Is this the reason for her low sex drive?

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

DAMN!! She has time to masturbate 10 times a day? Everyday? Holy Heck...what kind of career/lifestyle does she have that enables her to have that kind of time??? Please share...I may have to switch careers!!

were still in school. She orgasms 10 times a day. That might be in one sitting aswell.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

were still in school. She orgasms 10 times a day. That might be in one sitting aswell.

I was just teasing Boosie...but seriously, I don't think over-stimulation is the problem I agree with with MrsDon...your girl may have an addiction to masturbation...it is likely the thoughts she thinks, the fantasy she has, the way she touches herself, the easy release is kind of a distraction, a sort of the stress relief (from studying too hard??) that is causing an addiction.

Ask her about these things to see if you can include them when you are together...let her show you how she likes to touch herself when she is masturbating, ask her what she thinks about, that sort of thing.

Also, a lot of women become overly concerned about making sure their partner is sexually satisfied that they cannot relax enough and just enjoy their own pleasure...that may be why she can only orgasm once when you are together.

[ronnierokk Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ronnierokk]

Sometimes women who use vibrators to get themselves off become accustom to that feeling and only that feeling will get them off. I don't know if your girl is using a vibrator or dildo, so I'm not sure on that, but only stating what I've learned.

If it is a vibrator, then you need to wing her off it for a month or so, so that her body and nerve endings down there can go back to the natural state, so that they become more sensitive to other feelings again.

Hope this helps a bit.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

I was just teasing Boosie...but seriously, I don't think over-stimulation is the problem I agree with with MrsDon...your girl may have an addiction to masturbation...it is likely the thoughts she thinks, the fantasy she has, the way she touches herself, the easy release is kind of a distraction, a sort of the stress relief (from studying too hard??) that is causing an addiction.

Ask her about these things to see if you can include them when you are together...let her show you how she likes to touch herself when she is masturbating, ask her what she thinks about, that sort of thing.

Also, a lot of women become overly concerned about making sure their partner is sexually satisfied that they cannot relax enough and just enjoy their own pleasure...that may be why she can only orgasm once when you are together.

She already showed me once how she usually touches herself, but it's just hard to mimic. Same for me i showed her how i like it but it just isnt the same thing.
fyi, i knew you were teasing.

Sometimes women who use vibrators to get themselves off become accustom to that feeling and only that feeling will get them off. I don't know if your girl is using a vibrator or dildo, so I'm not sure on that, but only stating what I've learned.

If it is a vibrator, then you need to wing her off it for a month or so, so that her body and nerve endings down there can go back to the natural state, so that they become more sensitive to other feelings again.

Hope this helps a bit.

i NOW know she does not own a dildo or a vibrator. She doesen't like those things. I asked her if she wanted me to buy a vibrator that we could use. And she said that she is fine without one. sooo ??? im just clueless what to do.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

This might be it.

What about just herself? For example iron grip for us men.

The vibe is like porn and dearg grip for men

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Umm guys everyone keeps acting like 10 orgasms a day is a big deal. If she is multi orgasmic, that might be one session of less than 30 min hell for all we know it might be 4min.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

cuz it takes her 15 minutes of licking at the EXACT same place for her to get off, my tounge hurts after awhile.

Finger bang that A Spot and G Spot while your lick and suck her clit.

Make it so good for her, that she won't want to masturbate because you can do it better!

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Finger bang that A Spot and G Spot while your lick and suck her clit.

Make it so good for her, that she won't want to masturbate because you can do it better!

Tried it once, she said she didn't like it.

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

Boosie how about fuck her and suck her titties at the same time? If she puts them together for me so I can suck both nipples at the same time I can make her cum vaginally while doing it.
It takes some acrobatics during missionary ("Snake Man!") on my part, she's 5' and I am 6'-8" but it works. Its easier in the cowgirl position.

Are you sure you are hitting that deep spot right? The faucet sposed to go on if you press down there. Roadmap.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Boosie how about fuck her and suck her titties at the same time? If she puts them together for me so I can suck both nipples at the same time I can make her cum vaginally while doing it.
It takes some acrobatics during missionary ("Snake Man!") on my part, she's 5' and I am 6'-8" but it works. Its easier in the cowgirl position.

Are you sure you are hitting that deep spot right? The faucet sposed to go on if you press down there. Roadmap.

I try to suck them as much as i can haha.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Tried it once, she said she didn't like it.

She doesn't like the A Spot? Or G Spot? WAIT WHAT!?!?!!? Maybe your technique is a little off?... or even bad timing?

Not sure if you posted this or not, but maybe you should ask her what kind of stimulating she does during masturbation.

Or maybe.... you could just ask her to masturbate in front of you, so you can turn her on, and observe..

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

She doesn't like the A Spot? Or G Spot? WAIT WHAT!?!?!!? Maybe your technique is a little off?... or even bad timing?

Not sure if you posted this or not, but maybe you should ask her what kind of stimulating she does during masturbation.

Or maybe.... you could just ask her to masturbate in front of you, so you can turn her on, and observe..

Haven't really tried the A spot yet since i forgot about it, used it tons of times on my ex tho which enjoyed it.

She doesen't like me stimulating her G spot while going down on her. She says it distracts her from the actual licking part (which she likes more).

[bahamaboner71 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bahamaboner71]

Haven't really tried the A spot yet since i forgot about it, used it tons of times on my ex tho which enjoyed it.

She doesen't like me stimulating her G spot while going down on her. She says it distracts her from the actual licking part (which she likes more).

Watch this, you can thank me later. The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Watch this, you can thank me later. The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion

Yeah i alwauys knew have to. Just didnt know that it was called the a spot. Thanks anyway though.

I'm trying it for sure next time.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I hope I did not word my prior post wrong, I do not think that she is cheating on you at all, I meant that she may be lying a bit about getting herself off 10 times a day so you will not think she does not want you. I dont think she is beating her own twat 10 times a day. I think she has some issues in her head and she could not think of a better way to say that she is not into sex at the moment.

I do not think she has a problem with you nor do I think this is in any way your fault. It sounds to me like she may have some things she needs to sort out. She may not be happy with herself.