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[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

She loves to give me blow job, but she dosen't like being given cunnillingus b/c she feels too sensitive or exciting to her. Another reason is that she regards man shouldn't go down woman's pubic area b/c it's not hygienic for man. But I told her it's OK and I love to smell her scent that gets me horny, she still forbids me going down there!

Show her internet searches that tell her that there are no hygiene problems with a man down in female junk. Also, tell her how horny it makes you, which you have clearly already been doing. Lastly, if she is too sensitive down there, remember lots of foreplay, and don't go straight for the clit. Spend some time moving closer and closer to the vulva along different parts of the groin area (i.e. inside of the thigh), and then start licking,sucking lightly, kissing different parts of the vulva. Then, you can go for the clit. If its still to sensitive, just do other parts of the vulva again. Some women have clits that are too sensitive for direct stimulation.

[stevekjh Member Find all posts View Profile Close stevekjh]

Wow, sounds great! Maybe I go down there too rush. I can't wait to do that. Thanks, CaptainJohnson!

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Show her internet searches that tell her that there are no hygiene problems with a man down in female junk. Also, tell her how horny it makes you, which you have clearly already been doing. Lastly, if she is too sensitive down there, remember lots of foreplay, and don't go straight for the clit. Spend some time moving closer and closer to the vulva along different parts of the groin area (i.e. inside of the thigh), and then start licking,sucking lightly, kissing different parts of the vulva. Then, you can go for the clit. If its still to sensitive, just do other parts of the vulva again. Some women have clits that are too sensitive for direct stimulation.

Hi Johnson, thanks for your direction! Last night I made love to my gf and persuaded her to accept being given oral sex. I promised her to be gentle and tender. It is very helpful that you mentioned caressing her inner thigh then moving closer to the vulva. Finally she permited my action moving forward to her clit. Although she still feels too senstive but she was willing to give me a chance that made so happy!!!

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Hi Johnson, thanks for your direction! Last night I made love to my gf and persuaded her to accept being given oral sex. I promised her to be gentle and tender. It is very helpful that you mentioned caressing her inner thigh then moving closer to the vulva. Finally she permited my action moving forward to her clit. Although she still feels too senstive but she was willing to give me a chance that made so happy!!!

Glad it helped. Hopefully this opens up new experiences for you both

[mrmark Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mrmark]

Hi Johnson, thanks for your direction! Last night I made love to my gf and persuaded her to accept being given oral sex. I promised her to be gentle and tender. It is very helpful that you mentioned caressing her inner thigh then moving closer to the vulva. Finally she permited my action moving forward to her clit. Although she still feels too senstive but she was willing to give me a chance that made so happy!!!

Sounds like a step in the right direction,let her set the pace and be gentle and in time she will be converted and will be begging for it good jobhttps://www.pegym.com/forums/images/icons/icon14.png

[stevekjh Member Find all posts View Profile Close stevekjh]

Sounds like a step in the right direction,let her set the pace and be gentle and in time she will be converted and will be begging for it good jobhttps://www.pegym.com/forums/images/icons/icon14.png

Thanks, MrMark! That's my hope!

[smallersideofavg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close smallersideofavg]

Just a quick question...

In regard to the 9 shallow 1 deep method...
Im a smaller guy (5" NBEL) and am wondering how far in would be considered "shallow" for me...? Im guessing half way or maybe just a couple inches. Any opinions?

Obviously when I go deep Im not going to make her cry, but yah know... just curious.
And yes, Ive considered the possibility that I may have to experiment with it myself before I know but Id like to get a feel for it before trying it.

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Just a quick question...

In regard to the 9 shallow 1 deep method...
Im a smaller guy (5" NBEL) and am wondering how far in would be considered "shallow" for me...? Im guessing half way or maybe just a couple inches. Any opinions?

Obviously when I go deep Im not going to make her cry, but yah know... just curious.
And yes, Ive considered the possibility that I may have to experiment with it myself before I know but Id like to get a feel for it before trying it.

1-2 inches.

[stevekjh Member Find all posts View Profile Close stevekjh]

Just a quick question...

In regard to the 9 shallow 1 deep method...
Im a smaller guy (5" NBEL) and am wondering how far in would be considered "shallow" for me...? Im guessing half way or maybe just a couple inches. Any opinions?

Obviously when I go deep Im not going to make her cry, but yah know... just curious.
And yes, Ive considered the possibility that I may have to experiment with it myself before I know but Id like to get a feel for it before trying it.

When you have sex w/ your girl, notice about her reaction. You can suck her nippals and pussy till you can feel her pussy is wet and she will want you thrust her. You can perform shallow and deep that makes her feel different touch. Go deeper and she will feel your dick is full in her pussy. Good luck!

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

She loves to give me blow job, but she dosen't like being given cunnillingus b/c she feels too sensitive or exciting to her. Another reason is that she regards man shouldn't go down woman's pubic area b/c it's not hygienic for man. But I told her it's OK and I love to smell her scent that gets me horny, she still forbids me going down there!

go take a shower together and wash each other then get out make out naked with her back to the bed lay her down backwards on the bed and eat her pussy.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

On the 9 shallow 1 deep if I mix it up and she expects that deep one and it doesnt happen I love holding her back by her ass while she is trying to force her way down. I elevate my hips with her on top and try to hit the g-spot on the shallow strokes using maybe 2"-3" applying light but firm pressure on her upper thighs downward moving to the lower back & ass sometimes. She seems to cum like that when my hands are on the upper thighs or lower back but she usually says grab my ass or suck my nipple as she is about to cum.

[Gravik Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gravik]

Having a big dick and knowing how to use it is definitely better than an average or smaller one and knowing how to use it.

[Robberman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Robberman]

Took advice from this and I've never seen my girlfriends nipples that erect! She was rolling on the bed after she came!

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Took advice from this and I've never seen my girlfriends nipples that erect! She was rolling on the bed after she came!

Always good to hear about successes!
This is a great thread.....

[BBD Member Find all posts View Profile Close BBD]

Now this is what i call a "Good Education".