Debunking A Popular Myth About the Female Orgasm

[hotstud Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hotstud]

Because its easy to become a legend in one's mind.

Actually, truly hard is to become a real legend when you are young and strong and then carry your stigma all your life when others are watching you growing old, feeble, and going down to the grave.

[deborah Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close deborah]

I see this is an older thread but am going to respond anyways. Yes, I have to be responsible for my own orgasm. What does that look like? Being relaxed, open, willing is all part of it. You know your body and what you need. Having a partner who is willing to listen and do things asked of them to facilitate is the other part of this equation. Most women aren't ready for orgasm after 1 kiss, or wink or slap on the butt. Am I wrong? It takes a little finessing to get things going. Too much effort?

When I was very young...too young, my bf and I would kiss a lot, never any touching under clothes, never touching hot spots....needless to say never any sex. But, from those make out sessions I had on 3 occasions full body orgasms, didn't know what the hell was happening at the time and didn't understand till years later. Now, it is very difficult for me to reach orgasm. The fact that it takes time has been a problem now. He doesn't want to take it slow and when he does his oral technique is very similar to what I've read many times here. Even though I remind him to maintain slow and easy, in his mind he's doing the right thing by kicking it in to high gear. Every woman is different. It's a process that takes time. Fortunately I can enjoy the experience without an orgasm, but damn, would be nice to know that he is going to stay with it till I get there. Wouldn't take half as long if foreplay was not rushed. (I feel rushed...he just doesn't require it) He's always ready!

[TANGO 5/10 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TANGO 5/10]

I am quite old now (76 YO) and this question recently started waking me at night. When I was young in my 20's and 30's, I had many girlfriends, dozens, probably even hundreds. Very many of them were married, many were married to my close friends and colleagues. Yet they kept coming for sex at a slightest hint or call, in the morning, at noon, or in the middle of the night. Many husbands knew about the situation, yet none of them ever came to complain to me and we are friends even today, after some 50 years. The most shocking fact was that ALL girls wanted to move to me and live with me permanently, even to get married. Some of the married girls actually left their families and lived with me for very long periods of time, one of them is still living with me until today and others are close friends. Some of the girls even declared in the open that they want babies with me. I had extreme problems avoiding too many marriages...

What puzzles me these days is the behavior of these girls. Certainly I am not rich, not unusually handsome, maybe bit smarter than the average man, and I am generally considered (wrongly I believe) as a male chauvinist. So why all of them wanted to have sex with me and to live with me?

This fact always puzzled me but I think that in hindsight I am starting to see the light. I have been always considered (rightfully) a sex addict and maniac (and the situation did not change to this day). I always had an aura of sex about me generated by others (I NEVER talked about sex openly among other people) and some women obviously got excited about it and "had to try it". Once they got into my bed, they always got hooked.

I always worked on each girl VERY DILIGENTLY until she got a very strong orgasm. Not a fake like you can see in porn movies but a real explosive orgasm. The whole woman's body in spasmodic convulsions, body seizures, all body muscles hard like rock, upper torso bending backwards, genital area thrusting against my penis, eyes rolling backwards and showing only white, vagina muscles cramping hard around my penis like she wanted to bite it off, and girls shrieking and emitting sounds like wild animals..... It was totally scary, just like black Wodo witchcraft magic. When I was very young, I was very scared that I am hurting them badly. Yet when they came back, they were extremely happy, told me that they had never experienced anything like that ... and kept coming for more. Some of them even begging that I impregnate them and that we raise a family.

My P. is not very unusual, just about 8X6 in. but it always gets hard like a steel pipe ( even today despite my age). However I believe that I am very experienced in handling woman's body and mainly her mind in many sophisticated ways. If I can get mental intercourse with woman's mind, I can control her physiological orgasms quite easily. And this is what matters. Women will leave behind their lovers, their boyfriends, their husbands, their families, and even their money (one of them even bought me a house) in order to achieve such complete body-mind orgasms. This is a way to fulfillment of true womanhood, towards a possibility of jointly raising a great family.

I have raised very successfully 3 different families with 3 different mothers and gained respect as a dedicated father. On the other hand there have been claims made that two men whose women got involved with me lost their lives in desperation. It worries me till today. But unleashed forces of sexual nature were completely beyond anybody's control and everybody always had a complete freedom of choice.

Yes Sir this old post had me laughing from Philadelphia PA to Timbuktu ....

Lies all Lies , but a good Fictional story nontheless

This is one of those Erotica story's trying to sell it off as reality. I read a story like this very similar in a Hustler Magazine years ago.