Squirting, give me a womens perspective on this one! :)

[Fli-Fisher Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Fli-Fisher]

Drxxx - that is good stuff man!!! Rep for sure!

[DRXXXTASY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DRXXXTASY]

Thanks @Fli-Fisher - just want to help where I can.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

bumperoo!

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

she can do it, but she says that she have to pee. i always say NO, you dont need to pee, you just feel that sensation.. and then she tells me to stop fucking because she needs to pee and runs of to the bathroom to pee. and everytime she comes back i ask her "did you pee" and she replies "no, i couldnt" and then we start again and then she feels the same sensation that she needs to pee.. i know shes relaxed and all, and she has done it before, so i know she can do it... but as been said, deep penetration leads to squirting i dont know what im hitting but i know the women loves it! espesically the missionary position with the legs nearly tucked behind the womans neck..am i right batwoman?

That feeling like you have to pee is strong. My FWB wouldn't mind if I peed on him so I just went with it. That got me past it and allowed me to get to the point of orgasm. So, if your girl says she has to pee, just tell her go ahead!

[PrettyPetals Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PrettyPetals]

I had a sexual "re-awakening" after graduating from college when I had a brief fling with an older man and found that I could squirt. I didn't actually technically squirt but I had a feeling of fullness and my body was at the threshold of an orgasm so big that all I could do was scream. I couldn't "let go" however which is why I didn't get the big release I needed. After this experience I did some research and discovered that physically, all women are capable of squirting. The trick is a building state of arousal before achieving orgasm. Becoming sufficiently aroused is also a great deal mental and a number of recent experiments in the field of neuroscience have given evidence to support this

The "need to pee" sensation I've felt, and is usually a result of insufficient arousal for that kind of stimulation. The feeling itself impedes arousal and is a catch 22. Sometimes if I can actually ignore the weirdness and almost discomfort of the sensation the stimulation overrides everything and becomes arousing.

I myself have a difficult time with achieving orgasm as it is. Luckily for me my boyfriend is willing and skilled at getting me going. We've discussed squirting but haven't actively pursued it seriously, giving out to the temptation of our tried and true methods.

What surprises me is that the medical and scientific community can't seem to comprehend that sex and orgasm is an incredibly complicated dance of stimulation, arousal and relaxation that exists mostly within our brains. Although if you think about it, the PhD's leading these investigations probably never had time for good sex or sex at all to influence their direction of investigation.

[guiness73 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close guiness73]

Great thread full of great advice. There is nothing, at least for me, more satisfiying than being able to make a woman climax and writhe and moan with ultimate pleasure. The idea of being able to make her squirt is very exciting and I hope to be able to learn this soon. Thanks for all the tips and advice!! So far I've mastered being able to make her climax several times but now I want to try to see if she can get to the point of squirting. She wants that too so hopefully these tips (and any others) will be helpful. Thanks!

[Captain Jack Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Captain Jack]

Great thread full of great advice. There is nothing, at least for me, more satisfiying than being able to make a woman climax and writhe and moan with ultimate pleasure. The idea of being able to make her squirt is very exciting and I hope to be able to learn this soon. Thanks for all the tips and advice!! So far I've mastered being able to make her climax several times but now I want to try to see if she can get to the point of squirting. She wants that too so hopefully these tips (and any others) will be helpful. Thanks!

I recently made my wife squirt for the first time. It was amazing. It took a few months to get to the point where it happened, but it was worth it. I started by mastering the g-spot orgasm. Which she loves on its own. She also didn't know I was trying to make her squirt, she just thought she was just a lot of extra attention. Take a look at this page for reference and a really good video. Good luck!

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My girlfriend first discovered she could squirt when we had sex on a chair with her sitting on top of me. at the time she thought she had pee'd until i explained what it was. since then she can squirt with literally 30secs of gspot stimulation, and squirts multiple times during sex, you wouldn't believe the mess haha. she cant squirt from clitoral stimulation though.

I have a feeling most women can do it, its just a case of learning, then the flood gates open ... literally

[Roguish75 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Roguish75]

Women and sex educators like Madison Young do classes on G spot that are pretty good. Im about at 90% for getting women to G spot and squirt. Well maybe 80% with a few having dry orgasms. I've had many many first time squirters. There is lots of good stuff on the web, but personally I've found cam girl porn to give you the best idea of pressure, forcefulness etc. angles etc. Porn is also where I learned about hitting it from anal. A bunch of it is fake but a lot isn't and in my case it had a lot of benefit to learning. That and trying on a bunch of girls until I really figured it out. A girl that know how is a easy way to initially learn also, but you need more tricks as they all do it different.

I went to Madisons class with a buddy as he was having a hard time getting it to work. We took our partners. He learned a lot, I didnt learn so much but it was worth it as my girl told me after now she's pretty sure she can g spot from anal after hearing other women talk about it and what the sensations are (she was fighting it)

There certainly is an A spot and it's not the cervix. This is pretty well established and I deep spot a LOT of women and teach them to cum from it (I'm 8x6) the research says it takes 7.5 -8 on average to get it. So the vast vast majority of women are not going to know anything about it. No woman I've taught knew what it was. One site claims it's in front of the cervix but everyone else agrees it's the deep spot behind the cervix and in my experience it is. You need the right curve for the right woman and very specific positions to hit it. I've only learned to find it recently. Before that it only sometimes happened. In the last month I've been able to go three for three with new women. Now I'm really figuring it out and can get there almost immediately.

I have one girl that gets really worked up from her U spot also but havenet gotten her off with it. I haven't tried it on others as I'm pretty busy with C, G, and A ! ;-)



There certainly is an A spot and it's not the cervix

[guiness73 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close guiness73]

I recently made my wife squirt for the first time. It was amazing. It took a few months to get to the point where it happened, but it was worth it. I started by mastering the g-spot orgasm. Which she loves on its own. She also didn't know I was trying to make her squirt, she just thought she was just a lot of extra attention. Take a look at this page for reference and a really good video. Good luck!

Thanks so much! I have seen that video. I have really tried researching as much as possible about how to master this. Apparently I need to keep practicing and just make sure she is relaxed. She really gets into writhing around and I wonder if I need to help her to just stay more relaxed?
The dream is to get things as messy as tophat has things going!

[Roguish75 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Roguish75]

Thanks so much! I have seen that video. I have really tried researching as much as possible about how to master this. Apparently I need to keep practicing and just make sure she is relaxed. She really gets into writhing around and I wonder if I need to help her to just stay more relaxed?
The dream is to get things as messy as tophat has things going!

I go the total dominant route. When she gets squirmy hold her in place, force her legs apart and own that pussy. I force the squirting, I don't ask for it.

Of course I have to force it when it's ready. I work it and get it ready, both her pussy and her head, but at some point own it and make it happen. Once you've done that enough she will trust it and you, and let it happen easier; but I've had great success with numerous first timers getting them really worked up and then not giving them a choice.

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Thanks so much! I have seen that video. I have really tried researching as much as possible about how to master this. Apparently I need to keep practicing and just make sure she is relaxed. She really gets into writhing around and I wonder if I need to help her to just stay more relaxed?
The dream is to get things as messy as tophat has things going!

Rubber sheets might be a smart investment ha

seriously though, the way i do it is 2 fingers inside, about 2inches up where you should feel a slightly rough spot (gspot) and use the come hither motion with a fair bit of force, you can also rub in circles. as she starts to get close i feel her push down against my fingers then its all system go, bring up the intensity with your fingers and boom, squirty squirt squirt. I really think the girl plays the big part in this though. if she isnt trying to she probably wont

[Vixen65 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vixen65]

IndianaJones,

Yup, I can relate to what you're saying. I squirted for the very first time at the age of 42, 5 years into my relationship with a FB / lover - out of nowhere there it was. We were both really confused. Next time we met it happened again, but this time I felt it was not the vaginal liquid explosion I sometimes get (is that gushing vs squirting?), and I seriously wondered whether I'd peed on myself. I was confused and embarrassed - he was confused and slightly worried. Next time I suppressed it - shifting position.

But the more I thought the more I knew it wasn't peeing. I have that same "valve" thing that guys get - if I'm aroused I can't pee (have spent many frustrated minutes trying to calm myself to pee). Don't know if all women have that, but sort of sounds like your girlfriend does since she couldn't pee.

Googled, investigated - penny dropped - could be squirting. Researched further (Red Tube more than Wiki at this stage) - yup, I'm squirting. Was then still not comfortable with it - partly due to my FBs total lack of excitement (funny scene where I stand there emphatically telling him - "listen, go and look on Red Tube").

Then that summer I had heated sex with a new lover. He loved my orgasms and got completely into the sex - which then got me really going, and I squirted. He was shocked, looked at me with wide eyes and said "did you just squirt?!" I sheepishly said yes, whereupon he literally jumped out of bed, did a victory dance (complete with bicep flexing). Back in bed he kept going on about that being every guys dream, his life-long dream, that he felt like such a high performance lover.

There and then I decided that I love it, some guys love it so I'm gonna do this despite the less positive reaction of some guys, and wiki describing it as "probably incontinence" (like hell it is - I've been pregnant and experienced the slight incontinence most pregs do - this is something completely different).

I find it interesting that your GF squirted when you were FBs, but not now. Sex is different in those two relations - when feelings are involved then a great additional element of sex is the strength of feeling. Could it be that she feels that the intensity of squirting "distracts" her from savoring the feelings? I know I can be like that in relations (vs with FBs). With me it's anal sex - never had it in a relationship, have literally begged a FB to do it.

Think now, older and wiser - and having experienced a relationship where sex fizzled out - I would do it differently.

[guiness73 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close guiness73]

Rubber sheets might be a smart investment ha

seriously though, the way i do it is 2 fingers inside, about 2inches up where you should feel a slightly rough spot (gspot) and use the come hither motion with a fair bit of force, you can also rub in circles. as she starts to get close i feel her push down against my fingers then its all system go, bring up the intensity with your fingers and boom, squirty squirt squirt. I really think the girl plays the big part in this though. if she isnt trying to she probably wont

Okay, so far that's exactly what I'm doing...two fingers, circles on the gspot...maybe I need to add more pressure and like roguish75 said, keep her legs spread apart and just really go after her. She says she wants to learn to squirt. She already has powerful orgasms, so maybe we're close on this. Practice, practice, practice

[Roguish75 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Roguish75]

Come hither building up to A LOT of force, like need to change hands force. Take hand out work clit for a bit switch hands build up faster. Continue.

Also when she gets close just really jack your fingers but with upward pressure. And I mean really jack them.

Watch how forceful girls do it to themselves.

You need to totally own that pussy IMO especially if your breaking through barriers the first time.

I've seriously had like eight first time squirters in just the last three months. Totally crazy.