Squirting, give me a womens perspective on this one! :)

[eduardo75 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close eduardo75]

hi batwoman, i saw your response in my thread about me making my girl squirt and hitting her a-spot and even though i can touch her a-spot every time i 've only made her squirt once and that was a long time ago and it was totally unplanned she just reached her orgasm on top of me and what seemed to be water(not pee, it was completelly clear and odorless) started flowing out of her, it was a lot too, it made a complete mess in our bed so we had to change the covers that nite, but nothing like that has ever happened again. ???????

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My ex would believe she had to pee before she came a lot. Took me a while to get her to realize that it was her cumming. Christ, she thought she peed in my face the first time...

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Christ, she thought she peed in my face the first time...

Hahaha, can you even imagine what that must feel for her? Can't stop laughing... "Ooooh, ooooh, ooooh nooooo!!! Just peed my boyfriend in his face..." Can't believe how embarrassed she must have felt. Hope you knew what was going on so you could tell her.

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I had no idea... but it didn't taste like pee, so I figured she came. It tasted good, to be honest. Ruined my bed as well...

[larrypinball Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close larrypinball]

I had no idea... but it didn't taste like pee, so I figured she came. It tasted good, to be honest. Ruined my bed as well...

Still can't help laughing when thinking about that scenario, but hey... All good things comes at a price, one way or the other - our bed is quite ruined as well. Still wouldn't trade the experience, really love it!

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Women don't have A spots men do. what you are hitting is her cervix which can give women orgasms and as for squirting, it involves the G spot. For the how to: Do the following (I have a video on my site for those interested)

Helping a Woman to Ejaculate Successfully from the book: Female Ejaculation and the G-spot
by Deborah Sundahl When your partner first tells you about her interest in female
ejaculation, it is wise to take a back seat, keep an open mind, and see
what transpires. Let her get used to the idea, and encourage her to
experiment and develop her abilities on her own for a while. I
recommend that women learn how to ejaculate on their own at first. Once
female ejaculation is achieved in this solo manner, a woman will have
more success ejaculating with a partner. But if she insists that you
get involved earlier in her explorations, the following are some things
you can do:

Become familiar with G-spot Anatomy and how to stimulate her G-spot.
Encourage her to tell you what she likes, especially if she doesn't usually speak up.
Have a sense of humor and don't be goal-oriented; most women like
ejaculation and want to ejaculate, but for them it's less a goal than
part of the overall experience of making love.

All of the attempts you make, even if they don't result in ejaculation,
move both of you farther along the learning curve and increase the
likelihood of eventual success. Women like to include their partners in
activities, and sexuality is no exception. But from a woman's
perspective, men can be too enthusiastic and rush into "getting the job
done." Nothing prevents ejaculation more effectively than pressure to
ejaculate! Most women need time to talk about female ejaculation, to
explore its twists and turns, before they actually attempt it.

As said throughout this book, they will have the best chances of
success if their first explorations are made solo. So, for example, if
she expresses interest in ejaculating, say something like, "Oh, have
you ever done that before?" or "Where did you hear about that?" This
may seem evasive to you, but such questions can help her figure out
exactly what she wants to do. If she complains about not being able to
ejaculate, or if she's wishing she could, say something like, "Oh, that
sounds interesting," or "Did you hear or read something about that?"
Keep asking questions for a while. When she answers, the best response
is to reflect back to her what she just said. For example, if she says,
"I've been hearing about it from a friend," respond by saying, "So
you've got some new information. What did she tell you?"

Drawing her out further is wise, even if what she's said seems plain
enough to you, because she's giving you a signal to talk, rather than a
signal to act. So take time to discuss female ejaculation before you
jump in and try to help out with something that she may not yet be
ready to attempt. This can help you to avoid a frustrating first
experience in which you both end up feeling like you've failed.
The following section sums up a lot of the information assesses her
readiness to ejaculate and how she can learn and practice ejaculating
on her own. Before you begin trying to help her ejaculate, check the
following three things:

Strength of her PC muscles.
An essential point: Your partner can't ejaculate if her vaginal (PC)
muscles are weak. Some guys think that a woman with a loose vagina has,
as one man told me, "screwed around too much," but that is not the
case. A loose vagina just indicates that her PC muscles are weak from
lack of exercise. Trying to get her to ejaculate will be a frustrating
experience until her PC muscles are tightened and strengthened. If her
vagina feels loose during intercourse, that's a sure sign that she
needs to do PC exercises. Encourage her to do them, and to practice
them on your love tool, too! Having stronger PC muscles not only feels
great for both of you, it encourages all around vaginal health. When
you both feel that her vagina is tighter when you have sex, that is a
signal that she is ready, muscle-wise at least, to attempt to ejaculate.
Don't bruise the grapes!

A woman who can firmly clamp down on your penis is nice, as you know,
but feeling the firmness of a full and bursting G-spot against your
penis is even better! Consider the G-spot a small bunch of very full
and juicy grapes. But don't bruise the grapes! Make them burst instead!
Your penis is their sunshine, and when the grapes are nourished, they
become fully ripened orbs containing juices that will burst over you!
Her attitude toward ejaculate. Letting go is the aspect of female
ejaculation that is most difficult for most women to master. If she is
afraid she is going to urinate on you and that you will be upset, she
will have a hard time ejaculating. Reassure her more than once: "It
probably won't be urine, and if it is, I don't care."

Deep-seated sexual issues.
Awakening the G-spot is an important step in a woman's sexual life, and
it can bring up all kinds of emotional issues. If a woman shuts down
abruptly once she begins learning to ejaculate, give her some time away
from ejaculating for a while. Reassure her by saying, "It's okay if you
don't ejaculate." If she continues to distance you sexually, - there
may be some deeper issues involved. Once you feel that she may be ready
to attempt ejaculation, ask her if she wants your help. If she says
yes, check again, asking in a caring tone: "Are you sure?" This is not
a put-down; it's just a confirmation for both of you. If you are
greeted with another affirmative, the next section will help you to
discover where her G-spot is and how to help her ejaculate.

Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot - Surefire Techniques
Guys are usually up for sexually pleasing their honeys, and most men
approach female ejaculation for the first time with an open mind. But
if you are called upon to actually help a woman ejaculate, you might
feel uncomfortable because you aren't sure what to do or you don't
understand how female ejaculation works. So, guys, I've tried to make
this as simple and direct as possible to help you out here. For more
lengthy information, learn about a woman's anatomy in detail.

Stimulate The G-Spot Now that you know where the G-spot is, here is a
yellow road sign to guide you when you begin to stimulate her G-spot

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Warning! Sensitive Area! Proceed Slowly!

These first few techniques are not all that erotically thrilling for
her or you, but they will help you understand where her pleasure points
are, and help her to become aware of the sensitivity of her G-spot.
They are great techniques to use when you first begin to stimulate her
G-spot, and they require some preliminary stimulation, for example,
using oral sex. If oral sex is not a part of your foreplay, stimulate
her clitoris (lightly) with your fingers. If rapid vaginal stimulation
with your fingers is your usual method, try lightly easing her vulva
and clitoris with your fingers instead, then begin.

All women have a G-spot! Don't be fooled into thinking she doesn't have
a G-spot, even if you try to stimulate it a few times and she doesn't
feel anything. Every woman has one! If your partner says she cannot
feel anything, it's best to stop trying.

Come here, honey!
This method is a basic way to stimulate her G-spot. After you have
aroused her with some slow, teasing oral sex or foreplay, slowly slip
your finger into her wet and ready vagina. Slide carefully along the
upper wall (versus the bottom) of the vagina until you feel the curl of
the G-spot's tail. Once you find the tail,
push firmly and massage it. A variation on this massage method is a
"come hither" approach, described by Robin, a friend of mine:
"I have always been aware of my G-spot, and my husband knows
instinctively when to start stimulating it - once I'm truly wet! Insert
your middle finger, palm up, and use a "come here" motion to rub the
top wall of her vagina. She will soon become aware of the most blissful
sensations!"

Play me, baby!
Repeat the above method, but press firmly all around the G-spot in
fractional movements, stopping to ask her what she feels as you hold
your finger still in one spot. If she feels nothing, massage this area
on the G-spot slowly and firmly. Note her reaction and move on to the
next area. I like this deion of the Play Me Baby method by Michael, a
musician: "I can feel her respond as I alter the way I touch her - the
intensity, and where exactly I touch her, is like playing an instrument
in a duo and listening, being sensitive to the dynamics and all the
nuances being out forth by the person you're playing with."
Love in the gutter.

Run your finger like a window washer across the body of the G-spot.
While you are doing it, ask her how it feels. Your goal is to notice
how the G-spot's body dips down on each side, creating a gutter between
the body and the vaginal wall. Insert two fingers, one on each side,
and rub the gutters, moving in and out slowly, a couple of times. Ask
her what she feels.

If she says she doesn't feel anything. If your partner has never found
her G-spot or ejaculated, she may be completely unaware of its
sensitivity. Believe me, if you are rubbing the upper vaginal wall as
described in this section, you are rubbing her G-spot, even if she
doesn't feel anything.

If your partner cannot feel G-spot sensations, assess the situation
with this simple test. Using your fingers during foreplay, get a sense
of the size of her prostate gland (G-spot) by feeling the upper vaginal
wall, from the vaginal opening to where the bulge of the G-spot stops.
Measure once when she is not aroused and a second time when she is. See
if you can detect any increase in the size of her G-spot - and ask her
what she feels, too!

If you notice the G-spot is larger with arousal, no worries! From here,
it will be a matter of awakening the G-spot's sensitivity. Continue
using all the methods described in this chapter to slowly but surely
awaken her spot.
If you can't feel any increase in size, it is likely she will not
ejaculate any time soon. Here are a few possible reasons for this:

1) the stimulation is incorrect, or too brief,
2) she is not really aroused,
3) she is one of the 10 percent of women who have a very small G-spot
or a G-spot located toward the back of the vagina's ceiling, or
4) she has not yet awakened to the natural sensitivity of her G-spot.
Continue all methods described in this chapter in order to slowly but
surely awake the spot and/or encourage her to read and practice the
solo explorations described.

With time, it may be possible to feel "nodules" in the body of the
G-spot. A psychologist wrote to me and described what he feels as his
partner's G-spot becomes aroused: "I can feel these little "peas"
through the vaginal roof, almost like a bunch of tiny water balloons
that are at first empty, then fill up, and then deflate again after she
ejaculates.

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This how-to will attempt to teach your partner how to give you a most
unforgettable experience. After some practice, you may be able to
achieve this on your own, but it is always easiest to start of being
'given' and ejaculation rather than getting frustrated trying it out on
your own and not succeeding.

You should also be aware that this might not work the first time.
Constant experimenting and practice will get you there in the end.
Firstly, as I mentioned earlier, relaxation and the desire to achieve
ejaculation are the key. Set the ambiance with scented candles, light
music and extra towels nearby. Start with a lot of caressing and light
touching to get your partner in the mood. Nothing spoils it faster than
rushing in. Spend a lot of time kissing her and lightly stroking her
body. Once she is sufficiently 'warmed up', work your way down to her
pleasure zone between her legs and lick and kiss her vulva gently.
As she begins to respond to your pussy licking, slowly insert one
finger into her, palm upward. Slowly fuck your index finger in and out
of her as you continue licking on her clitoris. Don't go further in
that past your second knuckle.

At this point, gently curl your finger toward you (as if beckoning
someone) and seek out the rough, ridged area at the top inside of her
pussy. This is her G-spot. Gently apply pressure to this area and using
the pads of your fingertips, pull your finger toward you. Don't apply
too much pressure, as this could be uncomfortable if she is not fully
excited at this stage. All the while, keep licking on her clitoris and
vulva.

If she complains that it doesn't feel good, reassure her. Tell her to
relax and to trust you. This is extremely important as she must let her
body take control and release all inhibition.
At this time, you should notice that her pussy is getting very wet.
This is a good time to introduce another finger. Insert your middle
finger along with your index finger – this works well for me, but it
all depends which fingers you are more comfortable with. Again, go no
further than the second knuckle.

Repeat the entire process of curling your fingers upwards and applying
pressure to her G-spot with the pads of your fingertips. Pull your
fingers toward you and then straighten them out, push them back in and
then curl upwards again. Don't forget to keep licking her pussy, paying
attention to light tonguing of her clitoris.

You should start getting a response from her now and she should be
moaning and bucking her hips upward to meet your fingers. It is time
again to reassure her and tell her to relax and trust you completely.
Apply more pressure on her G-Spot and work your fingers in-upward
curl-pull toward you- then in again faster and faster. It may help to
use your other hand to press gently on her abdomen, just above where
your fingers are working inside her. This serves to press her G-spot
down onto your fingers.

You will have to work extremely hard now as she will be very close to
coming and ejaculating. Keep the fingers working inside her and be
careful not to be too rough. Keep your curled fingertips pressured on
her G-spot constant and rather than pulling your fingers toward you,
press your palm against her clitoris and pull your hand upward – as if
you are fucking your fingers against her G-spot. Keep fucking her
G-spot using a constant jerking motion and be careful to use your
finger pads and not your nails.

You will hear her getting really squishy inside and her pussy will feel
very wet and almost squishy with juices. Encourage her to cum, tell her
not to hold back as you keep applying pressure and finger fucking the
rough ridged area.

She will feel the urge to pee and she must not fight it. If she cries
out "I'm gonna pee!" then encourage her to pee! She is not going to pee
but have a female ejaculation. Keep on what you are doing with your
fingers and perhaps increase her pleasure by playing with her nipples,
lick her clit or whatever else excites her.

Her body will be trembling now and she will be experiencing a rather
large orgasm. Again, keep encouraging her and don't stop what your
fingers are doing. She will feel the pressure building up – very much
like the need to pee and finally, her body will shake in orgasm as
female ejaculate shoots out of her urethra.

The amount of ejaculate can vary so don't expect too much – especially
the first time. After experiencing female ejaculation for the first
time, the realization will dawn that she is able to do it. The second
time will be much easier and the third even easier. Most women are able
to ejaculate from normal penetration or cunnilingus once they learn
that they have the ability to ejaculate. Some even ejaculate every time
they have sex. Once you know exactly where to touch and the right
pressure to apply, you can even ejaculate through masturbation – either
with your fingers or even sex toys.

This how-to works for male-female as well as female-female. For those
of you that are into multiple partners, it would be a good idea to have
her suck on a cock or another pussy as she gets worked up. The prime
aim of this is to distract her from fighting her feelings and to
concentrate completely on sex.

Female Ejaculation is very real and can be a real change to your sexual
life. As a final word, always stay relaxed, trust your partner, don't
try to hard and above all have fun.

[DRXXXTASY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DRXXXTASY]

Alot of reading I know lol but, if you need the visual, then send me a message. Don't think I can post the link here.

[larrypinball Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close larrypinball]

DRXXXTASY, wow man... I'm sure there's a lot of valuable information somewhere in there for those who want to learn about female ejaculation... It's just that it's such a massive text-mess that seems unstructured and unreadable; for me to read it I'd have to structure it up myself. Can't you edit it into paragraphs with proper headings et c.? Would sure make more people read it! I definitely would.

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Sorry about that, hope it's more readable now

[larrypinball Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close larrypinball]

A lot better DRXXXTASY, thanks!

Read it through; basically describing the process me and my girl used when we made her ejaculate the first time. Do have a hard time reading through the first part, can't stand it where she's telling people how to communicate with each other (although it's true), to me it's one of the foundations of a healthy relationship - but I guess it's there for a reason...

[DRXXXTASY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DRXXXTASY]

Yeah, that's her little added twist lol but it's the general idea of communication which should be a given.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Wow, that's great Drxx! Thank you! It will take a while to process, but maybe I can learn something that will be useful..... very intriguing, that''s for sure!

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Thank you, if there were a way I could post the video I would. It's easier for some to have visuals