if penis size is really that important

[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

Two other things:

1)I'm all for giving people the truth. I agree with you on that, but implying that you need a 9 X 7 to be a woman's best lover is seriously crazy. It sounds like you are a virgin. You should read some posts by some of the larger members here. If you do, I think you will find that you can save yourself a lot of work. 9 X 7 is way more than most people here shoot for.

2)Have you apologized to Tinkerbell yet? I haven't read the whole thread, but I did see that you pissed her off up above. You really should apologize to her. She's super cool and helps a lot of the guys on here. Plus, she's a woman. Being a gentleman carries a lot more weight than having a big dick does.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

An average dick is more than satisfying for 99% of all women. PE is more an ego-thing for a lot of guys, like me

You are correct and get a rep. An ego thing yes-and-no because perception comes into play which was with me and still is on the length issue even though I know I am long enough and will try not to really increase it for the sake of my wife. Some guys are here to gain more girth being at the low end of girth average and some for length (and some for both). So it all depends.
But, yes, the size really is more important to us men than to the woman which average is concerned.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

from what my wife says penises kinda feel the same as long as they are hard.

ok I was wrong they all felt different but I think it didnt matter if understood right.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I think some men on here are only trying to improve what they're already good at!...

thats me

[donjelqer76 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close donjelqer76]

The idea that alpha males have big dicks is laughable. I was in the Marine Corps and I had the pleasure of working along side some of the best "alpha males" the world has to offer. They could gain the respect and confidence of everybody in the room by their demeanor, their energy and the way they carried them selves. Penis size has no influence in this behavioral trait. Furthermore, who says that attractive women are all attracted to an alpha male? Many of them don't like the big ego that comes along with it and don't want to feel that they are competing with it.

I honestly feel bad for you MikeShlort. For someone with so much desire to please women, I feel that you are always going to fall short regardless of your size because of your attitude

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I wanted to add to the fact that although my wife says they did in fact all feel different and they were each sized & shaped differently she enjoyed each one because ahe liked the guys. Im only talking about 2 others dont want anyone to think she has been with abunch of people but between those 2 and me there is a wide range of sizes covered.

[09vetteZ51'sBunny Member Find all posts View Profile Close 09vetteZ51'sBunny]

IIm only talking about 2 others dont want anyone to think she has been with a bunch of people but between those 2 and me there is a wide range of sizes covered.

there were 3 others. All about average 4.5"-5.5" one was very thin one was very fat and one was average. I liked each one and i could have been happy to spend the rest of my life with any one of them. One guy turned out to be an asshole and only came around when he wanted some he was 6'-4" and cute and had the girthy penis. Another guy was married so that was not going to work at all but it could have under different circumstances. The other guy just wasnt my type so it didnt work out. then I met my husband and we fell in love and married. I could have spent the rest of my life with any one of these penises and been just as satisfied. Each one looked and felt different but they were all good. Me and my husband have been together a long time and we are still figuring each other out and I like his penis because he is the man im in love with and its his.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

Why do people think that alphamales have huge dicks? Bill Clinton allegedly had a 5" dick

Why do people think that people with big dicks are handsome/more appealing to girls? (in a bar, before they have seen his dick)

Seriously think about it, Imagine Ron Jeremy (huge dick) and Enrique inglesias (tiny dick allegedly) trying to pick up a girl in a bar, who do you think would end up going home with her? My money would be on baby-dick inglesias...

[4Samson Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 4Samson]

I only skimmed through the thread...

My fiancee says she prefers my (bigger) cock because she feels me more and thats what she wants when we are making love, to feel me. Makes sense to me...

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

You know guys and gals, this thread has been good for some things. It really shows how many different views there are on this subject and in a way they all have some valiidty. I dont think we can say that any one sizze is best, maybe it is actually just going to show that like anything else variety is what is best, different people want different things. I think my wifes big ass after 4 kids is just fine, she likes my wang. Many women would not like my weener and that is just what it is. I would bet it would really be me that they liked or didnt in the end.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I think my wifes big ass after 4 kids is just fine, .

LOL!! right there with ya except mine only had 3 kids

[DemOne Banned Find all posts View Profile Close DemOne]

Someone mention big asses?

http://www.vh1.com/sitewide/promoima...ck/320x240.jpg

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Mike, I don't expect you to take on the opinions of other people. I expect you to recognize the realities of other people here, and be sensitive to their problems. If 9x7 is your goal, all the power to you. If you think that is the "best size", also, all the power to you.

Just recognize that this is your personal opinion, and most of the evidence we find on the subject says differently. Also, your personal opinion, when stated as fact, can be harmful to the insecure and uninformed.

You asked why women are here on a PE site. Simple: their opinions are valued, so they stay and help. They enjoy the conversation with some members here, and continue to give support to the community. Some of them were introduced to this site by a significant other. Others just ran across it through other means, but they stay to help speak for women in a community full of men. It is something we need, and something I believe almost all of our members are very grateful for.

Tinkerbell has been here for a long time. She has read more than her fair share of information here, and is a very intelligent individual who always tries to be kind. Given the time she has spent here, I believe it is safe to say she has a lot of insight into male and female perceptions of penis size. Dismissing her opinion in the manner you did strikes me as silly. It reminds me of someone who gets a virus, and when the doctor tells them what it is, they ignore their doctor's advice because they believe they know their body better. If you disagree with her, thats your business, but don't try and explain her opinions away with faulty arguments. She has reasons for her opinions; strong reasons that developed on a site designed specifically around penis size. She knows what she is talking about.

[zhomie Member Find all posts View Profile Close zhomie]

Mike, I don't expect you to take on the opinions of other people. I expect you to recognize the realities of other people here, and be sensitive to their problems. If 9x7 is your goal, all the power to you. If you think that is the "best size", also, all the power to you.

Just recognize that this is your personal opinion, and most of the evidence we find on the subject says differently. Also, your personal opinion, when stated as fact, can be harmful to the insecure and uninformed.

You asked why women are here on a PE site. Simple: their opinions are valued, so they stay and help. They enjoy the conversation with some members here, and continue to give support to the community. Some of them were introduced to this site by a significant other. Others just ran across it through other means, but they stay to help speak for women in a community full of men. It is something we need, and something I believe almost all of our members are very grateful for.

Tinkerbell has been here for a long time. She has read more than her fair share of information here, and is a very intelligent individual who always tries to be kind. Given the time she has spent here, I believe it is safe to say she has a lot of insight into male and female perceptions of penis size. Dismissing her opinion in the manner you did strikes me as silly. It reminds me of someone who gets a virus, and when the doctor tells them what it is, they ignore their doctor's advice because they believe they know their body better. If you disagree with her, thats your business, but don't try and explain her opinions away with faulty arguments. She has reasons for her opinions; strong reasons that developed on a site designed specifically around penis size. She knows what she is talking about.

i really hope he doesnt come and point out that tinkerbell isnt the equivalent of a doctor.

yeah im sorry for making this thread haha. definitely didnt go the direction i wanted it to.


just to clarify and i hope this doesnt start another argument, 9x7 would be way too big for like 95% of females right?

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

i really hope he doesnt come and point out that tinkerbell isnt the equivalent of a doctor.

yeah im sorry for making this thread haha. definitely didnt go the direction i wanted it to.


just to clarify and i hope this doesnt start another argument, 9x7 would be way too big for like 95% of females right?

You could not have known it would go this way.