Is she telling the truth?

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

You just unveiled our secrets! There is no way a women can fake an orgasm if you know this.

Haha. OK OK, these aren't the end all tell-tale signs that a woman has orgasmed. Just in my experience, they are pretty accurate. In fact, I've never had a woman NOT tell me if she didn't orgasm. Some of the time because she wants me to keep going, other times I didn't do my job (I know, shame on me.) I understand though that women don't want to necessarily tell their men what they like. I know one of the reasons being that you guys tend to appreciate us finding out. In my experience, it's just been the woman doesn't have enough experience to know or just doesn't want to seem slutty. (Keep in mind I just got out of high school half a year ago.) I just need older girls.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Haha. OK OK, these aren't the end all tell-tale signs that a woman has orgasmed. Just in my experience, they are pretty accurate. In fact, I've never had a woman NOT tell me if she didn't orgasm. Some of the time because she wants me to keep going, other times I didn't do my job (I know, shame on me.) I understand though that women don't want to necessarily tell their men what they like. I know one of the reasons being that you guys tend to appreciate us finding out. In my experience, it's just been the woman doesn't have enough experience to know or just doesn't want to seem slutty. (Keep in mind I just got out of high school half a year ago.) I just need older girls.

Dude, if you just got out of high school 6 mos. ago, you haven't even begun to scratch the surface of the awesome world of women, sex, orgasms and the like. Older women typically don't have a problem telling you what they want or what gets them off. Don't get me wrong, some do and until my ex gf, current gf or whatever the fuck we are now (long story) got to know me, she wouldn't tell me what she liked either until we started getting to know each other and started having regular sex. If fact, everything with us was ass backwards. We met, hooked up THEN decided to get to know one another only after she took me up to her bedroom and sucked my cock.

Anyway, I'm guessing you're about 18ish??? You've got so much fun ahead of you man.............I wish I could go back!! LOL

[baybabe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close baybabe]

Don't think I haven't thought of it. And this woman is my now ex girlfriend and current "fuck buddy"..........we aren't compatible relationship wise but God damn man, we have unbeatable sexual chemistry...................she also LOVES my big dick. Now I can date who I want, when I want and I still have an open relationship with my ex where the pussy is always free flowing (at least for me it is lol).

First...Im so glad for you that you decided not to put up with a relationship that isnt perfect, you SHOULD be picky. Your in a metropolis for god sakes! Funny thing about picky, I always seem to end up with the UBER-PICKY guys I dont know why. Anyways, my current boyfriend just informed me that he is STILL trying really fuckin hard to put together a "Con's" list on me, I was like wtf? Why??? I guess he's afraid to wake up to a bitch like his ex's. I am's what I am's and it is what it is, from the day he met me lol I'm not going to suddenly become someone else. Guys are funny, I guess most girls are fake.
Ok back on the topic...Secondly and more importantly...
This thing you are referring to as sexual compatibility CAN be found elsewhere. I am always like what you described when I am involved with a man that I'm totally attracted to. I thought it was just a give in to "want your mans dick" all the time when your into each other? Anyways MBD, you enjoy what you got cause its clean lol and when something special comes around its nice that your available to except a date

[Nikki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Nikki]

Haha. OK OK, these aren't the end all tell-tale signs that a woman has orgasmed. Just in my experience, they are pretty accurate. In fact, I've never had a woman NOT tell me if she didn't orgasm. Some of the time because she wants me to keep going, other times I didn't do my job (I know, shame on me.) I understand though that women don't want to necessarily tell their men what they like. I know one of the reasons being that you guys tend to appreciate us finding out. In my experience, it's just been the woman doesn't have enough experience to know or just doesn't want to seem slutty. (Keep in mind I just got out of high school half a year ago.) I just need older girls.

Looking back to when I was in college and comparing myself to now, I had no idea what I was doing or wanted, from a sex standpoint. These girls you are with, for the most part, are still learning all about their bodies. That is why you are experiencing so much inconsistancy and uncertainty with girls this age. If you are patient with them and are willing to teach them, you will be abundantly rewarded with all the sex you can handle!!

[cubah Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cubah]

Dude,

Cum inside her, this can make her orgasm. Don't worry about it! If you worry about it during sex, it will affect your performance. I agree with BayBabe though, steady, consistent strokes are always good!

One way to tell if she came is to watch her body. Sometimes, you may be able to feel the tightening or even pulses. If she starts pounding you furiously, then she probably came or is about to.

What I do, when I can't go anymore, is immediately go to the edge of the bed, drag her down to the edge and start to lick her pussy. I rub her breasts/nipples at the same time. Then, I keep doing this until she says "enough." In other words, she can still cum and enjoy sex without having the fate of her orgasm resting on your dick.

[Nikki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Nikki]

Dude,

Cum inside her, this can make her orgasm. Don't worry about it!

Huh? I have never had an orgasm simply from a guy cumming inside of me. And before we start suggesting things that innocent, inexperienced guys might think they should be doing, let's not forget cumming inside a woman will inevitably lead to a pregnancy!!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Huh? I have never had an orgasm simply from a guy cumming inside of me. And before we start suggesting things that innocent, inexperienced guys might think they should be doing, let's not forget cumming inside a woman will inevitably lead to a pregnancy!!

Interstingly enough, my ex DID orgasm when I came inside her. I always thought it was strange but I just went with it. And yes guys, Nikki is 100% dead on with the cumming inside will get her pregnant deal. Unless you want some little person calling you "daddy", I've cover your willy (unless you've had a vasectomy like me, then you should be good to go).

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

First...Im so glad for you that you decided not to put up with a relationship that isnt perfect, you SHOULD be picky. Your in a metropolis for god sakes! Funny thing about picky, I always seem to end up with the UBER-PICKY guys I dont know why. Anyways, my current boyfriend just informed me that he is STILL trying really fuckin hard to put together a "Con's" list on me, I was like wtf? Why??? I guess he's afraid to wake up to a bitch like his ex's. I am's what I am's and it is what it is, from the day he met me lol I'm not going to suddenly become someone else. Guys are funny, I guess most girls are fake.
Ok back on the topic...Secondly and more importantly...
This thing you are referring to as sexual compatibility CAN be found elsewhere. I am always like what you described when I am involved with a man that I'm totally attracted to. I thought it was just a give in to "want your mans dick" all the time when your into each other? Anyways MBD, you enjoy what you got cause its clean lol and when something special comes around its nice that your available to except a date

Funny you mention that I should be picky. I've had friends tell me that I'm too picky. Hmmm, I find this puzzling because last I checked, wanting someone who is emotionally healthy, financially secure (no, NOT loaded but financially healthy) and sexual wasn't being picky. At my age (39), after a failed 7 year marriage and now a failed relationship that lasted 15 months, I have a pretty good idea now of what it is I'm looking for and items signify red flags to me. I refuse to believe that there isn't one woman on planet earth who has the qualities I'm looking for.

[Nikki Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Nikki]

I agree with everyone here. I do think you are doing something extremely right with the foreplay and I would keep up the muff diving/cunnilingus for sure, if done right that really has them begging for intercourse. And who knows how much good it does for getting her in the "orgasming mood" but I bet it put her in the mindset to orgasm more easily once you enter her.

Yep, that's right! You keep "muff diving" and you will have her squirming all over the bed! In my past, any guy who could make me cum via oral, made me cum when we started the "main attraction"!

[cubah Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cubah]

Huh? I have never had an orgasm simply from a guy cumming inside of me. And before we start suggesting things that innocent, inexperienced guys might think they should be doing, let's not forget cumming inside a woman will inevitably lead to a pregnancy!!

Let me clarify Nikki,

First off, with the pregnancy thing, yeah not stated but I meant that as long as you have a good form of birth control go for it. In this case, I did

I think this is different for different women. It might be triggered from more of an emotional or psycological state than a physical one. But my GF does love to feel me cumming inside her, especially where my cum feels really warm she says. Then she starts pulsing down there and goes silent for a while with her eyes closed and heavy breathing.

I justed to give our friend here an avenue to try. I wasn't telling him to have a baby just to make his woman cum.