Debunking A Popular Myth About the Female Orgasm

[Glamissand1 Senior Member Member of the Month March 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Glamissand1]

Not sure how I missed this thread, but its fitting I find it now.

I have had a hard time getting my wife to let go of her deep orgasms. Many times she will hold them back and rides the pre PONR. I'm ok with this because I know how great it feels when near PONR. But today had an unexpected turn of events.

After getting her off via colonel angus, I started to deep thrust her to get her going. But the couch being on hardwood floors started to seperate, and the wife started to slip into the opening gap. We had a blanket down so I knew she wouldn't fall so I kept going, do to the better position she was giving me. As she started to complain about falling off the couch, could see her eyes rolling in her head. So I kept at it and then she climaxed like I've never seen before.

What I learned is she felt a loss of control from the slipping couch, which took her control away from holding back her orgasm. Or it took her mind off of it long enough for it to happen.

[Roguish75 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Roguish75]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/665...tml#post765702

Lets not confuse safe, sane and consensual BDSM play with the terrible R word, there is no connection between the two.

Don't confuse what YOU consider to be safe, sane and consensual with all that happens in BDSM.

Forced orgasms are as on subject as anything.

[hotstud Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hotstud]

One of the greatest misconceptions to undermine a man’s sexual confidence and generate sexual performance anxiety is the mistaken belief that in order to be considered a good, if not great lover; he should be able to provide his female partner with mind-blowing orgasms EVERY SINGLE TIME.

I am quite old now (76 YO) and this question recently started waking me at night. When I was young in my 20's and 30's, I had many girlfriends, dozens, probably even hundreds. Very many of them were married, many were married to my close friends and colleagues. Yet they kept coming for sex at a slightest hint or call, in the morning, at noon, or in the middle of the night. Many husbands knew about the situation, yet none of them ever came to complain to me and we are friends even today, after some 50 years. The most shocking fact was that ALL girls wanted to move to me and live with me permanently, even to get married. Some of the married girls actually left their families and lived with me for very long periods of time, one of them is still living with me until today and others are close friends. Some of the girls even declared in the open that they want babies with me. I had extreme problems avoiding too many marriages...

What puzzles me these days is the behavior of these girls. Certainly I am not rich, not unusually handsome, maybe bit smarter than the average man, and I am generally considered (wrongly I believe) as a male chauvinist. So why all of them wanted to have sex with me and to live with me?

This fact always puzzled me but I think that in hindsight I am starting to see the light. I have been always considered (rightfully) a sex addict and maniac (and the situation did not change to this day). I always had an aura of sex about me generated by others (I NEVER talked about sex openly among other people) and some women obviously got excited about it and "had to try it". Once they got into my bed, they always got hooked.

I always worked on each girl VERY DILIGENTLY until she got a very strong orgasm. Not a fake like you can see in porn movies but a real explosive orgasm. The whole woman's body in spasmodic convulsions, body seizures, all body muscles hard like rock, upper torso bending backwards, genital area thrusting against my penis, eyes rolling backwards and showing only white, vagina muscles cramping hard around my penis like she wanted to bite it off, and girls shrieking and emitting sounds like wild animals..... It was totally scary, just like black Wodo witchcraft magic. When I was very young, I was very scared that I am hurting them badly. Yet when they came back, they were extremely happy, told me that they had never experienced anything like that ... and kept coming for more. Some of them even begging that I impregnate them and that we raise a family.

My P. is not very unusual, just about 8X6 in. but it always gets hard like a steel pipe ( even today despite my age). However I believe that I am very experienced in handling woman's body and mainly her mind in many sophisticated ways. If I can get mental intercourse with woman's mind, I can control her physiological orgasms quite easily. And this is what matters. Women will leave behind their lovers, their boyfriends, their husbands, their families, and even their money (one of them even bought me a house) in order to achieve such complete body-mind orgasms. This is a way to fulfillment of true womanhood, towards a possibility of jointly raising a great family.

I have raised very successfully 3 different families with 3 different mothers and gained respect as a dedicated father. On the other hand there have been claims made that two men whose women got involved with me lost their lives in desperation. It worries me till today. But unleashed forces of sexual nature were completely beyond anybody's control and everybody always had a complete freedom of choice.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

It doesn't sound like it worries you too much seeing that you only attached that as a minor detail or "collateral damage" in your self-appraising spiel about what a great lover you are. Well done by the way - wrecking marriages, causing deaths, and ruining friendships. You really are a commendable character.

On the other hand there have been claims made that two men whose women got involved with me lost their lives in desperation. It worries me till today. But unleashed forces of sexual nature were completely beyond anybody's control and everybody always had a complete freedom of choice.

[MrPriapus Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrPriapus]

Hey where'd my post go?

Anyways, "colonel angus" lol. Nice, hadn't heard it put that way before.

[hotstud Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hotstud]

It doesn't sound like it worries you too much seeing that you only attached that as a minor detail or "collateral damage" in your self-appraising spiel about what a great lover you are. Well done by the way - wrecking marriages, causing deaths, and ruining friendships. You really are a commendable character.

I did not wreck virtually any marriages. All the women who followed me were missing something important in their original marriages. These were not only physiological orgasms they were lacking. They were missing mental and emotional fulfillment stemming from a profound relation between a man and a woman, something not every man is able and willing to provide. Experiences these women encountered with me were truly and deeply orgasmic for them in every sense of the word and enriched their lives in many human dimensions. They knew it and their husbands knew it too. That is why these women eventually returned to their husbands and were benevolently accepted. Only two wives did not return and raised beautiful and successful families with me.

Regarding "collateral damage", I have been suffering mentally for almost half of a century as a consequence. I was not directly involved in any of them, they were all consequences of far remote decisions made by other people. And the real true reason for these damages was an effort of involved women to find their own complete fulfillment with me, and narrow minded inability of men to mentally and emotionally accept this fact. And furthermore, I did NOT wreck any friendships, I remain until this day a good friend with all involved husbands. They knew about their wife's orgasmic adventures with me and treated them as their benevolent gift to their wives. Each husband realized that he is getting a better, more experienced and more sophisticated wife on her return. And he knew that he is a better man than me because, after all, she returned back to him. And that was all good with me...

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I did not wreck virtually any marriages. All the women who followed me were missing something important in their original marriages. These were not only physiological orgasms they were lacking. They were missing mental and emotional fulfillment stemming from a profound relation between a man and a woman, something not every man is able and willing to provide. Experiences these women encountered with me were truly and deeply orgasmic for them in every sense of the word and enriched their lives in many human dimensions. They knew it and their husbands knew it too. That is why these women eventually returned to their husbands and were benevolently accepted. Only two wives did not return and raised beautiful and successful families with me.

Regarding "collateral damage", I have been suffering mentally for almost half of a century as a consequence. I was not directly involved in any of them, they were all consequences of far remote decisions made by other people. And the real true reason for these damages was an effort of involved women to find their own complete fulfillment with me, and narrow minded inability of men to mentally and emotionally accept this fact. And furthermore, I did NOT wreck any friendships, I remain until this day a good friend with all involved husbands. They knew about their wife's orgasmic adventures with me and treated them as their benevolent gift to their wives. Each husband realized that he is getting a better, more experienced and more sophisticated wife on her return. And he knew that he is a better man than me because, after all, she returned back to him. And that was all good with me...

I think you should adopt what ever justification helps you sleep at night, no matter how shallow or delusional.

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[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

One of the greatest misconceptions to undermine a man’s sexual confidence and generate sexual performance anxiety is the mistaken belief that in order to be considered a good, if not great lover; he should be able to provide his female partner with mind-blowing orgasms EVERY SINGLE TIME.

There is only one problem. Orgasms cannot just be “given” to another; they don’t work that way. An orgasm can emerge from deep within a woman when she experiences a combination of erotic thoughts or fantasies, arousing sexual stimulation and relaxation but she is the only one who can let it out. Yes, her lover can either help or hinder her orgasmic journey but he doesn't actually “give” her an orgasm; that responsibility is hers alone.

The mistaken belief that men should be the experts in sex; orchestrating it for women, “giving” them unparalleled sexual pleasure and toe-curling, sheet-ripping, pillow-biting orgasms will not only prevent men from actually enjoying sex, it is just plain wrong…for these three reasons:

1. Each of us is responsible for our own orgasms. Sure, we can create an ideal environment in which our partner feels relaxed, safe, aroused and turned on enough to have one but we don’t “give” them out.

2. When we believe our partner’s orgasm is our sole responsibility, sex suddenly shifts from sexual sharing to an erotic job or performance. And experiencing sex as work is certainly not going to make it very enjoyable and pleasurable. In fact, it is often what causes sexual resentment and problems.

3. With porn teaching so many men (and women) to view sex as non-sensuous and genital-focused, it encourages “porn-style sex” where the woman doesn't receive the whole-body sensuality she needs to become properly aroused and the man feels such tremendous pressure to “perform” that he often can’t.

So dear gentlemen, if there is one thing that can help you generate greater sexual self-confidence and help eliminate sexual performance anxiety, remember that it is NOT your job to lead your gal in sex and “give” her amazing orgasms nor is it her mission to do the same for you. And although great sex is best experienced as a sensual dance where both lovers have participated in setting the erotic stage; the ability to achieve orgasm is the responsibility of each partner individually.

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Richard Pryor on Sex & Women's Orgasm's

At the 1 minute mark it speaks to TPW's Post
http://youtu.be/UiOKc5eGuKg

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[ThinJohnny Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThinJohnny]

I am quite old now (76 YO) and this question recently started waking me at night. When I was young in my 20's and 30's, I had many girlfriends, dozens, probably even hundreds. Very many of them were married, many were married to my close friends and colleagues. Yet they kept coming for sex at a slightest hint or call, in the morning, at noon, or in the middle of the night. Many husbands knew about the situation, yet none of them ever came to complain to me and we are friends even today, after some 50 years. The most shocking fact was that ALL girls wanted to move to me and live with me permanently, even to get married. Some of the married girls actually left their families and lived with me for very long periods of time, one of them is still living with me until today and others are close friends. Some of the girls even declared in the open that they want babies with me. I had extreme problems avoiding too many marriages...

What puzzles me these days is the behavior of these girls. Certainly I am not rich, not unusually handsome, maybe bit smarter than the average man, and I am generally considered (wrongly I believe) as a male chauvinist. So why all of them wanted to have sex with me and to live with me?

This fact always puzzled me but I think that in hindsight I am starting to see the light. I have been always considered (rightfully) a sex addict and maniac (and the situation did not change to this day). I always had an aura of sex about me generated by others (I NEVER talked about sex openly among other people) and some women obviously got excited about it and "had to try it". Once they got into my bed, they always got hooked.

I always worked on each girl VERY DILIGENTLY until she got a very strong orgasm. Not a fake like you can see in porn movies but a real explosive orgasm. The whole woman's body in spasmodic convulsions, body seizures, all body muscles hard like rock, upper torso bending backwards, genital area thrusting against my penis, eyes rolling backwards and showing only white, vagina muscles cramping hard around my penis like she wanted to bite it off, and girls shrieking and emitting sounds like wild animals..... It was totally scary, just like black Wodo witchcraft magic. When I was very young, I was very scared that I am hurting them badly. Yet when they came back, they were extremely happy, told me that they had never experienced anything like that ... and kept coming for more. Some of them even begging that I impregnate them and that we raise a family.

My P. is not very unusual, just about 8X6 in. but it always gets hard like a steel pipe ( even today despite my age). However I believe that I am very experienced in handling woman's body and mainly her mind in many sophisticated ways. If I can get mental intercourse with woman's mind, I can control her physiological orgasms quite easily. And this is what matters. Women will leave behind their lovers, their boyfriends, their husbands, their families, and even their money (one of them even bought me a house) in order to achieve such complete body-mind orgasms. This is a way to fulfillment of true womanhood, towards a possibility of jointly raising a great family.

I have raised very successfully 3 different families with 3 different mothers and gained respect as a dedicated father. On the other hand there have been claims made that two men whose women got involved with me lost their lives in desperation. It worries me till today. But unleashed forces of sexual nature were completely beyond anybody's control and everybody always had a complete freedom of choice.

I know you have your own theory, but I think it was your deep humility that really hooked all those babes.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

So, give women great orgasms, perhaps like the ones hotstud mentions, and women will leave their partners for you? Coolio. Single life it is.

[camaro Senior Member Member of the month June 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close camaro]

What rubbish.There is an element of truth to his sayings, but it is not quite simple.

Their men don't treat you as a blessing lol....

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I often wonder why we get so much narcisism here.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Because its easy to become a legend in one's mind.

[hotstud Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hotstud]

So, give women great orgasms, perhaps like the ones hotstud mentions, and women will leave their partners for you? Coolio. Single life it is.

I NEVER said that. You try to play the whole game with just one card from my deck. It is NOT that simple. Read again BOTH parts of my post.