if penis size is really that important

[zhomie Member Find all posts View Profile Close zhomie]

then why do women enjoy foreplay so much. my two fingers is tiny compared to my penis and so is my tongue.

notice the keyword in the title if*

[Chargeit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chargeit]

Penis size isn't the end all. It's just nice to have a big one in the ol'pants to fall back on. But yea. If you know how to work a women up properly beforehand then your penis size isn't going to matter as much. Shes going to blow as soon as you slip it in.

That said. As you add girth and get to a good length (6+) the response you get proves Penis size has a lot to do with it.

You don't need a big dick to please a women. It just really, really, really helps a lot.

Oh. I'm meaning a big dick within reason. Those monster dongs fall into a realm of their own, they can be tools of pleasure or something that sends'em running. Guess its about how you work it. Don't think i'll ever have to worry about swinging something around thats like 10x7.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

An average dick is more than satisfying for 99% of all women. PE is more an ego-thing for a lot of guys, like me

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

Because women are very sensitive, emotionally and physically. They have a lot of spots on their body that feels good when you touch it the right way and makes them horny. It really just boils down to instinct. When I see a beautiful woman, I fantasize about touching every inch of her body then fucking the shit out of her once her vagina is good and wet. This is probably how women fantasize as well. It's just natural to progress from kissing, to touching her spots, to her genitals, to fingering her and getting her very aroused and ready for hard sex, then finally, slowly getting your dick in her and going from there.
That being said, I still believe penis size is very important. There are many ways a woman can cum, and there are many different spots in and around her vagina that she can do it. The clitoral orgasm, the g-spot orgasm, and the deep spot/a-spot orgasm. I've read that women report the deep spot orgasm as the most intense and longest lasting. So you would need a long and think enough cock to stimulate this spot properly. And on top of all that, women get turned on by seeing a big erect cock, just as we get turned on by seeing huge tits with hard nipples and a dripping wet vagina with thick outer labia and a well defined inner labia and clitoris. That shit about men being more visual than women is probably horse shit. I've been told by women that they like watching a cock go in and out of them just as much as we do. They are just more reserved.
Another thing, is women instinctively like to be dominated by a man during sex. So a big penis that fills her up and stretches her out would do just that. Plus it probably makes them feel closer to the man. And of course, women like having the best because they feel they deserve everything and enjoy bragging to their friends.
So that being said, I conclude that 8.5"-9" in length and 7" in girth is the ultimate size to be able to fill most women. Not to say you can't fuck the shit out of a woman and get her cumming hard with a 6.5"x5.5". But as in ultimate size, I am think 9x7 wins.
All this shit I'm saying is from reading stuff on women, some scientific written by doctors, some anecdotal written by women, by asking women, and just by observing them. So take it with a grain of salt but I think it's fairly accurate considering I'm a man and really don't know shit about anything!

[Chargeit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chargeit]

An average dick is more than satisfying for 99% of all women. PE is more an ego-thing for a lot of guys, like me

lol. Yea the avg penis size is a joke. 6x5 is more then enough to please most women. Problem is guys round up, so yea there's a reason women type crap like. "my boy friend can't get me off but he said his penis is 6x5" yea after rounding up. That 6x5 is most likely 5.25 x 4.60. Close enough to 6x5.

I can tell you from personal experiences. Going from a dick that's maybe 5.50 x 4.50 to one that's a honest 6.x5 is a huge difference.

Also I find that from PEing my penis's girth has evened out to a point where almost my whole unit is at 5 inch girth (more at base 5.125? maybe more, She really likes that) This makes a big difference. Having a high point of like 5 but a low point of say 4.25 isn't nearly the mass of a true 5 inch girth.

[Chargeit Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Chargeit]

8.5-9 x 7 will give you problems with more then one chick.

My erect length is up to 6.25 and my ol'lady refuse's to take the whole thing down.

9x7 may be a great size to get gasps and start up a career as a porn star, but to say that's what you need to please the majority of women is off IMO. The truth is most women can't fully handle that.

6.5x5.5 is a big ass dick. Clearly you've got no back ground in construction since your ability to picture sizes in your head seems compromised.

I want a dick to please and wow some, Not to repress and terminate. For me getting to 7x5.5-6 would be a end all goal for penis enlargement. At 7x5.5-6 most women will be willing to at least give it a go. if at 7x6 your not pleasing or wowing them then its their problem not yours.

Your forming a tool for pleasure not a weapon of mass destruction.

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

8.5-9 x 7 will give you problems with more then one chick.

My erect length is up to 6.25 and my ol'lady refuse's to take the whole thing down.

9x7 may be a great size to get gasps and start up a career as a porn star, but to say that's what you need to please the majority of women is off IMO. The truth is most women can't fully handle that.

6.5x5.5 is a big ass dick. Clearly you've got no back ground in construction since your ability to picture sizes in your head seems compromised.

I want a dick to please and wow some, Not to repress and terminate. For me getting to 7x5.5-6 would be a end all goal for penis enlargement. At 7x5.5-6 most women will be willing to at least give it a go. if at 7x6 your not pleasing or wowing them then its their problem not yours.

Your forming a tool for pleasure not a weapon of mass destruction.

I respectfully disagree wholeheartedly.
Girls fuck a lot. And they date a lot. So say a girl is 25 and she's had 20 partners, been sexually active since 15. You don't think at least one of them is rocking an 8-9 incher? Especially since women are attracted to alpha males. Chances are very high.
If you have a girl that can't take 6.25", good for you man, hold onto her. Because that is rare. Women stretch.

[IHaveAHugeNick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close IHaveAHugeNick]

Penis size is Very Important!


To men, at least.

We all grow up wondering if we match up. Wondering if women tell each other about our units. Wondering if our buddies are bigger. For some guys, the effects of all this penis focus, can be debilitating. It can keep some guys from sleeping with a woman out of fear.

Now if you're asking if it's that important to women.... I would hazzard to say, not so much. They have their own fears and insecurities to worry about. Most women wouldn't want us to point them out or talk about those fears they have with others. They understand this, and in turn reciprocate. It's only the odd douchbag (guy) or bitch (girl) that would do that.

In most cases, when a woman chooses to sleep with a guy, she has no idea with his unit will be like. Big, small, cut, uncut, or anything else about it. Just like we have no idea if her pussy will be really juicy, or have big lips, or is pink, (or darker/lighter) or anything else. Yet, once you've slept together, you've pretty much taken your relationship to the next level (if we aren't talking about a one nighter). By that point, she has already chosen you, dick size be damned.

[Hopeful&dedicated Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hopeful&dedicated]

It's not that important. All the stories you hear on here about SO's enjoying the growth of fellow PEers has more to do with perception and emotion. A woman (or man) who notices the added .5 inch in length is so in tuned with their partners penis from years of sex that slight differences trigger an emotional response. Add the extrra passion and confidence from the PEer and you have a recipe for better sex. Yes, there might be increased pleasure from the bigger tool but I truly believe it is minimal. I can get deeper in my wife now and really push the cervix but I'm not convinced it actually feels better as oppossed to her being mentally turned on from the perception of taking a longer one.

My two cents...

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Foreplay is foreplay kinda like warming the car up in the morining, from what my wife says penises kinda feel the same as long as they are hard. What im getting is its the whole picture and that is one aspect of the whole picture. I think that where the larger penis is more appealing is the visual before intercourse occurs when we are talking slightly below to average or just above. I dont think it matters anymore? Now in my mind a longer penis has the potential to reach places a shorter one cant and a fatter penis has the ability to stimulate more all the way around it but I dont have a pussy so..... lol

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

Women like big penises. Anything they say otherwise is to spare our feelings.
Stop being so naive please. It's embarrassing.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Women like big penises. Anything they say otherwise is to spare our feelings.
Stop being so naive please. It's embarrassing.

Big to a woman can be 6" BPEL. So you're correct.

[Hopeful&dedicated Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hopeful&dedicated]

Women like big penises. Anything they say otherwise is to spare our feelings.
Stop being so naive please. It's embarrassing.

Please enlighten us with more MikeShlort "facts!" Is it true ALL women like dark hair too? I must know.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Women like big penises. Anything they say otherwise is to spare our feelings.
Stop being so naive please. It's embarrassing.

You are obviously hurting,, what broke you and warped your perspective? what i hear is pain and defeatism in what you are saying

[jdavid1990 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close jdavid1990]

Lol he's right tho.