Best Way to Achieve Female Orgasm

[Magneto Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Magneto]

this is surprising cos i always made my girl cum. we were together 9 years and never did she not cum. although i did love eating her. my cock isnt huge too but she said i had good hip movement and i knew her spots.

[fornan Member Find all posts View Profile Close fornan]

Theres a technique that me and "boss" use that guarantees her success EVERYTIME! (if you read my newbie thread you will see that I most certainly do NOT have a huge member)

What we do is the following....

She gets on all 4's, then lies flat on her front, puts her knees/legs closeish together and sticks her ass up high. I then straddle her legs (so they are between mine) and angle my thrusting "upwards", as I am a bit lower due to my legs being further apart, this is pretty easy. Then, long, steady strokes in and out, within mintues she off!

She tells me its because she can feel it on the inside of her ass too, even though Im not in her ass (and she HATES anal), it feels really good as it seems to do both vaginal and anal "walls", as when mini-me has done that, the steady thrust in gets her nice and deep.

Works for us, give it a try

wait is this like doggy style, or is there some stick figure illustration you could use? lol...i really want to try this

[DryJelq Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DryJelq]

The first thing I do is grab her clit with my fingers, usually thumb and index finger. I grab the skin around it too. You don't need to touch it directly. Then I roll it between my fingers, pull up, down, side to side, away from her body. I jack it off like it's a miniature version of my dick. Rolling it between my fingers and twisting it like I would a nipple works really well. You don't need to use much force though. Don't go nuts until it starts to fill up with blood.

Once the foreplay has progressed, I suck on her clit. I don't bother too much with licking as I feel this something that is best suited for getting her clit warmed up, not for making her cum. Plus sucking on her clit forces the blood into it and makes it all the more sensitive. Once her clit is nice and swollen I squeeze it with my lips, tongue or teeth. I pull on it, roll it, exactly what I did with my fingers earlier. This pushes the blood out of her clit.

The reason getting head feels so good is because the sucking action fills everything up with extra blood providing more nutrients to the nerve cells. Try to be sucking at least 50% of the time.

While you are doing this, is the best time to explore her vagina with your fingers. The clitoris is actually pretty large. It's just that only the very tip of it is what most people focus on. The clitoral hood wraps around the vagina for the first inch or so. The entrance is usually pretty tight at first. Put in a couple fingers and push on the walls a bit to stimulate the rest of her clit. This will help her get nice and erect. You should notice that the walls start to get a lot firmer after you do this. If you continue pushing, the walls will continue to harden and expand. This is particularly helpful if you have a rather thick member and need to make sure she's really warmed up.

Once the entrance to her vagina is nice and erect, I go deeper with my fingers. On the upper wall you have the g-spot. You should feel a patch of rough skin. Just make a come here gesture with your fingers, pressing up against her. Don't be afraid to push hard. I don't really know much about the g-spot for orgasms, but I know that it feels like a patch of rough skin.

What I like to do though is go as deep as I can with my fingers. Once I find the cervix, I poke on the upper wall right next to it. Sometimes I turn my hand sideways and use my middle and ring finger to get it in far enough. Usually I just squirm my fingers around way back in there and that seems to be very enjoyable.

You really have to be far enough in or you aren't gonna do shit though. There's a dead spot on the upper wall after the g-spot until you reach the cul-de-sac and cervix. The cul-de-sac is either right next to the cervix or behind it. Stimulation of this isn't gonna do anything for her. You should be able to find the spot with your fingers if you poke around enough. If you can, then you are fortunate, because this is exactly where you want to aim when you penetrate her and you will know where to go.

I'm the most successful in the missionary position. However I do have an upwards curvature which helps me aim for the spot that I was talking about earlier. I aim as deep as I can on the upper wall without hitting the cervix straight on. Grazing it seems to be the most enjoyable.

I start slow and make sure I find "the spot." Then I just stay on it until she gets going. Once she's well aroused, I start fucking her harder, so that my pubic bone is smacking against her vulva and clitoris. Make sure that you stay on the spot and you aren't hitting her cervix. It's my guess that only guys with an upwards curving penis can do this.

Smacking her clit with my pubic bone while I'm hitting the cul-de-sac almost always works for me.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I reach orgasm much more easily in a classic missionary position -- or the same position but with me on top -- than I do in any other position. This is because my clit gets lots of friction in these face-to-face positions, and that's what tips me over the edge. It is much harder for me to cum when my clit is not getting direct rubbing or pounding. I like lots of other positions because they feel great, but orgasms are harder to come by (for me, at least!)

[DryJelq Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DryJelq]

I like lots of other positions because they feel great, but orgasms are harder to come by (for me, at least!)

Sometimes the best sex is when you don't orgasm. The longer before you climax, the longer it has to build up.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Sometimes the best sex is when you don't orgasm. The longer before you climax, the longer it has to build up.

Of course! But this thread is about how to get the lady to that wonderful orgasm at the end!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Do you play with yourself during sex BW? I would have thought this would increase the number of positions you can orgasm in.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Sometimes the best sex is when you don't orgasm. The longer before you climax, the longer it has to build up.

I tend towards the theory that there good, better, and best times for her to cum and that a longer build up is not always better. It all depends on the dynamics of the moment and her mood.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I tend towards the theory that there good, better, and best times for her to cum and that a longer build up is not always better. It all depends on the dynamics of the moment and her mood.

Hmmm.... yes, of course it depends on the situation. But unless the kids are due home any minute or there is some other reason to hurry it along, I think that I almost always prefer a longer buildup. Sometimes I am so ready that I could easily cum right away -- and I want it badly -- but those are the very times when waiting a bit longer feels fabulous and makes the O at the end even better. The delayed gratification is really worth it in my book because the experience along the way is so great.

Another thought about timing and female orgasms..... sometimes I really feel like sex but an orgasm does not feel particularly necessary or attainable. That may be hard for a guy to understand, but it's true. In my case, if we've had a lot of sex lately and I've already had a few orgasms in the last 24 hours, I may not be able to easily get to the peak of arousal that's necessary for me to cum. But that does not mean that I can't get most of the way up the mountain and really enjoy being there. Sustained arousal can feel fabulous even if it never quite gets to the peak. If I've cum recently, staying on that plateau may be where I prefer to be (rather than struggling to try to cum again) since it is really more enjoyable.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Do you play with yourself during sex BW? I would have thought this would increase the number of positions you can orgasm in.

Yes, I do use my fingers (or a vibrator) on my clit sometimes so that I can orgasm in positions where I couldn't otherwise. I also really like it when my guy does it for me -- reaching around and fingering me when he is behind me, for example. That is actually where I started with it. It took me a VERY long time to reach the point where I was comfortable enough to actually touch myself when I was with a man. I was a happy masturbator for years and years, yet during most of that time I would not have dreamed of doing it in front of anyone even in the throws of passion. It was quite liberating for me when I discovered that a guy might actually like it! And it certainly adds to what we can do together.

My guess is that most sexually active women masturbate, but that most of them would die before admitting it to anyone.
Similarly, I think most women are probably very shy about touching their clits during sex because they are afraid he won't like it. I know that was true for me.

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Yes, I do use my fingers (or a vibrator) on my clit sometimes so that I can orgasm in positions where I couldn't otherwise. I also really like it when my guy does it for me -- reaching around and fingering me when he is behind me, for example. That is actually where I started with it. It took me a VERY long time to reach the point where I was comfortable enough to actually touch myself when I was with a man. I was a happy masturbator for years and years, yet during most of that time I would not have dreamed of doing it in front of anyone even in the throws of passion. It was quite liberating for me when I discovered that a guy might actually like it! And it certainly adds to what we can do together.

My guess is that most sexually active women masturbate, but that most of them would die before admitting it to anyone.
Similarly, I think most women are probably very shy about touching their clits during sex because they are afraid he won't like it. I know that was true for me.

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Ha, ha. You and the Mrs. are definitely cut from the same cloth.

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Ha, ha. You and the Mrs. are definitely cut from the same cloth.

It is a wonderful thing to be female and love sex!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

It is a wonderful thing to be female and love sex!

LOL, power to you.

There was a thread, where Baybabe asked if guys thought it was ok ,for her to play with herself during sex.
There was on overwhelming yes vote. Was 1 or2 no votes though.

[DryJelq Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DryJelq]

Anyone have any experience with breast orgasms?

One woman I was with said she orgasmed through just her breasts. Neither of us were playing with her clit or vagina, so I never felt it. But she claims it happened and that it felt really really weird. Neither of us had encountered it before.

I've yet to try it again with another women, so I haven't figured out a method of doing this effectively yet.

[cujo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cujo]

Definitely oral...but she likes it a special way...I have to bite her inner labia...just ever so slightly...Breath into her and kiss and pull it like my life depends on it. I never do it for long though....10 minutes tops and by than she is well lubricated. It doesn't take me long to get her to climax though...She makes quite a noise at times...I just swear a lot lol!