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[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

It sounds like she just wasn't sure that she wanted to have sex with you, and decided in the middle that it wasn't a good idea and so backed off. That's common in early encounters when a girl is not sure what she's doing or what she wants.

We need more informations here: what kind of relationship do you have with this girl? Do you think she's a virgin? Are you?

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

yea, she was just pulling back. She wasn't sure she was ready. Nothing to do with you, she decided to make a "judgment call" and stop the presses.

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

Were kind of talking right now. No were both not virgins. I was thinking about it and i really do think it was me because i think at one point during foreplay i got excited and got carried away because my kissing and sucking became harder and she moved me away from her tits and told me that they were tender and she told me i gave her a couple hickies to..

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I think it is always wise to save the rough stuff for AFTER you have gotten to know each other pretty darn well.... and are sure she wants it.

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

yeah i get what your saying, thanks batwoman. Im still on the more inexperienced side when it comes to sex. After more time of thinking about it im just going to take it as a learning experience improve on the good and learn from the bad; figured that will be the only way to get better at sex/foreplay.

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

yea man... I'm generally really gentle and caring when it comes to foreplay with a new girl. Never know what she may like, but i find the most satisfaction finding places that make her wiggle that's not an erogenous zone...

Like one girl it was at the top of her ear... I was just finding all the little spots that send her over the edge. She found one for me... under my chin... I had no clue it existed, but it totally turned me on LOL! but it was all just light kissing and tongue play.

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

Who would of ever thunk it top of the ear and under the chin... lol Yea ill try to follow that the next time i get a chance.

My problem is im relaxed at first and i am gentle and look solely to please her but when i get turned on and i see shes getting turned on i get really carried away i don't know how the hell to keep from doing that.

[Art Member Find all posts View Profile Close Art]

Very nice post... this things are so important. I'd also like to spotlight the importance of affection. Doesn't matter if you are sleeping with the love of your life or a random girl you've just met, you have to do it with affection. Affection is something every woman likes. I'm not trying to say you should be too romantic and boring all the time while in bed. But you have to find the balance between treating girls as if they were whores and at the same time your little angel, and love of your life.

For instance, my gf loves when we're in missionary position and I grab her nape gently and firmly with my right hand while I move my left hand very affectionately all over her face and ocasionaly kissing her mouth slowly ...at the same time I'm screwing her very hard below and saying dirty things next to her ears. It just drives her CRAZY. Multiple orgasms guaranteed.

[wanta3rdleg Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wanta3rdleg]

Great read! Thanks for your insight

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

I was wondering if there is any way to go deeper during intercourse??

For instance, if you and your partner were in missionary and you are all the way in her and she is asking for you to go deeper what could you possible do without having to change positions.

[needhelp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close needhelp]

I like this thread. Im not experienced at all but Im definitely gonna try these techniques next time I go to have sex.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

The short/deep thrust sequence works really well, tried it out this weekend

[stevekjh Member Find all posts View Profile Close stevekjh]

Great article! I'm eager for giving my gf oral sex, but she refuses me to do this How can I persuade her to accept giving her cunnillingus?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Does she give you oral? She's your girlfriend so just ask her why she doesn't want you to and tell her you want to try it.

[stevekjh Member Find all posts View Profile Close stevekjh]

Does she give you oral? She's your girlfriend so just ask her why she doesn't want you to and tell her you want to try it.

She loves to give me blow job, but she dosen't like being given cunnillingus b/c she feels too sensitive or exciting to her. Another reason is that she regards man shouldn't go down woman's pubic area b/c it's not hygienic for man. But I told her it's OK and I love to smell her scent that gets me horny, she still forbids me going down there!