Is big dink really that better?

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

There's a sex position that I really love and used to fantasise about, I'm not gonna go into details. My first experience was perfect and her pussy was so tight my dick felt like a teenage boy in a crowd of gorgeous naked girls rubbing against him as he opened his way through them. Unfortunately, not all girls are that tight. I am average size and have never felt inadequate, but I had one girl even ask me if it was actually in there in that position and I had to check and find out to my consternation that it actually WAS in there. Another one told me that she didn't like this position because she couldn't feel it in there. I can't ask a woman to make it tighter for me and growing takes time. I'm just saying that had I been bigger I would have had more fun in that position and I wouldn't have my ego smashed to pieces like that. I just hope all pussies were as tight as the woman I lost my virginity to.

You shouldn't make it an ego thing (the third link of my last post is relevant here too), try a different position(s), angling makes a difference too, if you are very interested in mechanics, then go ahead and look up diagrams of the female anatomy, and try to visualize how to target spots and all that in regards to your penis's shape and size, or better, try to connect to a lady on an emotional level.

One note, did ever occur to you that she didn't feel you in that position because she was so excited probably from previous stimulation or foreplay, which made her aroused, generously lubricated, and vaginally tented.

I think its all in the brain, for both genders.

[kirkoloft Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kirkoloft]

In hope that you and other men change would one day change your minds about this, or at least consider another view.

And I know that I sound like a broken record, and even though we already got a lady's perspective, but please take a look below.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/639...ize-queen.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/640...k-will-do.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...le-orgasm.html

Some ladies do care about size, or even prefer/want a certain range, large, huge, average, small or whatever they like, nothing is wrong with that, but it doesn't mean that all women or the majority have the same preference, although my very last statement is quite wrong as the "studies" in addition to common sense confirm that on average, most women prefer an average ranged size, but its very low on their list.

Maybe, for one night stands or casual encounters, things may look different, but I doubt that, and believe that a confident man will win even in a superficial encounter.

I'm just saying that bigger is better, that's all. There is no hidden meaning and no message between the lines.
Do you need a big penis to please women? NO.
Does having a bigger penis make you a better lover? NO.
Do women choose men or even rate men based on their size or even consider size as one of their criteria for choosing men? NO or maybe a very small percentage.
Do women have preferences? YES, of course they do but somethings outweigh others. Look at the size of the most popular dildos.
Do I prefer a tighter pussy? Yes of course.
Would I choose my future wife based on that? Hell no.
I believe I am right about this. Or else what would this be about?https://www.pegym.com/forums/success...tml#post756302

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

I'm just saying that bigger is better, that's all. There is no hidden meaning and no message between the lines.
Do you need a big penis to please women? NO.
Does having a bigger penis make you a better lover? NO.
Do women choose men or even rate men based on their size or even consider size as one of their criteria for choosing men? NO or maybe a very small percentage.
Do women have preferences? YES, of course they do but somethings outweigh others. Look at the size of the most popular dildos.
Do I prefer a tighter pussy? Yes of course.
Would I choose my future wife based on that? Hell no.
I believe I am right about this. Or else what would this be about?https://www.pegym.com/forums/success...tml#post756302

Man, I respect your honesty and you have every right to feel that way. I also appreciate the effort to make people see size doesn't matter, but for some it still will and enhances their experience and that's fine too. Honest discussion is always welcome on the forum .

[CopenhagenW23 Member Find all posts View Profile Close CopenhagenW23]

A think a healthier COCK is more important than how big your DONG is. Sex is better for me and her when my PENIS is so hard that a cat couldn't scratch it. Although my SCHLONG is more on the average side, I would like a little more length and girth to enhance the experience, and to increase my confidence. I'm doing PE and I'm not even telling my girlfriend. She will notice my DICK getting bigger and more full eventually. Sex might get better sure, but the sex we have is already amazing, and she will not magically like me more for having a larger WEINER. The first time we had sex she said I was "amazing" and that she said "I thought I would never have good sex again". All with an average sized PHALLUS.

That being said. She prefers clitoral stimulation, and a bigger WANG will not stimulate it during penetration. As others have suggested. Being a more passionate, knowledgeable, and overall better lover holds more weight than having a large MEAT THERMOMETER.

-Dink with 2 Spaceballs

[fordzilla Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close fordzilla]

Hmmm...does size matter in a man? Absolutely!

We women love the size of a man's capacity to be a considerate and caring lover.

We women love the size of a man's awareness of his own sexual anatomy and of a women's.

We women love the size of a man's sexual intelligence.

We women love the size of a man's confidence in myself.

We women love the size of a man's capacity to love others as well as himself.

So what about the size of a man's virile rod of masculinity? Nope sorry... in that case, size really doesn't matter that much at all.

True story.

I have to agree with TPW on this one you could be hung like a fucking moose but if your an asshole and your personality scares a chick then there is no way in hell she is going to see your naked schlong even let alone go out with a chick on a date

take that into consideration asian men are wanted by all races and let's just say we all know that they aren't brining a ICBM to the table so what's in them that they see besides the obvious being an all round karate bad ass "they are nice caring considerate men who remain loyal to their partners through tradition and religion and such"

I thank god almost daily for giving me the qualities of an asian man yet the penis of a white dude everyday like joint expansion said it really is just a bonus feature

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

I have to agree with TPW on this one you could be hung like a fucking moose but if your an asshole and your personality scares a chick then there is no way in hell she is going to see your naked schlong even let alone go out with a chick on a date

take that into consideration asian men are wanted by all races and let's just say we all know that they aren't brining a ICBM to the table so what's in them that they see besides the obvious being an all round karate bad ass "they are nice caring considerate men who remain loyal to their partners through tradition and religion and such"

I thank god almost daily for giving me the qualities of an asian man yet the penis of a white dude everyday like joint expansion said it really is just a bonus feature

It's pretty well known according to online dating site statistics, and other findings and popular common knowledge in America asian men are the least desired race/gender combination along with black females there's a number of writeups online you can find talking about the two having problems finding significant others ... Only people that get responded to less than asian males online is black males, though messages to white females has black males and asian males responded to evenly, the other races respond less to blacks slightly ...

Edit: now that i look back at the study, they chose guys of even attractiveness and height, so in reality asians would get less as their normal height is quite a few inches shorter than blacks and of course whites.


This is also getting old ... OMG an asshole that has horrible qualities but a big dick won't get much love from females? What news! Stop with the same old tired strawman argument. It is not have a big dick and shitty other stuff vs not big dick and good other stuff. Why are you attributing those qualities to a big dick guy? who here is saying they plan on being an asshole dipshit and growing a big dick? who here is really that worried about a complete asshole punk with a big dick? ... You can have a big dick and be nice ... sorry to say ... am i crushing dreams of every big dick guy out there being an asshole? there are great guys with great dicks, face it. And they are going to be the cream of the crop most of the time in most young girl's eyes in today's big dick idolized popular culture.

[Rasputine Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rasputine]

The problem is,God gave man a penis and brain but only enough blood
to use one at a time.-Robin Williams

[Trotsky slaying thedragon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Trotsky slaying thedragon]

Yes it is. Pretty much every woman will say that depending on the man the size doesn't matter but her libidinal mind lusts for big cock like a dog lusts after Christmas Ham.

That said, how physically attractive you are is *more* important than dick size. Also, your status and personality are huge for women. More than likely these things go together. Short, ugly, men usually have small penises. Tall, good-looking men usually have bigger penises. Nature is unkind, but women don't seem to care about that unless it affects them.

I should also point out that there are two types of people responding to your question. Men over 30 and men under 30. Factor those biases into your understanding.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Also factor in that there are two types of people in this forum:
1) angry, bitter men, who look at women as something to conquer, much like an animal
2) happier, more successful men who see women as unique individuals who share power with their male counterparts.

That will influence their responses as well.

Yes it is. Pretty much every woman will say that depending on the man the size doesn't matter but her libidinal mind lusts for big cock like a dog lusts after Christmas Ham.

I knew there was a reason why I got messages on my answering machine that sounded like a dog's panting. Girls are looking for a christmas ham. ROFL that is an amazing sentence.

[Rasputine Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rasputine]

Also factor in that there are two types of people in this forum:
1) angry, bitter men, who look at women as something to conquer, much like an animal
2) happier, more successful men who see women as unique individuals who share power with their male counterparts.

That will influence their responses as well.


I knew there was a reason why I got messages on my answering machine that sounded like a dog's panting. Girls are looking for a christmas ham. ROFL that is an amazing sentence.

Could be Hmmmmm

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

I think it's easier to keep making my dick bigger than my brain...

Oh, you haven't tried my brain jelqing routine yet? Why settle for only one huge head when two heads are better than one?

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

oh, you haven't tried my brain jelqing routine yet? Why settle for only one huge head when two heads are better than one?

lmao

[kirkoloft Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kirkoloft]

Also factor in that there are two types of people in this forum:
1) angry, bitter men, who look at women as something to conquer, much like an animal
2) happier, more successful men who see women as unique individuals who share power with their male counterparts.

That will influence their responses as well.

I hate it when someone dichotomizes people. I believe we only have people, with different backgrounds, attitudes, believes, and experiences. I'm sure you weren't referring to yourself as someone who belongs to #2. If you don't agree with someone, then you don't agree with them, that's it. No need to call them bitter, angry, and bestial. The world would be a much better place if people learned to be more open minded and less condescending.

[Steneo Senior MemberPEGym Hero Member of the Month Dec 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close Steneo]

I should also point out that there are two types of people responding to your question. Men over 30 and men under 30. Factor those biases into your understanding.

30 years of age is a magical line then? What biases specifically are you referring to here that appear at 30 years old?

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

I think he has a point Steneo. Last June when I turned 30, I sprouted these strange wing-like features where my two shoulder-blades are allocated and I have heard of other people developing strange animal-like features, howling at moons, and other paranormal phenomenon once they reach that age.

30 years of age is a magical line then? What biases specifically are you referring to here that appear at 30 years old?