Advise from a woman: 40 ways men fail in bed

[JonPop Retired Sr. Administrator PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JonPop]

Cusp. So...Your heart gets started about um..12:00? (jP

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Give or take. I got other body parts that get started a lot earlier but I'll spare you the details! hee hee

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

Give or take. I got other body parts that get started a lot earlier but I'll spare you the details! hee hee

I suppose you must mean your eyes, right? Otherwise you wouldn't wake up.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I am happy you found it entertaining .. I thought i would try to insert a bit of humor into forum, since things have seemed a little tense and aggressive on pegym this past week(i had lurked awhile before joining, so i did notice the change in atmosphere recently) I agree with Batwoman .. some good things can be taken from the lists(at least the woman's list) and i would agree with MrBigDIck, most of the man's were a tad chauvinistic ..which i found very funny, but i really really hope that is not how guys think ...hehe

[movinonup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close movinonup]

Its how we would like to think though!!

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Way to old for this shit in the morning! I'll come back later!!!! ( after my meds!)

Thank god for meds or the moderators would have to ban you from the woman's thread (for your own safety) haha

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

TTBB,
I don't know whether to laugh or cry!
Thanks for the tips.


The point about thanking her afterward intrigues me. Some women find being "thanked for sex" demeaning but perhaps that was just a phase in the 70's and 80's.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

TTBB,
I don't know whether to laugh or cry!
Thanks for the tips.


The point about thanking her afterward intrigues me. Some women find being "thanked for sex" demeaning but perhaps that was just a phase in the 70's and 80's.

Funny you say that, that is the one that I wasn't sure about ..I had to ponder it a little
If i guy said "thanks for sex" to me, i would feel like i had just performed a service to him(and not in the good sense)

There are however times where i can see a verbal thank you would be a good thing...
-If you and your partner haven't had sex for quite a while..
-If you really needed a sexual release and wanted a blowjob and you could tell your partner was semi reluctant, but she provided the release for you anyway.
-If you are in a relationship with a shy or sexually awkward girl and you had sex for the first time.
-If the sex really really hit the spot
-if your partner agreed to try something that you requested that was out of her sexual norm

AND its about the words you choose and the way you phrase it .. like " thanks for the sex" would be the wrong way to say thank you unless it was a F*ckbuddy or a Friend with benefits situation .

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

TTBB,
I don't know whether to laugh or cry!
Thanks for the tips.


The point about thanking her afterward intrigues me. Some women find being "thanked for sex" demeaning but perhaps that was just a phase in the 70's and 80's.

I'm so thankful to be getting any at all I feel like I should write a thank you letter.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I'm so thankful to be getting any at all I feel like I should write a thank you letter.

You mean, you don't?
I thought everyone did.

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

You mean, you don't?
I thought everyone did.

Sometimes a thank you note, sometimes an aeroplane contrail message, sometimes a barbershop quartet...

[shiggity Member Find all posts View Profile Close shiggity]

I guess I'm not the typical guy. It never bothered me when a woman wanted to snuggle, spoon whatever.

ditto. I get pissed when my girl runs to the bathroom to cleanup. I'd much rather lay together, basking in afterglow.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

There are so many ways to clearly communicate "Thank you for the sex" without actually saying "Thank you for the sex"..... surely you all know that?????

[JonPop Retired Sr. Administrator PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JonPop]

Yes. A nice warm oil, back rub, shoulders, small of the back, feet.
A quite candle lit dinner.
A glass of chilled Chablis on a veranda overlooking Paris. A...Sorry I think I was off in space somewhere. (jP

[cameraobscura Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cameraobscura]

I love giving and receiving thanks and appreciation after sex.
When someone loves you masterfully, you are overcome with gratitude, in my experience...
Batwoman is clearly on it again with her above post...