Hard Flaccid Recovery

[mikecares Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mikecares]

@milkcares so its just a muscular/contraction issue. Standing up erection quality is really low. Do you Also feel that your base is lifeless? I find more problem with my base & I really don't have control over my pf muscles, as I had a strong erection yesterday ABD I ejaculated after just a little touching my penis.

Base feels normal. Well your pre e might have something to do with your 6 month abstinence. Your dick has probably become really deconditooned. Learn to reverse kegel. Takes time but it helps. Also, if you are finding nothing helps, try some pills man.

[tomcruz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tomcruz]

Can anybody tell me how can I make the base stronger? My base feels very weak & smaller than the shaft & head, it just can't support the head & shaft. I still have hard flaccid & numbness.

[m3232 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close m3232]

I had tge skinny base too, mostly on one side, I put it down to unbalanced tension in the ic muscles.
So my hard flaccid hung and twisted to the left severely and my erection base was skinny on the right hand side.
Reverse kegals are massively effective. Its a bit like a continuous epiphiny with rk, the more you do them the better you get. If they are not working for your hf its possible you are doing them wrong.
When you breath normally watch your stomach, it breaths out, an decent rk channels the in breath downward.
Its basically the same as tai chi reverse breathing.
Its also likely that your bc muscle is so weak that when you flex it it is 'all anus and no perenium'
This was a massive realisation for me, I thought I couldn't flex my bc but in fact I was clenching my anus and the bc muscle was so weak it was totally overridden by 'the power of my anus lol'
Half kegals really help this, if you go to a full kegal when your bc is weak your anus tends to wipe it out.
Try 'directional' half kegals, consciously not clenching your anus and concentrating the flex to the perenium and the shaft.
I think its really important not to do full kegals during this time. Obviously if you want to jizz you will so just take it easy In that rrespect. Im not saying abstain, I think abstaining will do more harm than good after the first month or so.

Let me know how that goes.

Make sure your kegals are not slipping into your ass
Consciously focus your (half) flex on the perenium and concentrate the flex towards and into the shaft, not the anus.

I still have a bit of skinny base on the right hand side but my erections are, im not sure if its a tight or a weak ic or which side its on as a weak muscle on one side would have to same effect as a tight one on the other side.

Tomcruz, you will benefit from finding agirl. You might find you have much more funtion than you think. You said in an earlier post that you haven't been with a girl for a long time and that your hf deters you.
This means you are 'testing' your function in an artificial setting.
I know its hard (no pun intended) with this condition but it sounds like you are in a negative self assessment performance anxiety loop.
Dont think about it too much.

[m3232 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close m3232]

Hey, drugs are bad but this year I went to Glastonbury and had a bit of a hedonistic relapse lol
At the time my hf was still lingering....
Long story short some ketamine ended up falling up my nose.
Its a strong muscle relaxant.
I had a two hour+ 110% erection.
Hf is muscular tension

Although it sounds paradoxical, muscular tension and muscular weakness are virtually inseparable as erections are caused by a conjunction if involuntary tension and relaxation.

[HF recovery version Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HF recovery version]

HARD FLACCID CURED 90%


1. all started after an accidental erection at work, got embarrased and then hard flaccid, had it four months and then fortunately or unfortunately (call it however you want) another problem striked me so hard that made me forget hard flaccid, i don't care anymore about hard flaccid and because i don't care, somehow people don't care too and thay simply don't look at my crotch anymore, i dont have it in my mind and this is it,
2. don't pray about another problem striking you for geting cured, it might not work for you,
3. what i understood? HF is not causing you fear and anxiety but fear and anxiety is causing you HF,
4. its all in your brain, its about what the fear is and not how visible the flaccid is,
5. people detect your fear before thay detect your hard flaccid,
6. and people act weard because of your fear and not because of your hard flaccid,
7. so don't care, relax, accept what has afflicted you, it has afflicted you can't go back, get ready to live it all your life and trust me it will go away tomorrow,
8. healthy food and daily exercise will help,
9. put a long shirt and remember it's not people's duty to wach you there, so it's their problem not your problem,
10. it might be another dimension, something devil related, but its more comlicated,


so asking god's help and forgivness is crucial (god who is one and not three, absolute and not devided, who begets not and is not begotten and with whom nothing and no one is alike)






peace

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[Jimbo10228 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jimbo10228]

Just wanted to ask a few questions if anyone can help? I sometimes have hard flaccid when peeing it softens but still very much tough and rubbery. I notice when it doesn't soften much the urine flows slower. Anyone have this?

Also the perineum area feels "sucked in" sometimes. Or something. Like my bc muscles and stuff. When I rub it blood is routed to my penis( it doesn't feel sexual at all, just blood going in to dick). The bc muscle or something swells up and erections feel nowhere full enough. I think I must have serious pelvic floor tightness. Today I was feeling the muscles down there and I found a couple of lumps, one of which felt slightly irritating. Could these be scar tissue? I've had pelvic floor tension and hard flaccid for about two years with lost size. Is it possible for me to recover or am I always gonna have pelvic dsyfunction? Sorry for the outlandish question but can someone give me some advice?

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Dear god,

Please, please, please take time out of your busy schedule, overlook all those who are poverty stricken, fighting illness and disease, suffering in times of famine and war, and come help me with my semi injured cock.

Amen.

[Jimbo10228 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jimbo10228]

What's your problem? I was asking a question if you don't like it, leave.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

What's your problem? I was asking a question if you don't like it, leave.

Not referring to you.

[Jimbo10228 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jimbo10228]

What's your injury?

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Don't have one

[mikecares Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mikecares]

I agree. I stilll have hf but I don't give a fuxk about IT at all. My erections are harder and the head has been working well lately. My girl keeps telling me my dick feels bigger and it has been hurting Her a lot lately where as it need did before my hf. I honestly think it's better in a weirder way. The shaft feels so hard that it gets my girl off eaiser and I just feel much more rockhard. It feels weird if she grinds it sometimes but it is bareable and still feels good. Overall, I feel good and have a lot of sex. I think pplz stray away from sex but you'll be surprised how much function is there. It feels weirder but it will works just as well. My endurance is back and I can go for as long as I wsnt

[m3232 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close m3232]

Hmmmmm
According to my research, guys who avoid sex and women because of hf appear to have the condition persistently.
Maybe there is a link...
You have your hand around your dick.
You are flicking through porn and thinking about your aunties mustache desperately wanting to feel that elusive 100% EQ cock pulsate in your own sweaty palm...
I have an idea.
Grow your own mustache, relax and go knock on for you auntie. Drink her herbal tea and talk family.
Then politely offer to shave her tache.
Hopefully she will oblige.
Stand behind her and do it in the mirror.
The tache I mean.
Shave it.
Do it romantically if you can, try to set a mood and see if she responds.
If she does grab her tit with your filthy sweaty palm and let her feel your 100 % pork loin in hers.
What im saying is er....
Working away again.
Cheap bar lonely digs.
Im bored. ..

[tomcruz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close tomcruz]

I had sex 2 days back. I was able to maintain erection somehow with a condom on, didn't last long though. But my penis was very hard due to HF & it seems that my penis has become slightly bigger. Penis felt a lot more rubbery & erection was too a bit weird but I was able to do it. My HF was bad yesterday, but it's better today.