Sexual Improvement for Women?

[BDMS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BDMS]

I had a very long and exciting conversation with one of my friends that is a female who is very sexually active and just interested in all things sexual. I wanted to share a few thoughts and get some feedback. She had no idea that men could stretch their penis or jelq to gain girth and length....I think that it was got her the most excited.

She was also curious about what can women do (besides the kegel exercises that are listed in Cosmo!) Here are some thoughts:

• Is there such a thing as female edging?
• I've noticed that significant others secretions are better when she is hydrated and I know that vitamin C helps increase secretions like those from mucous membranes (which is one reason Vitamin C helps your immune system by the way).
• Can women jelq and would there be any benefit to increasing the size of the clitoris?
• Same goes for men but I think sex is always more fun when both people are in shape too right? but how specifically does this help women? does the clit get more exposed or the pons decrease?

Thanks for continuing with any additional thoughts

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I have never considered a female "jelqing" before. I'd think there might be a much higher probability of desensitization of the clitoris with that, making sex less pleasurable...just sayin'...

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I have heard of pumping for women but do not know much about it other than it is said to increase clit size .
I did have a woman tell me that her clit increased in size due to a lot of sex activity which is edging I suppose.
Is she currently multi orgasmic?

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Why would a woman want to edge? They can have multiple orgasms. The sooner they can have the first one the sooner they can have the next Keep them coming my wife says. I agree with Jock on the jelqing thing.

[rippem Banned Find all posts View Profile Close rippem]

I have a pf I don't use. So the wife and I use the small bell to suck on her clit like we would put it on our glan..when we take it off her clit is SUPER sensitive!! she loves it enough were looking into buying her suction cup mad just for that..

[sidneycrosby Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close sidneycrosby]

Women can enlarge their breasts.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I have a pf I don't use. So the wife and I use the small bell to suck on her clit like we would put it on our glan..when we take it off her clit is SUPER sensitive!! she loves it enough were looking into buying her suction cup mad just for that..

Google the "Womanizer"

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Why would a woman want to edge? They can have multiple orgasms. The sooner they can have the first one the sooner they can have the next Keep them coming my wife says. I agree with Jock on the jelqing thing.

Most women are not multi orgasmic .
There are women who are not orgasmic .
There are women who are orgasmic but not with penetrative sex.

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Most women are not multi orgasmic .
There are women who are not orgasmic .
There are women who are orgasmic but not with penetrative sex.

Yes I know that. I was saying why would a woman practice bringing their self up to the PONR to delay the orgasm. If there was some exercise that they could do to orgasm easier it would be great. Edging will not do it.

[rippem Banned Find all posts View Profile Close rippem]

Google the "Womanizer"

Thanks I will..

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yes I know that. I was saying why would a woman practice bringing their self up to the PONR to delay the orgasm. If there was some exercise that they could do to orgasm easier it would be great. Edging will not do it.

The goal of edging is not allways orgasm. In fact the definition I use for males is that it is masturbation like activity whose prime or at least only purpose is not just getting off .
Edging like activities are used by women to improve their ability to orgasm and to know how their bodies respond to different stimuli.
I actually gave a female friend of mine edging type activities to learn how to orgasm and improve orgasmic response . It was very successful and she sought me out to turn her new boyfriend mmo.

[ScarletSkull Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ScarletSkull]

I will say from my perspective that edging or extending out the PONR for my orgasm makes them quite a bit more explosive. I don't think I tend to do anything on enough of a regular basis to test an experiment, but for that particular session it does really help.

And regarding the multiples thing... gosh I don't know. I've had sessions where I literally had one and before I was even all the way "down" from it I was having another. BUT - I didn't even know I was capable of multiples until I decided to test my boundaries in a very intentional way.

I can't really say that this is something I've heard about - but I would be very interested to try. I've mentioned in the forum before that I've never had an orgasm from a man before, it's all myself. After I split up with my husband I decided to be more aggressively explorative with myself and found out that my body is capable of a shitload of things I didn't know I was before. multiples - not just 2 or 3, but a LOT more in a session, and more. It's my goal to teach myself to orgasm via penetration as well.

The biggest lesson I've learned about this is how much, just HOW FREAKING MUCH this is in my head. Where I can fully relax and have no trust issues being alone (obviously) I wonder how much of a mental/trust issue that this has been with a partner. Or experience and knowing my body, or maybe a combination of the above.

Back to what you're actually asking though I think it is a GREAT question. There's a lot of talk and discussion about women sexually in terms of a lot of other things (we just have different stuff to deal with, I think) but I don't think I've ever heard of people looking at it from a purely physical/body perspective. I mean, it isn't like getting breast implants that might make them bigger but do nothing sexually (and often can decrease sensitivity iirc).

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

My ex and I used to edge together, she was multi orgasmic but preferred one "great" orgasm to many "ok" orgasms. She got that from edging, which she got from me, which I got from Pegym.

Thanks again to this great place.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Is there such a thing as female edging?

Of course there is, in the sense that women can come up to and delay orgasm. As others have already mentioned there can be a couple of reasons for wanting to do this. For one thing in my experience the resulting orgasm from it tends to be MUCH more intense. Also for many (most?) women everything tends to get much more sensitive after orgasm - think of you own penis and how sensitive areas can get after ejaculation. For some women it can get to the point where additional stimulation gets uncomfortable and then she's just not enjoying the experience anymore. So for women who are prone to orgasm much earlier than their partners and being quite sensitive after, being able to delay that can be quite beneficial.

[QUOTE=BDMS;1204894Can women jelq and would there be any benefit to increasing the size of the clitoris?[/QUOTE]

I don't know that I'd equate it to jelqing but there are methods of temporarily enlarging clitoris size. I have a set that's meant for providing suction to nipples and/or clitoris (you can look up "twisted triplets" if you're interested) that works quite well. It basically results in the areas they're used on being temporarily larger and more sensitive, plus the vacuum/sucking sensation while they're on is quite something as well.

[QUOTE=BDMS;1204894Same goes for men but I think sex is always more fun when both people are in shape too right? but how specifically does this help women? does the clit get more exposed or the pons decrease?[/QUOTE]

From having lost a fair amount of weight I can tell you that what happened with me was that having less padding on my backside allowed for deeper penetration. In most positions actually but particularly doggy style. It also meant that partners that I had found were perfectly fine when I was larger started getting in deeper than I was comfortable with and with some sex became downright painful.

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

The goal of edging is not allways orgasm. In fact the definition I use for males is that it is masturbation like activity whose prime or at least only purpose is not just getting off .
Edging like activities are used by women to improve their ability to orgasm and to know how their bodies respond to different stimuli.
I actually gave a female friend of mine edging type activities to learn how to orgasm and improve orgasmic response . It was very successful and she sought me out to turn her new boyfriend mmo.

I agree, I can see what you are saying. I really don't have the experience or knowledge of how various women respond to there sexuality. I've only been with one highly sexual woman for the past 38 years so my input on these type of threads is limited to one woman. Perhaps you might want to explain the edging type activities for women a little more, that's the information the OP is asking for.