Is this the reason for her low sex drive?

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

I hope I did not word my prior post wrong, I do not think that she is cheating on you at all, I meant that she may be lying a bit about getting herself off 10 times a day so you will not think she does not want you. I dont think she is beating her own twat 10 times a day. I think she has some issues in her head and she could not think of a better way to say that she is not into sex at the moment.

I do not think she has a problem with you nor do I think this is in any way your fault. It sounds to me like she may have some things she needs to sort out. She may not be happy with herself.

She has alot of insecurities about her own body which she has told me, And sometimes she doesen't really feel sexy when we are having sex etc. That contributes to it. For the beating twat 10 times a day part. She just orgasms 10 times per session. It's still pretty hard to compete with that tho haha. Yeah i misunderstod what you were trying to say before. Sorry about that.

[Robberman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Robberman]

How much time you do spend making her feel sexy outside of sex? Because if you spend that little bit of time, like saying "STOP!, I have to kiss you while you look like that" in the middle of a supermarket (This may be extreme), and do it often she'll eventually see you see her as sexy.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

How much time you do spend making her feel sexy outside of sex? Because if you spend that little bit of time, like saying "STOP!, I have to kiss you while you look like that" in the middle of a supermarket (This may be extreme), and do it often she'll eventually see you see her as sexy.

Dude i tell her and make sure she feels sexy allll the time. I feel like im over doing it sometimes.

Im working hard on keeping it balanced.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

If this was a girl asking about a guy with low drive porn would come up a lot . The female equivlent is vibe overuse.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

If this was a girl asking about a guy with low drive porn would come up a lot . The female equivlent is vibe overuse.

She doesen't have a vibrator.

[greymouser Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greymouser]

if you have the means and opportunity to find another GF then do it....
you are spoiling her personality and feeding her false information if you act as if sex is no big deal for men..
how will she fare after you ??
oblivious of her problem she can go like that for all her life and be rejected or cheated on if she gets married..


but seriously a woman with a low sex drive is like a child with the appearance of a woman..
having sex with her is like border line rape...
and it's going to kill gradually your mood .. which could make you drop on EQ ...

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

if you have the means and opportunity to find another GF then do it....
you are spoiling her personality and feeding her false information if you act as if sex is no big deal for men..
how will she fare after you ??
oblivious of her problem she can go like that for all her life and be rejected or cheated on if she gets married..


but seriously a woman with a low sex drive is like a child with the appearance of a woman..
having sex with her is like border line rape...
and it's going to kill gradually your mood .. which could make you drop on EQ ...

I'm not feeding her false information, I said its a problem but i like her so much so that i will deal with it. She has periods where her sex drive is higher but not that often.

Sex is a HUGE deal in a relationship and so i've told her. It's been killing my mood for the last months and my EQ as dropped like crazy. The getting a new GF has crossed my mind plenty of times :/

[greymouser Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greymouser]

if you like being with her then you are satisfied,
she must know that it is a huge deal and that for you too it is a huge deal..or else she will think that you are like her that your sex drive is low..
once that crucial information is shared,
it is really up to you to convey to her your uneasiness about the subject or cope with it once and for all,
but you still have to do some minor investigations, just to make sure that no important detail is being overlooked...

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

if you like being with her then you are satisfied,
she must know that it is a huge deal and that for you too it is a huge deal..or else she will think that you are like her that your sex drive is low..
once that crucial information is shared,
it is really up to you to convey to her your uneasiness about the subject or cope with it once and for all,
but you still have to do some minor investigations, just to make sure that no important detail is being overlooked...

She knows that i hate that her sex drive is low. She says that she can't do anything about it. She even told me once that i can have sex with random chicks just to satisfie my sex drive but i passed up on that obviously because it would only lead to more problems. I don't really know what to do, I'm just gonna wait and see how it is after the summer.

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She doesen't have a vibrator.

Lots of guys with porn issues their partners never know.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Lots of guys with porn issues their partners never know.

Yeah i know what you are saying, But she really doesen't. If shes not hiding it better then 007 spy camera. She lives in an apartment with 1 room and i helped her move in etc. She has showed me how she gets herself of. Just by her own hands.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

She knows that i hate that her sex drive is low. She says that she can't do anything about it. She even told me once that i can have sex with random chicks just to satisfie my sex drive but i passed up on that obviously because it would only lead to more problems. I don't really know what to do, I'm just gonna wait and see how it is after the summer.

Top 8 Libido killers.......

1. Stress from job or family
2. Lack of exercise (no time for the gym etc)
3. Crappy diet effecting bowel movements etc. Fast food greasy crap is a no no for healthy active sex live!
4. The days before her period
5. BIRTH Control
6. Prozac, Xanex, Diazepam and Vallium. Even Benadryle for allergies reduces vaginal moisture and reduces libido. Marijuana completely reduces labido.
7. Medical issues...low testosterone or low thyroid.
8. Her multiple orgasms per day alone without you.

All of these can be fixed. The first step is finding the problem. If the two of you can figure this out, she wont be able to keep her hands out of your pants.

I think it's sad the world medical community have not come up with a male birth control to retard sperm. Make sperm retarded and swim in circles or something. Since sperm is "NOT" a male hormone or required for sex drive it would be easy to do.....Instead the male doctors and scientist have "cut their own throats" by creating birth control for women that kills libido and turns some of us in psycho bitches while we are on it!

OK.....done ranting......If you love her and want to stay with her, check into the 8 things I listed and see if any of them are causing your problems.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

If she is masturbating every day then her sex drive is not low. Something else is going on..... Frog's advice is good. Check out all of these and above all, talk with her about it!

Perhaps you should both try abstaining from solo sex for some period of time to see what it does for your relationship. If she knows that you are doing the same thing, then perhaps she would be willing to give it a try too.

[Boosie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Boosie]

Top 8 Libido killers.......

1. Stress from job or family
2. Lack of exercise (no time for the gym etc)
3. Crappy diet effecting bowel movements etc. Fast food greasy crap is a no no for healthy active sex live!
4. The days before her period
5. BIRTH Control
6. Prozac, Xanex, Diazepam and Vallium. Even Benadryle for allergies reduces vaginal moisture and reduces libido. Marijuana completely reduces labido.
7. Medical issues...low testosterone or low thyroid.
8. Her multiple orgasms per day alone without you.

1. There is some stress.
2. She goes to the gym regularly with me.
3. Good died.
4. She has injected a thing in her arm (dno what its called in english) She had bad sex drive before this tho.
5. She was on pills before it was bad then to. We have tried staying away from pills etc for around 2 months. It didnt get better.
6. She takes pills for ADHD
7. nah
8. Batwoman said that its the other way around?

If she is masturbating every day then her sex drive is not low. Something else is going on..... Frog's advice is good. Check out all of these and above all, talk with her about it!

Perhaps you should both try abstaining from solo sex for some period of time to see what it does for your relationship. If she knows that you are doing the same thing, then perhaps she would be willing to give it a try too.

We have tried it for abit, She couldn't stay away from it tho and cheated haha. Nothing happened.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

1. There is some stress.
2. She goes to the gym regularly with me.
3. Good died.
4. She has injected a thing in her arm (dno what its called in english) She had bad sex drive before this tho.
5. She was on pills before it was bad then to. We have tried staying away from pills etc for around 2 months. It didnt get better.
6. She takes pills for ADHD
7. nah
8. Batwoman said that its the other way around?

We have tried it for abit, She couldn't stay away from it tho and cheated haha. Nothing happened.

Yes...but no....If it's #8 her libido is fine! But she uses it all up on herself! I personally would not be interested in sex with Brad Pitt if I already had as many orgasms a day as your girl does. She addicted to it. This is just as harmful to your relationship as you being addicted to porn.

You BOTH need to stay away from self gratification! See what happens....I think your sex would be amazingly explosive! If she cant stay away from masturbation to orgasm, then that ABSOLUTELY is the root of all your problems!