Is she telling the truth?

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It's not really a big deal but there is something that bugs me every now and then. I am seeing this woman who has told me on many occasions that she has never had an orgasm during intercourse. She even told me that she dated a guy once who was huge but never did come with him in her. I get that. Most women can't.

But the first time we had sex, she must have come at least 6 times while I was in her. And this continues to this day. Now, she seems to be coming every 30 seconds when we have sex.

What is bothering me is was she lying that she never came with anyone else in her, or is she faking it now? I tend to believe her and I don't think she is faking; its kinda hard to fake wet sheets and spasms, I think.

What do you guys think?

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

LOL who freeking cares! you are the man

[SizeMatters Member Find all posts View Profile Close SizeMatters]

Thanks ZEN, I don't really care so much. It's just one of those nagging things at the back of your head I guess!

[burt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close burt]

Exactly, who cares, right?

She's orgasming with you, and that's all that matters.

p.s. for the record...women tend to lie, a lot

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Honestly, she may have said that to you at first so in case you couldn't you would feel bad. And she may be 100% honest. I mean a big dick helps, but knowing what you are doing is far more important.

[Nikki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Nikki]

its kinda hard to fake wet sheets and spasms, I think.

What do you guys think?

I think here is your answer! You obviously are doing something that the other guys weren't. How much foreplay do you perform on her? Also, she might finally be "discovering" her body and is now, thanks to you, really starting to enjoy sex! Good job; keep up the good work!

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I think here is your answer! You obviously are doing something that the other guys weren't. How much foreplay do you perform on her? Also, she might finally be "discovering" her body and is now, thanks to you, really starting to enjoy sex! Good job; keep up the good work!

I do take my time with the foreplay. She says she's never had fingers and tongue used on her the way I use it (I hope thats a truth, lol). As a matter of fact, in between intercourse sessions, she takes my hand and guides it inside her, lol. I never enter her unless she's already had a couple of orgasm during the foreplay. Almost makes me wonder if I would fuck things up by PEing and changing the shape/size of my penis.

[Nikki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Nikki]

I do take my time with the foreplay. She says she's never had fingers and tongue used on her the way I use it (I hope thats a truth, lol). As a matter of fact, in between intercourse sessions, she takes my hand and guides it inside her, lol. I never enter her unless she's already had a couple of orgasm during the foreplay. Almost makes me wonder if I would fuck things up by PEing and changing the shape/size of my penis.

Well, congratulations! You understand the significance of foreplay. I wouldn't think she is making any of that up. She probably had very inexperienced guys in the past who did not understand how important foreplay is for women. As far as your comment about making your penis larger, as long as you get her sufficiently aroused in foreplay, she should be able to handle your additional size.

[Dad Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dad]

If I think a girl is telling a lie, or has told a lie, I just never mention it again but assume it's truth. But no one, liar or not, likes to be made felt a liar, especially when the lie was in your best interest. My ex had so many lies about her exes and what she had done it was retarded, but I knew I was fucking her and no one else was, I made her cum and she made me cum. Nothing else mattered. Some girls "treat others how they want to be treated" she is probably not the girl who wants to hear about your past experiences and how kinky your exes were. How tight/wet her pussy or how she swallows your cock. Keep that shit to yourself and respect her past by letting her keep it to herself.

For me there are things I do not want to know, I won't ask and will usually say "Shut up, keep it to yourself!" Like how many partners, crazy places you've had sex, yadda. That shit will only turn me off and it will turn her off because when your fucking and cannot cum she will be thinking "Damn, why did I say 12, I should have gone w/ 7, really it's like 34, gawd, I'm such a slut, he is an asshole for making me answer."

Dad

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It's not really a big deal but there is something that bugs me every now and then. I am seeing this woman who has told me on many occasions that she has never had an orgasm during intercourse. She even told me that she dated a guy once who was huge but never did come with him in her. I get that. Most women can't.

But the first time we had sex, she must have come at least 6 times while I was in her. And this continues to this day. Now, she seems to be coming every 30 seconds when we have sex.

What is bothering me is was she lying that she never came with anyone else in her, or is she faking it now? I tend to believe her and I don't think she is faking; its kinda hard to fake wet sheets and spasms, I think.

What do you guys think?

I'm going to say she's being truthful and here's why. My ex gf and current fuck buddy NEVER had an orgasm with her ex husband of 25 years. He was a mean, nasty, ill tempered mother fucker that she only had sex with to keep him from being mean to their kids.

Fast forward to 9/08 when she and I met. Very shortly after we met, we started having regular sex...................ALOT and I do mean ALOT of sex............like 7 days a week on average over the span of several months (we broke up 2 weeks ago and we STILL fuck like rabbits). Anyway, she would only orgasm once I came inside of her and since I had a vasectomy many years ago, I came inside her every time. She would instantly have an orgasm once I came. I've never experienced anything like it. My ex wife couldn't climax if you paid her to and this one managed to orgasm and cum with me in total unison. I think it's because she was totally in love with me, because my dick is ALOT bigger than her ex husband's (her words, not mine) and because I treated her like a woman and not a fuckin' pile of monkey shit. Add those qualities up and it's very likely that your girl could be cumming multiple times during intercourse. It's also important for me to note that my ex did not want any oral, something to this day I don't get but whatever. She could only climax and cum from my actual dick being inside her.

So, yes, I think she is telling you the truth.

[burt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close burt]

I predict MrBigDick won't have an "ex" much longer. he he

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I predict MrBigDick won't have an "ex" much longer. he he

Nope, not going back to being her boyfriend...........she has too much emotional baggage from that 25 year marriage from hell that she chose to stay in. She and I are not emotionally compatible HOWEVER, our sexual chemistry is fucking amazing which is why we keep having sex a few days a week. I do love her but I can't be in a one sided relationship where she's entitled to her feelings and expects me to validate her but my feelings can go fuck themselves. Doesn't work that way, at least not for me. BUT, she's a great woman overall and a great fuck. AND, she sucks cock like no other AND swallows.

[Dad Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dad]

Nope, not going back to being her boyfriend...........she has too much emotional baggage from that 25 year marriage from hell that she chose to stay in. She and I are not emotionally compatible HOWEVER, our sexual chemistry is fucking amazing which is why we keep having sex a few days a week. I do love her but I can't be in a one sided relationship where she's entitled to her feelings and expects me to validate her but my feelings can go fuck themselves. Doesn't work that way, at least not for me. BUT, she's a great woman overall and a great fuck. AND, she sucks cock like no other AND swallows.

You are a rad dude BMD, I never miss what you have to say in a thread. It's also good to see some guys have balls (self respect) to make desisions like this. It sure helps when you still get the milk though... I hope you can stay friends, it seems like she could use your support even after you get's stop fucking.

Dad

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You are a rad dude BMD, I never miss what you have to say in a thread. It's also good to see some guys have balls (self respect) to make desisions like this. It sure helps when you still get the milk though... I hope you can stay friends, it seems like she could use your support even after you get's stop fucking.

Dad

Wow. "Rad" huh??? Shit, I haven't been referred to as "rad" since like 1986!! lol

I'm glad you enjoy my posts Dad. I'm just being me. I'm a real, genuine person with real feelings and emotions. My ex might not wish to validate my feelings but they exist and it's because of her female ego that she's now lost me as her bf. I did alot for that woman (washed and gased up her car, cleaned her house, cleaned the kitchen after she cooked, helped take care of her son and MUCH, MUCH MORE) and when I begin to feel I'm being taken for granted as I did just before I pulled the plug, I take everything away. She used to cook alot for me and over the past few months, she slowly stopped doing any of that or very little of it yet I continued to do what I do which is give. I know my self worth and I know what I have to offer and this was a case where she needed me alot more than I needed her. I'm 39, she's 50. She's in great shape, don't get me wrong but I was just fed up with being made to pay for all the shit her ex husband put her through. All the things he wouldn't do, she demanded I did and I did them and she STILL made me pay for his actions and I just got fucking tired of it. So, I pulled all of my generosity and now she's by herself and alone. All those things I did for her she must now do herself, including take care of her 20 year old, intellectually challenged son, which is a full time job in and of itself.

BUT, we did and continue to have great sexual chemistry and despite our break up, we're still maitaining a friendship and still having sex 2-3 times per week. This way she can live her life as she wants, I can live mine and still date other women and we still meet up for sex, which takes ALOT of the pressure out of the equation for her and myself. Besides, she's got a libido that won't quit and since she doesn't trust men, I'm it when it comes to her booty call.

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BUT, we did and continue to have great sexual chemistry and despite our break up, we're still maitaining a friendship and still having sex 2-3 times per week. This way she can live her life as she wants, I can live mine and still date other women and we still meet up for sex, which takes ALOT of the pressure out of the equation for her and myself. Besides, she's got a libido that won't quit and since she doesn't trust men, I'm it when it comes to her booty call.

WOW you dropped a bomb with this post. Sounds like you got a good situation here. It's silly to waste time with someone who will end up making you unhappy. Its not my business but it did sound like she had some hang ups. Good for you