5 Reasons that a girl may cheat on you and you don’t know why

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

I think considerate and nice guys would generally be better in bed. I know a few 'playas' who (I have been told at least) are awful in bed. It's about getting the poon and getting their rocks off.
Unlike myself, who can be one of the nicest guys ever (bearing you're not the dude in front of me on the road), and I can get my girl to cum until she doesn't want to anymore.
It's not about being bad or good. If you're a pushover or a pussy she might leave you for a 'bad boy' but it wasn't because you're nice. It's because you're a pushover or a pussy. If you're a dick the sex won't keep a woman around unless she has mental issues or had previous relationship problems.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Just because some david guy had bad experiences and wrote a book doesn't mean it's science and how everyone thinks.

Exactly.....

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

That is very North American though, despite Europe's reputation for sexual liberty if you date someone it is implied and expected that it is exclusive

Is that really the reputation North America has? I live here and I would say the norm is if you are officially dating someone it is expected automatically to be exclusive. There are polymorous people in all parts of the world but I assure you we dont get a free pass while we are in a relationship just because we are North American.

I am Canadian though...

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Rokk has a few points though. The women who get drawn into the badboy thing either need protection (they've become accustomed to living with protection) or they're seeking out the father they never had.

For the most part, women crave "protection" in one form or another. The badboy gives them the protection aspect, but it can always turn around on them, and that's something they never see coming. I was once told by a few female friends that they want a guy that scares them... Makes them feel like they can be put in their place, and gives them a feeling that he'd hit them, even though he never would. a "rough neck" as they said. I found that to be VERY disturbing. If a guy makes you feel like he may hit you, or can intimidate other people, what makes you think he wont turn that ability on you? A woman who's impressed by your "fight" skills isn't a keeper, she's still Subpar mentally.

As far as the reasons a woman will cheat?

Well, it's not always the sex... It's the same reasons men cheat. My thing is to never try to look at women as being mentally different from men when it comes to relationships. We need our space, and we need our time, but we also NEED attention/love/affection and to feel wanted and important. If someone gives your wife/girlfriend/fiancee/whatever the thing she needs in the relationship, you're likely to make her stray, just like a guy.

She needs Space, Self-time, Attention/love/affection, and Good sex. Good sex doesn't only come from a big penis, it comes from the love/affection part of it. Guys cheat, most of the time, because women give them the attention/affection (which most of the time is tied into "sex" and the desire for it) that their wives/girlfriends/fiancee/whatever stop giving them for one reason or another. When a woman uses sex to control a relationship, she increases the likelihood of her husband/boyfriend to cheat, and that causes the man to look like the dirtbag when in fact, it was her fault to begin with, for not communicating her displeasure.

I'm not a bad boy and while sometimes one of my Ex's liked sex pretty rough, I was never that guy. I realize that's something I've gotta get used to and I've gotta get "turned-on" by because some women like that. You never know if they do or not because most of them don't know it until someone does it to them. It's good to have that in your arsenal because if you don't she may get that 20% guy that gives it to her rough when you don't

There's a theory (off a movie, of course, but it's sound). You cheat because you don't appreciate the 80% you have, and you see that 20% you don't have in someone else. most of the time for guys, it's the girl that takes care of herself. For some reason, men see a hot girl and lose their minds, their girlfriends may have stopped taking care of themselves and they're interested in a certain look. That, in itself, is part of the reason. A guy that is too shallow to appreciate his woman in all her forms (overweight, underweight, makeup, no makeup, all of these) is a guy who will cheat on his woman because she doesn't do these with him.

Women are the same way, though less likely to tie cheating aspect to sex, they emotionally want to be attached to a hotter guy if they value that highly. Whatever they value highly will be what they cheat on their husband/boyfriend/fiance/whatever with. Women will cheat on her guy emotionally which then leads to physically. Studies have shown woman are more likely to be polyamorous and they can cheat emotionally and not feel like they're cheating because they never had sex with the guy.

Gah, i can go on and on on this subject and I'm sure that whole post was freestyle so it followed no structural hierarchy but Meh... Women will cheat for more than "5 reasons" and a lot more than those 5 reasons in the first post.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

The idea is, you'll never be perfect... Just like a woman will never be perfect. That's why we still have automobile accidents and plane crashes, You'll never get all As, and you'll never be 100% at everything.

The best thing to do, is be yourself. A woman that cheats on you for being yourself isn't worth worrying about. She wasn't the type of woman that's compatible with you.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

Here's an article for you guys to chew on...

She's Been Promoted - 6 Signs She's Thinking of Cheating

[needhelp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close needhelp]

Just like a woman will never be perfect. That's why we still have automobile accidents

Had to do it lol.

[needhelp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close needhelp]

oh,

One thing I forgot to write in there is this.

once these girls or guys find out you are dating others in the process, that will make them want you more.

Because they want to be the one to win your heart over.

this is true, girls want what they cant have

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

LOL!!!!! *facepalm*

I was afraid that would make its way into a conjoined sentence LMAO!!