I'm looking for some advice on how to help my girlfriend achieve her first orgasm.
I have tried all the tips and tricks, bought her a powerful Hitachi Magic Wand with the rabbit attachment and a smaller penis vibrator, I know exactly where her clitoris and G-spot are, I can reach her service with me penis, and I always lick her until she's shuttering with delight. I know how to give a woman an orgasm, I just can't seem to give her one.
I just finished a "ladies night" with her where I spent the better part of two hours eating her out, fingering her, and having sex with her for her pleasure to no avail. I'm starting to consider couple's sex counseling to see if there's something I can he doing for her or some exercises she can do to help herself, because I really want to help her have an orgasm.
We talked about this before she left and she said she distracts herself when she gets close. So we tried some concentration exercises while fingering her and she got the insanely close, like she was gripping onto the sheets for dear life but just couldn't finish.
I don't know what could be causing this. It may or may not be related to her experience of being statutory rape/molested she experienced as a child, but she doesn't seem to think so. I have reassured her that if she wants to talk to a therapist about this I will go with her but she's not up for it.
Any advice from the women or married men would help.
I have tried all the tips and tricks, bought her a powerful Hitachi Magic Wand with the rabbit attachment and a smaller penis vibrator, I know exactly where her clitoris and G-spot are, I can reach her service with me penis, and I always lick her until she's shuttering with delight. I know how to give a woman an orgasm, I just can't seem to give her one.
I just finished a "ladies night" with her where I spent the better part of two hours eating her out, fingering her, and having sex with her for her pleasure to no avail. I'm starting to consider couple's sex counseling to see if there's something I can he doing for her or some exercises she can do to help herself, because I really want to help her have an orgasm.
We talked about this before she left and she said she distracts herself when she gets close. So we tried some concentration exercises while fingering her and she got the insanely close, like she was gripping onto the sheets for dear life but just couldn't finish.
I don't know what could be causing this. It may or may not be related to her experience of being statutory rape/molested she experienced as a child, but she doesn't seem to think so. I have reassured her that if she wants to talk to a therapist about this I will go with her but she's not up for it.
Any advice from the women or married men would help.
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