Is she telling the truth?

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

MBD. I wholeheartedly agree with you. In fact, you've helped me realize why I failed to make 2 girls orgasm in my sexual career. I never treated them with passion. It was all about getting to my dick. And actually with one of them, I never even got close to cumming even though her first blow job was spectacular. The other girls that have told me their legs were shaking, goosebumps, etc. I had pet names for them, I was well acquainted with them before hooking up, and I was more passionate with their bodies.
Getting back to the OP: there are ways to tell. 1. Does her tongue get cold after she "cums"? 2. Are her cheeks flushed? 3. And Of course can you feel the contractions?
Also another tell tale sign. Most women don't actually make noises when they're orgasming. They'll moan and squeek up until the contractions are about to happen. If she's still talking, yelling, moaning, etc. through what you perceive as an orgasm then it may be fake. But hey, she cares enough about you to make you feel better about the sex. Even if she doesn't cum, sex is still enjoyable to women and it still feels good.

[SizeMatters Member Find all posts View Profile Close SizeMatters]

Based on the answers here I am pretty convinced she is being honest. Thanks guys! I feel a lot better too, lol.

[baybabe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close baybabe]

Getting back to the OP: there are ways to tell. 1. Does her tongue get cold after she "cums"? 2. Are her cheeks flushed? 3. And Of course can you feel the contractions?
Also another tell tale sign. Most women don't actually make noises when they're orgasming. They'll moan and squeek up until the contractions are about to happen. If she's still talking, yelling, moaning, etc. through what you perceive as an orgasm then it may be fake. But hey, she cares enough about you to make you feel better about the sex. Even if she doesn't cum, sex is still enjoyable to women and it still feels good.

You just unveiled our secrets! There is no way a women can fake an orgasm if you know this.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Yo 10 or whatever you are here, you and Renee are all done? Hope it works out well for you!

[4_to_7 Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4_to_7]

I get what's bugging you! My current fuck buddy says no other guy gave her an orgasm before me. She says she always got pleasure from penetration but never actually had a REAL orgasm from it. She also said no other guy eats or finger her like I do. She says my techniques are exceptionnals, but I'm pretty sure she is lying to me. I really dont get what is so exceptionnal about my techniques. When I finger her, I just alternate between hard fingering and grinding her G-Spot with my fingers and when I eat her I just do the same but add my tongue into the mix. The way I penetrate her is too long to explain.


Like NP97 said, women propably lie about that kind of things to protect us. I can tell you it would make a lot of sense considering our history. If like me you expressed some insecurities in the past, this might be the case.

[baybabe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close baybabe]

Sometimes we lie about orgasms because it takes the pressure off you guys which in turn takes the pressure off us to have an orgasm and that equals...relaxed...relaxed equals...unbelievable orgasms for us. We take more time to cum than you guys do so when you ask us after sex if it happened, we tell you yes so that the next time you wont be a freak about helping us have an orgasm. The best orgasms I ever had were with a partner that just did his thing and didnt go crazy trying to please me. If you keep switching it up, we have to start over rebuilding an orgasm. We orgasm like a freight train...slow and powerful. You guys are like a speed bike fast and thrilling. I like to be fucked at a steady rhythm for at LEAST 3-5min if he wants me to cum but heres the deal, theres no way Im gonna tell him that. You know why? Because he will go crazy trying to please me or set a timer lol then I will feel pressured. You guys can get really OCD about giving us an orgasm. A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were having sex in the hot tub, he was so hard and it was just the right angle, he was on top and moving at the perfect speed. Problem was that as soon as I was REALLY feelin the orgasm build (prob about a minute or two) he was too close. Then I was pulling him closer and probably contracting muscles around his cock unknowingly, there was no way to speed up the slow build but I was RIGHT THERE! I guess he thought I had finished so he did his thing then thrust it in and out really slowly and pulled out...what a let down. So, I was still obviously horny and he says "I got mine, didnt you?" I told him how I was in the middle of it when he finished. But anyway, I guess thats why we dont tell you guys stuff cause we feel like its our fault, you guys dont realize that it takes time for a women to get to the final release, even though we are climaxing the whole time thats why we moan and pant.

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

I agree with everyone here. I do think you are doing something extremely right with the foreplay and I would keep up the muff diving/cunnilingus for sure, if done right that really has them begging for intercourse. And who knows how much good it does for getting her in the "orgasming mood" but I bet it put her in the mindset to orgasm more easily once you enter her.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

WOW you dropped a bomb with this post. Sounds like you got a good situation here. It's silly to waste time with someone who will end up making you unhappy. Its not my business but it did sound like she had some hang ups. Good for you

Sorry bb, I didn't mean to throw you for a loop. The situation at this point is great for both of us. I just cannot and will not be her pillar of salt when she refuses to be mine or can't be mine because of some emotional bullshit going on in her life. Emotions and feelings are a two way street in a relationship and damn it, I deserve that same consideration and respect from her that I gave to her for 15 fucking months. PLUS, I refuse to pay anymore for what her ex husband did to her and what she allowed herself to be put through for 25 years. Tired of it and I've had enough. I only pull the plug on someone when I feel that no matter what I say or do, I'm not going to get the 50% equal footing that I'm asking for. Hell, I know in a relationship that one person typically does more of the work and I get that but I'm not into 80/20 or 70/30 splits.


And hell, even today, she went to traffic court to take care of a fix it ticket she got 10/08. She got the car she had at the time fixed but she never followed through with the directions on the back of the ticket, which was mailing the thing in once a CHP officer signed off on it. Sooooooo, she ended up texting me today from traffic court freaked out and stressed out over having to pay a $350 fine if the judge didn't dismiss the fines she racked up. Anyhoo, 'ol reliable MrBigDick was the one who was called and talked her down off the ledge. And yet, what happened to the spaghetti dinner I was told I had earned??? Hmmm, gee, still waiting to collect.........

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Yo 10 or whatever you are here, you and Renee are all done? Hope it works out well for you!

Thank you CUSP82.............it'll work out just fine for me. I'm not worried. This world is FULL of gorgeous, young, healthy and sexually charged up females all looking for MrBigDick.

[burt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close burt]

I just want to say that if a woman lies to me about her having an orgasm, its her loss. If she can't be honest, how the hell am I supposed to know what she likes? I'm a pretty confident guy and its definitely not going to hurt my feelings if they don't orgasm. Like I've always said, it should be 50/50. p.s. ...... I think asking a women if she "came" is about the dopiest, dumbest, thing possible. If you can't tell the diference between porn acting and the real deal, my god, you need help.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I just want to say that if a woman lies to me about her having an orgasm, its her loss. If she can't be honest, how the hell am I supposed to know what she likes? I'm a pretty confident guy and its definitely not going to hurt my feelings if they don't orgasm. Like I've always said, it should be 50/50. p.s. ...... I think asking a women if she "came" is about the dopiest, dumbest, thing possible. If you can't tell the diference between porn acting and the real deal, my god, you need help.

Guess I'm a dopey, dumb guy because I have asked my ex if she came after we had sex. IMO, even though she moans and I can tell she had an orgasm, I want to know that she did. It's not all about me getting off, it's also about her getting off as well.

[burt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close burt]

Yes, like you said, you can tell. You already know she did, but having her say it is a turn-on or makes you feel good. That is different. But a dummy, like lots of men who can't tell that the moaning and groaning on porns is fake, don't know.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Yes, like you said, you can tell. You already know she did, but having her say it is a turn-on or makes you feel good. That is different. But a dummy, like lots of men who can't tell that the moaning and groaning on porns is fake, don't know.

My goal is to make certain she's gotten off and she's thoroughly enjoyed the experience. Sex should be fun, feel good and just be a great thing two people enjoy together. My ex will grab me very tightly, moan and rub her clit against my big, hard cock while I'm thrusting it in and out of her. Then, she'll tell me in a very seductive voice "I'm your slut and you can fuck this pussy whenever you want baby, it's yours for the taking...........come on, I want every last drop" and that's usually all it takes and I fucking orgasm and explode inside her and I think it's the feeling of my spunk running through her tight puss that sets her over the edge and she climaxes and cums. Again, I do know she's had an orgasm but I still like to ask as a show of consideration to her.

[burt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close burt]

You should quit your day job and start writing trashy novels with all that filthiness. lol

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

You should quit your day job and start writing trashy novels with all that filthiness. lol

Don't think I haven't thought of it. And this woman is my now ex girlfriend and current "fuck buddy"..........we aren't compatible relationship wise but God damn man, we have unbeatable sexual chemistry...................she also LOVES my big dick. Now I can date who I want, when I want and I still have an open relationship with my ex where the pussy is always free flowing (at least for me it is lol).