Edging 101

[MazzaDiLegno Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MazzaDiLegno]

This happens to some guys, so kegel througout the edge but when you decide its time to cum release the kegel and stroke it slower. At least get a real ong orgasm out of it. glans rubbing eventually gets you to the point where you can have staying power. When the glans gets use to stiuli it will toughen up so to speak and be sensitive but able to put up with the stimulation longer.

Thank you very much I'll try that, but I have another question for you about edging! Usually I'm a guy that can last pretty long when having sex, and sometimes even masturbation takes it's time if I'm not really aroused or watching porn as I masturbate. So while doing my edging sessions as I said I had to speed up the strokes to reach the PONR, my question is, as an edging beginner what is my goal? Trying to reach as many PONRs as I can in the edging session and get ''trained'' to stop myself from cumming or the opposite, trying to reach as less PONRs as possible and last as long as I can before reaching the first orgasm ? Thank you very much for your quick first answer!!! Bye

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Thank you very much I'll try that, but I have another question for you about edging! Usually I'm a guy that can last pretty long when having sex, and sometimes even masturbation takes it's time if I'm not really aroused or watching porn as I masturbate. So while doing my edging sessions as I said I had to speed up the strokes to reach the PONR, my question is, as an edging beginner what is my goal? Trying to reach as many PONRs as I can in the edging session and get ''trained'' to stop myself from cumming or the opposite, trying to reach as less PONRs as possible and last as long as I can before reaching the first orgasm ? Thank you very much for your quick first answer!!! Bye

Sounds like you have mastered edging. Now you want ride the tiger. That is come to the PONR, do waht you have to do to get there. And then while at this point (PONR) see how long it takes to orgasm. Or staying in the PONR as long as possible w/o ejaculating. Kind of hard to explain.

[MazzaDiLegno Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MazzaDiLegno]

Sounds like you have mastered edging. Now you want ride the tiger. That is come to the PONR, do waht you have to do to get there. And then while at this point (PONR) see how long it takes to orgasm. Or staying in the PONR as long as possible w/o ejaculating. Kind of hard to explain.

Ok, I will try to do that next time I edge. I think the control I have over my glans and frenulim comes from all the masturbation I've done when I was a kid ( Especially in the shower I would put an hard grip on the base of my penis with one hand and with the other hand full of oil or cream or whatever I would wrap the glans and stroke really hard, and i mean really hard!!! ) But I can't really say I'm a master yet, I've only just started edging! So next time I'll get to the PONR I'll try to control it as much as I can and try to slow it down and make it last. Should I do this multiple times during my edging session or once is good enough? Thanks again!

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Ok, I will try to do that next time I edge. I think the control I have over my glans and frenulim comes from all the masturbation I've done when I was a kid ( Especially in the shower I would put an hard grip on the base of my penis with one hand and with the other hand full of oil or cream or whatever I would wrap the glans and stroke really hard, and i mean really hard!!! ) But I can't really say I'm a master yet, I've only just started edging! So next time I'll get to the PONR I'll try to control it as much as I can and try to slow it down and make it last. Should I do this multiple times during my edging session or once is good enough? Thanks again!

Sounds like you desensitiszed your penis from all that hard wanking. Use a light stroke to try to get the feeling back. Sounds like you need to start all over.
You want to derive lots of pleasure from edging!!!

[MazzaDiLegno Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MazzaDiLegno]

Sounds like you desensitiszed your penis from all that hard wanking. Use a light stroke to try to get the feeling back. Sounds like you need to start all over.
You want to derive lots of pleasure from edging!!!

Ok then, thanks a lot for your time! I'll post again here as soon as I get any positive results! Bye bye

[MazzaDiLegno Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MazzaDiLegno]

Hey KingPole, I read in the forums that because of hard and frequent masturbation many men lost sensitivity in their penises, and I'm pretty sure one of them. But in the same thread someone said that jelqing with a nice and light grip and edging sessions using gentle strokes will give back to our unit the sensitivity lost, what great news!!! I'm really thrilled about it, and so should be many other men. I have just a quick question for you about edging: in my jelqing sessions I use an aloe vera baby oil, can I use this very same product for my edging routine and rub it on my glans and frenilum or should I use a more gentle lube ? Thanks again, bye

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Hey KingPole, I read in the forums that because of hard and frequent masturbation many men lost sensitivity in their penises, and I'm pretty sure one of them. But in the same thread someone said that jelqing with a nice and light grip and edging sessions using gentle strokes will give back to our unit the sensitivity lost, what great news!!! I'm really thrilled about it, and so should be many other men. I have just a quick question for you about edging: in my jelqing sessions I use an aloe vera baby oil, can I use this very same product for my edging routine and rub it on my glans and frenilum or should I use a more gentle lube ? Thanks again, bye

Gran Canary Islands i think i have relativers living there. Hmm, aloe vera is a healing herb great for the skin, continue.

[MazzaDiLegno Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MazzaDiLegno]

Hey thanks one more time. For all the help you gave me in this edging thread I'm giving to you my first rep point. You sure deserve it, you are like my edging guru now!!!

[super_size_me Member Find all posts View Profile Close super_size_me]

hey guys i just wanted to ask a quick question:

today when i was edging i had my first dry orgasm and it was VERY good but i went limp after that, is this normal?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

hey guys i just wanted to ask a quick question:

today when i was edging i had my first dry orgasm and it was VERY good but i went limp after that, is this normal?

Seems to be for some guys, just get it hard again and go for another dry orgasm.

[super_size_me Member Find all posts View Profile Close super_size_me]

ok i was just curious...i wonder if it's because that's just what my body is used to doing after an orgasm...i guess more training is needed

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

ok i was just curious...i wonder if it's because that's just what my body is used to doing after an orgasm...i guess more training is needed

Dry orgasm for you is a new experience, your body will adjust with practice.

[trex Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close trex]

wait a minute:

2: If you are a two second man ejacualate first, wait for the return then proceed to edge. (masturbate)

for those that are new we should make ourselves ejaculate first and THEN, stimulate stimulate stimulate until the 2nd final ejaculation?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

wait a minute:


for those that are new we should make ourselves ejaculate first and THEN, stimulate stimulate stimulate until the 2nd final ejaculation?

Yep!...you can last longer on the second go around. If cum first it also helps you to relax more.

[trex Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close trex]

and if we were to do edging RIGHT after PE as you recommend, then an example would look like this?:

Last jelq rep:
Masturbate until orgasm
Edge

Edging after masturbation feels really wierd though, rather uncomfortable