the picture here? This is what arouses a woman. Why do you think they love to read romance novels?
2. Why would a woman fake an orgasm?
Well is because you are not supplying her needs in the bed room.
She will not tell you if you are not, because she does not want bad feeling between you and her and she does not want to hurt you ego.
This is one the main problems why sexual relationships fail with so many couples. It’s because a lack of communication. If you can talk about things openly with each other because you don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings then you relationship will fail.
Fuck that!
I am straight up with my girl and I tell her to be straight up with me.
I tell her hey, if I’m not doing something right down here you tell me, I promise you that you will not hurt my fucking feelings, because everyone needs to learn from each other so that you can satisfy each other fully.
I tell her how I like my cock to be sucked. She was stroking my cock one time and she was sliding her and across it up and down and I straight up told her, don’t do it like that baby, hold it tight and make the skin move.
And she said oh, the last guy I was with liked it like that.
And I said, I’m not that guy! I’m different, and I like things differently.
She understood this, and no feelings were hurt, so she did it the way I liked it from then on.
And this is how I think every relationship should be. If you can’t talk to each other without pissing each other off in the process, then you have a problem and you need to fix it, or your relationship is doomed.
3. If you look at your woman as just a sex object then your relationship in the sex department will go to shit!
What do I mean when I say you look at her as a sex object?
If you get mad when your woman is not in the mood to have sex with you and she knows you are mad, this will hurt her feelings and make her think that is all she is worth to you.
Don’t get mad guys. It’s just one night. There are other nights to fuck, don’t be selfish just because you wanted to get off.
Now if she is never in the mood to have sex. Then that is another problem.
It may be that she has lost passion in you because you are the minute man and you can last long enough to satisfy her needs only sees sex has a means of satisfying your needs. She needs to come first.
If you have a problem in that department practice edging.
What is edging?
When jacking off stop right before you cum. Then let it subside a bit.
Then jack off again till you almost cum, and then stop again.
Keep repeating this several times before cuming.
This will help you last longer in bed.
Practice this every day until you can do it for at least 10-15 minutes before you actually let your load out.
This will also help your load to go further and have a much fuller load to spew upon your victim.
Another reason she may be faking an orgasm is that you are not hitting her spots.
Her G spot is one: It is the spot that is only about 3-4 inches right behind the clit. So if you put her legs up on your shoulders and raise her ass up a bit, you should be hitting her G spot nicely.
Another spot is her C spot: This is the woman’s cervix. Some women love it when the tip of your cock hits this.
Other women say that it shocks them and they don’t like it. For you to hit this one though you will need a long peter, because depending on the women’s Virgina size, it usually tucks itself back when she is having intercourse. I think 7 or 8 inches usually does the trick for pretty much most of the women.
There are two other spots and they are called Deep spots. These you will have to find yourself through experimenting on your girl. But there is one on the top of the Virgina canal and to the back while the other is on the bottom and to the back. See if she lets you while finger her find these spots. Ask her to tell you when it feels good while rubbing in those areas. Once you find them you will know where to go next time.
4. If a woman has fallen out of love with you…
Sometimes this happens on both ends, we just fall out of love with people for various reasons and there is nothing we can do.
We can try and rekindle the flame, but for the most part, once it is gone it is very hard to get back.
So we just have to move on and learn from our mistakes. It’s all a learning phase of life that we have to all go through.
In the best case after this happens, we hope that we can remain friends and find out what happen in the first place and learn not to do that again in the future with the next person.
5. It’s your cock or you don’t know how to use it.
Your cock maybe small and you don’t know how to use it.
If you cock is small guys you really need to learn all the techniques you can. If you are average you are ok and chances are you can satisfy her using various techniques. Use passion and know where all her spots are. Learn how to give her that big oh and then you will see that size really does not’t matter to some girls. Some girls it does, but some it don’t as long as you use passion in the bedroom.
Your cock maybe big and you don’t know how to use it.
If you don’t know how to fuck a girl right, it does not’t matter how big you are. I have had women tell me this all the time. Oh, yeah he was big, but he didn't’t know how to use it. I have heard this time and time again. So do your homework guys, and learn all the techniques you need for satisfying her. It’s not as simple as sticking it in and going in and out. In fact, girls don’t really like that. You have to change up your rhythm. Move side to side. Go in circles. If you just stroke her the same speed and rhythm, in and out, in and out, she will get bored with this.
Change up your stroke speed and techniques to keep it fresh and not anticipated your every move. If she does not’t know what you’re going to do next it makes it exciting. Keep that in mind. Women love adventure especially in the bed room.
Your cock maybe to big for her and it hurts her so she does not’t want sex as much.
If your cock is too big for her and you are hurting her, she will not want to have sex with you. Yes, there are girls out there with very small pussies and you cock might be too big to accommodate her. Pussies do stretch to accommodate, but as canny as it may sound, I have heard stories from a few girls that left their man because he was too big for her and it hurt too much to have sex.
Your cock maybe small and it does not fill her up to satisfy her enough.
(In this case PE for more girth, girth is important for most women, whereas length may not be as much) Some girls like more length compared to girth, every women is different. I ask my girl if she had a choice on what she wanted from me more girth or more length and she said more length. So this will tell you that every girl has different preferences of what they like better.
Well I hope you enjoy this and it helps you some.
(If you want to include this on another forum you have my permission to use it as long as you include my name on it, so I remain the author.)
Thanks,
Ronnie Rokk
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