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  • Originally posted by PNS85 View Post
    I hate to say it Pegasus but in my experience Bigfoot69 is right. Despite how statistically rare my 7" girth is, it's never caused an issue for me at all, even during experiences with minimal foreplay and no lube. My 8" length on the other hand, despite being far less statistically rare, has caused pain or discomfort more times than I can count. My girlfriend, despite having been with me for 8 years now still needs to be very aroused and relaxed for me to go all the way in. If I go all the way in too soon or at the wrong angle before she's ready it can cause her pain. The same was the case for several of my past partners. I was even with one woman who couldn't handle my length under any circumstances, and I had to be careful to never enter all the way... but even for her my girth was not a problem at all.

    My girth has caused issues for me literally ZERO times in my life, while I can think of a handful of times in the last month alone when I had to apologize to my girlfriend for accidentally hurting her a little by going too deep before she was ready.

    Bigfoot69 also said "and it's not a one night stand", which may very well be the missing piece of the puzzle that caused so many of you to doubt my claims in the first place, since I've never had one myself. I believe we explored this possibility a few pages back in the thread, but I'll summarize my hypothesis again here:

    I think that whether or not a woman can handle a lot of girth depends almost entirely on her own brain and body in the moment. If she's even a little tense, worried, or nervous (i.e. not fully relaxed and comfortable), I can imagine how too much girth might cause some pain or discomfort. This is likely the case for many women in one-night-stands. For a woman in a relationship with a man she loves though, this would never be the case. She would always feel relaxed, secure, trusting, etc.

    I'm certainly not trying to claim my words as absolute truth - I'm just offering my thoughts and experiences on the matter and sharing my theories on why girth has never been an issue for me. After all, this is the very mystery I hoped to solve by starting this thread in the first place.
    I can't get my 5.6" girth in my GF if she's not lubricated.

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    • Originally posted by Hiplainsdrifter View Post
      I can't get my 5.6" girth in my GF if she's not lubricated.
      Yep and guys with cred onsite often have issues even with foreplay ,lube yada yada once they exceed 6" girth .
      While length can cause issues it can be got around with skill.

      We often get guys come onsite claiming this size and that and then saying things that just do not make sense if that were true . But hey this is the net. I actually wrote a thread once on how to write more plausible stories ,the first point was remember who your audience is .

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      • I clamped the other day and hit 5.65" girth. Never hit over 5.5". It felt pretty damn big. Im at 5.25"eg which doesnt feel big but I guess when I hit 5.5" ill think that doesnt feel big either. I couldn't imagine 6", thats a monster.
        Start 3.16.15 - 7bpel, 6bpel, 5meg

        Current 1.19.16 - 7.85bpel, 6.6nbpel, 5.3meg

        Goal 1.19.17 - 8.5bpel, 7.5nbpel, 5.75meg

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        • But i think most women can take 6" if you push hard enough. Lol
          Start 3.16.15 - 7bpel, 6bpel, 5meg

          Current 1.19.16 - 7.85bpel, 6.6nbpel, 5.3meg

          Goal 1.19.17 - 8.5bpel, 7.5nbpel, 5.75meg

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          • @Hiplainsdrifter does your girlfriend enjoy it though? My girth is literally the same 5.6, my erect length which I'm working on is 6.5.

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            • I think the better question is why do you want more when it really isn't necessary?

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              • If your reply to me. I want an extra 0.5 inches. I used to have 7 inches before i had an operation... wanted to get back ever since.

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                • Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                  Yep and guys with cred onsite often have issues even with foreplay ,lube yada yada once they exceed 6" girth .
                  While length can cause issues it can be got around with skill.

                  We often get guys come onsite claiming this size and that and then saying things that just do not make sense if that were true . But hey this is the net. I actually wrote a thread once on how to write more plausible stories ,the first point was remember who your audience is .
                  hahahaha so true....
                  Original start 09- 6'' BPEL 4.5'' MSEG

                  Start- 7'' BPEL 5'' MSEG

                  Now- 7 1/8'' BPEL 5 1/4'' MSEG

                  Goal- 10'' BPEL 6.5'' MSEG

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                  • I'm 5.5 girth maybe 5.6... not sure havent been able to measure. But I plan on using an extender to get another 0.5 inches of length which will give 0.2 inches of girth most likely or less... I don't think 5.7 is too bad. I didn't gain any girth from my first 0.5 inches in length gains.

                    Using an extender/stretching i dont think does much for girth anyways...
                    I wish i could keep 5.5... but I'd like that 7 inches in length.. a lot of women say that is pretty ideal and i think it will look better.

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                    • ur not 7inches girth.
                      Started: 11/9/15 7.1x5.0

                      11/9/15: NBPEL: 7.1inches | BPEL:unknown(forgot to measure)

                      12/9/15: NBPEL: 7.5inches | BPEL: 7.8inches

                      One month summary: +.4 NBPEL

                      Goal: 8.2x5.6

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                      • Never said I had....

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                        • Guys please remember that each woman is different. So are thiers vaginas. So girth size maximums will vary by vagina. There really is no way to answer this question except on a vagina to vagina basis. Don't get wrapped up in worrying about size.
                          ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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                          • Originally posted by Wishful10x8 View Post
                            Guys please remember that each woman is different. So are thiers vaginas. So girth size maximums will vary by vagina. There really is no way to answer this question except on a vagina to vagina basis. Don't get wrapped up in worrying about size.
                            Absolutely right. The size of men's dicks vary, so do women's vagina's. They are not a one size fits all.
                            To totally satisfy a woman sexually is not about having a large penis, it's about being a good lover.

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                            • Still, read enough around here, Thunders, et all, and it almost seems like 6" isn't 'all that great' these days...find it hard to believe how many are at or around 6" and shooting for 7-7.5" MEG. Sitting at around 5.1-5.2" MEG, I can't even fathom being that large...plus what condom could you possibly use??
                              Original/Current Stats:
                              2014-09-01: BPEL 6.8"/NBPEL 6" MEG 5.0", BPFL 5"/NBPFL 4" FG 4.4"
                              2019-03-16: BPEL 8"/NBPEL 6.75" MEG 5.2", BPFL 6.75"/NBPFL 5.5" FG 4.5"

                              Goals:
                              Realistic: BPEL 8.5"/NBPEL 7.5" MEG 5.5"
                              Optimistic: BPEL 9"/NBPEL 8" MEG 5.75"
                              Dream: BPEL 10"/NBPEL 9" MEG 6.5"

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                              • I am at 6 and I do not seek anymore girth. There is no need.
                                Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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