if penis size is really that important

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I'm not attached to anyone here and i have no reason to lie to anyone.
SLU husband isn't a member here
Islander is not attached to anyone here.

i will come back and read the full length of your post after i get some sleep.

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

Guys like you are actually the reason women won't talk openly about what they like or don't like because you assume you know it all. You sound like you are book smart (or should I say internet reading smart and porn smart)…Not life smart, Not cock smart.


The post I made here on this thread in response to you ,,I wasn’t being sarcastic, it wasn’t loaded with venom. I wanted to try and help you because I had read the posts you had left on my other threads.. I thought you had some hurt in you. there was and is def anger.. You don’t fucking know me, you should do a bit more reading and research before you decide you know why I am here and what my position on things are…but nope you decided to follow me around the forums trying to bait me…And then you come on this thread and accuse me of not being proud of being female! What the fuck was that about.?!?!. Was it because you can't handle the fact i don't think the world revolves around huge penis? And big dick doesn’t make a man.. ?



This is how it is…If you don't like how things are done here at the gym ..Why don't you just leave!! Why stay here? ..Go to one of the other penis enlargement forums… I personally would love to see how long you would last at say thunders place..

If I assume I know it all then why am I always asking them questions?

[Mrs H&D Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs H&D]

I love it when a woman is honest, because it shows me she is not afraid to admit who she is and is secure enough with herself to not feel the need to have to please me by telling me what I want to hear.

You need to break up your one freakin' long paragraph into something more easy on the eyes to read.

[Mrs H&D Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs H&D]

You are obviously hurting,, what broke you and warped your perspective? what i hear is pain and defeatism in what you are saying

I would have to agree.

[Mrs H&D Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs H&D]

BTW, if your daughter brought me home, she'd be a lucky girl.

Based on all your generalizations. I beg to differ that one!

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

You need to break up your one freakin' long paragraph into something more easy on the eyes to read.

OK i did

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

Based on all your generalizations. I beg to differ that one!

This is a PE site. For enlarging the penis.
I tend to think of these things in black and white - big or small. It makes it so much easier when there is no grey area. So generalizations are going to occur when you think black and white. Like whne I have goals, I want to achieve them no matter the consequence (grey area). Black (not having achieved goal) and white (having achieved goal).
I am not what I consider big, so I am small.
If I bother with grey areas, then I have to consider all the women who haven't experienced a large penis, who don't consider sex to be that important etc. (in truth though, I have always been connected and matched with women who have lots of underlying sexuality, so for me a big penis is important because the woman I likely will end up with, it will be important to her to.)
So to make it easy, I say "I have a small penis, I want it bigger". I go to a PE site to learn exercises, then I see all this crap about "size doesn't matter". Basically the shit that held me back 7 years from starting PE in the first place. The same garbage and negativity, telling us we are fine the way we are so we feel okay about ourselves, that is basically saying "your goals are too high! You better not put so much hope into reaching it, so I'll make you feel better by telling you what you want to hear, so when you do fail, it won't sting so much".

I said I want 9x7 and people here pushed the same negativity on me "9x7. Ridiculous." "That goal may be too hard to reach". Basically projecting their own feelings of inadequacy on me. Luckily I come out unscathed and just as intent on reaching my dream.

So ya, I generalize when it comes to things like penis size and get pissed when I see detrimental threads that are basically a vehicle to tell people "Don't go after your dream, it'll only hurt when you fail, so I'll tell you want you want to hear now to make you feel better".

I don't mean to offend women when I say they all want a big penis, but in my mind, it is true, whether they know it or not, but even more relevant to my point, it's the way that PE must be taken.

If you are 5 inches and you want 6 inches, than you say to yourself - 5 inches = small. 6 inches = big. Women want big. Once I am 6 inches (big), I will be full of confidence and I will win. No grey area. It's a beautiful thing.
Sorry if I offended women. I'm not sure why there are women at a penis enlargement site anyways, but I guess I went at tinkerbell because I disagreed with what she said, I thought she was just trying to tell the guys what they want to hear to make themselves feel better and I went about it the wrong way.
I apologize for that.

But ya, I'm still a catch. My shitty qualities do not outweigh my genuine qualities.

[Mrs H&D Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs H&D]

OK i did

Aww. Thank you.

[Mrs H&D Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs H&D]

Sorry if I offended women. I'm not sure why there are women at a penis enlargement site anyways, but I guess I went at tinkerbell because I disagreed with what she said, I thought she was just trying to tell the guys what they want to hear to make themselves feel better and I went about it the wrong way.
I apologize for that.

But ya, I'm still a catch. My shitty qualities do not outweigh my genuine qualities.

I'm sure you do have genuine qualities. On one post that was talking about obsession....obsessing about penis size....I posted I don't think its obessing much about penis size vs. obessising about sex. I think some men on here are only trying to improve what they're already good at! I know I try to improve my skills too! I want to be able to make my partner feel as good as possible...

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

very long specific scenario where big dick wins princess hottie's heart and they live happily ever after

You know, she could do kegels too. That kinda evens things out for both genders.

So ... it's not that only men have to slave away for hours. That lazy bitch can do something too.

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

You know, she could do kegels too. That kinda evens things out for both genders.

So ... it's not that only men have to slave away for hours. That lazy bitch can do something too.

Lol I like your summary of my post but it wasn't the big dick that won her heart. My asshole-ish demeanor and mentally challenged humour wins her heart, the big dick just makes the connection that much sweeter when we happen to have intercourse. I'd never use my dick to win a girl. I may however use it to get laid. BUt that's different
Also it wasn't so specific, those numbers are general and transferable to other princess hotties. Unless they are on either end of the spectrum. ANd my point is most attractive women have had big dicks.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Mike, this forum supports the idea that, when it comes to sex, it is more important to know how to perform than to worry about your penis size. Many guys come here with sexual performance anxiety, and seek to solve this issue by attaining a bigger penis. This can lead to further anxiety problems instead of solving those problems.

Penis size clearly has some importance in the bedroom, but many forum members have a bad tendancy to overexagerate the importance of penis size. Also, there is a trend that pops up from time to time that seems to fail to accept that penis size has an upper limit. Every girl has a limit, but they all have different limits. Some girls won't be able to handle above 5 inch girth, some will take in 7 without wincing.

Girls are just as unique as guys when it comes to their sexy parts, and while their parts are more adaptable, that doesn't mean there aren't limits to their comfort.

ANd my point is most attractive women have had big dicks.

Why would this be? "Attractive" women do not necessarily get around more than those you would deem unattractive. They might have higher standards for their guys, but that doesn't mean the guys they end up with just happen to have bigger penises. I would say, the bigger the woman's sexual history, the more experience with big penises they have. Its the law of averages. Even then, big penises might not fit this woman's preference, or it might be less important than... I don't know... sexual performance? Yea, sexual performance seems important... funny how that is always forgotten when discussing these topics...

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

Lol I like your summary of my post but it wasn't the big dick that won her heart. My asshole-ish demeanor and mentally challenged humour wins her heart,

Well, you have a great imagination. Unless that actually happened, in which case good on you but it doesn't go for a majority of women out there. Notice: women, not girls. Women have a thing for deep connections, not only physical, but something unexplainable that they achieve after years of trials and errors and self evaluation. Wisdom, for a better or worse term. Your case is ...

the big dick just makes the connection that much sweeter when we happen to have intercourse. I'd never use my dick to win a girl.

... really specific. In here the guy did use his dick to seal the deal. So yes, the guy used his dick as a rather big tool to win her over.

I may however use it to get laid. BUt that's different

You do use it to get laid. Ken never got laid with Barbie because he never had a dick. You see? Sealing the deal.

Also it wasn't so specific, those numbers are general and transferable to other princess hotties. Unless they are on either end of the spectrum. ANd my point is most attractive women have had big dicks.

It was being specific since you mentioned the numbers, where you assumed that they are transferable to other hot girls. You don't need to have a big dick to keep a hot girl full, they're usually full of themselves. All air and no real substance. See there, I am generalizing too.

And so what if hot women had big dicks? Handsome, rich and/or powerful man have had a lot of fine booty. Doesn't mean they're big.

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

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SO there you have it. Mike worked hard, got a bit lucky, and made his penis 1.25" in EL longer, and 1.25" in EG larger...

What if Mike is a hard gainer and only gains .25 in length and .25 in girth and falls far short of his goal? Does Mike become suicidal? Depressed?

I think the reason people got taken back by your prophecy that 9 X 7 is the ideal penis size, is that for many people it far exceeds what they believe is practical. The other thing that you have to consider is that there are guys on here who are 5 X 4 erect, not to mention guys who are 4 X 3.5.

9 X 7 is not a realistic goal for those guys, myself included. It's probably not a realistic goal for many guys who are less than 7 X 5.5.

Black and white thinking might work for you, but it can be very damaging for someone who is trying to cope with their insecurities, while at the same time trying to grow bigger.

I'm not trying to be mean, but there are a bunch of things in your posts that just don't sound healthy. Black and white thinking is one of them. I understand what you mean about making a goal and sticking to it, but black and white thinking is a symptom of at least one mental disorder I can think of. I'm not saying you're mentally ill, I'm just trying to point out that grey can be good. Black and white thinking can be dangerous.

If you stick around here, you'll realize that grey is embraced around here. The experienced guys around here encourage people to be dedicated and determined, but they always advise guys to keep their goals somewhat realistic, because it's easy to get discouraged if gains don't come quickly.

Your end goal is admirable, but I think you just need to be sensitive to the fact that your enthusiasm could be very damaging to a fellow member.

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

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But uh, oh, ol' Mike Shlort is only 6.9"NBPx5.75" MEG. That's a large difference in volume. Likely why she liked the alpha so much is partly to do with how he made love to her.
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I forgot to mention this part.

I don't care how big a woman's previous partners were. I don't think there are many women who would be disappointed with a 6.9"NBPx5.75" MEG.