You don't beg for respect

[HansTwilight Retired ModeratorPE Gym Editor Member of the Month Jan 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close HansTwilight]

You can demand respect, deserve respect ,earn respect all you like doesn't mean you receive it.

That's why you have to find a way to make someone respect you. Whether by force (gang) or through manipulation (work)

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Sorry to hear . What is Sybaris?

Its a private couple pool suite retreat. Been members for 25 years. When I go to bed frustrated with a raging cock hard on, after she’s had huge multiple orgasms and I got a full prostate, no orgasm for me. Won’t be coming back. With her at least.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Answering my question with a question? I have no problem detailing who I do and do not agree with in this thread. But don't see a point in doing so when it appears that this will be a one sided discussion.

I didn't see anything that added to my understanding .
Post 3 and 19 at lest answered to the question and had something to say .
Stuff like how to beat a woman up and get away with it and the Trump stuff I would rather not have heard

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Its a private couple pool suite retreat. Been members for 25 years. When I go to bed frustrated with a raging cock hard on, after she’s had huge multiple orgasms and I got a full prostate, no orgasm for me. Won’t be coming back. With her at least.

So like I said the options are.

[Thumper39 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thumper39]

I didn't see anything that added to my understanding .
Post 3 and 19 at lest answered to the question and had something to say .
Stuff like how to beat a woman up and get away with it and the Trump stuff I would rather not have heard

Meh. Posts like those I kind or read past. Just typical flame bait.

I asked for clarification on what you were looking for because while you did origionally ask a straightforward question it may have been too broad of one to receive the types of answers you are looking for.

If yu are only looking for alternative ways to deal with someone not respecting you other than already mentioned then there really aren't any. Unless you are not including trying to earn that respect in the options in the last part of your op.

A better question to ask is. When is the proper time to use each of these three options?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Ok so you want to expand on timing.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

That's why you have to find a way to make someone respect you. Whether by force (gang) or through manipulation (work)

That is basically the violence option ao are threats .

I am going to hate myself for this but would you like to expand on manipulation.

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That is basically the violence option ao are threats .

I am going to hate myself for this but would you like to expand on manipulation.

Fear is not the same thing as respect.

Now you can use violence to counter disrespect. It does not necessarily make them respect you though. And unless NAP has been violated it is immoral to use violence.

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Can you tell me how many men on the planet have said the same thing?

Thousands a day I would think, but what you don't od is say to a TV host who has links to the media. Whoops and then it gets out when you become president, and as you know CUSP shit sticks and it does not come off, also add on to he was a married man at the time of saying this, and yes another Whoops.

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Well yes.

Here is the thing you can deserve respect you can earn it but that doesn't mean you get it . Now the only options I seem to hear of are ignoring it , pissing the person out of your life ,or violence .

Anyone got other options?

Pegman Doing another way by going the Trump way and nuking them is an option, you asked for an option and that is one, now its others who took it off topic ( what just is the topic) so me being me I put it right or trying to, but it seems someone does not really understand the ramifications of what he said at the time , and like I have said above this shit sticks.

But it seems you have dangled an unbaited hook and trying to see who wants to take a bite of it, but sighing all over the site is not such a good idea, same as here what is it your really looking for, not being disrespectful in any way, guys are chucking in answer just to be put down or is this your intention?

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Look guys no use pretend it wasn't a simple question if you don't want to answer it fine.

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I'm still young, but what I've noticed about respect is this:

People will respect you if you show common traits with you. Simple traits gain simple levels of respect (ie. skin color, religion, type of car you drive, body type, etc).

Deeper levels of respect often come when you can share something deeply emotional, a threatening physical experience, or even the test of time. Deeper respect can also be gained through words or actions that are notably powerful. For instance, public speakers can gain tremendous respect through their use of words as a form of power. All people have similar potential to garner these levels of respect.

So when I am trying to earn respect, I try to expose and highlight the similarities that I have with that person. Often times, sharing similar hardships with somebody can help you gain their respect. Moreover, similar achievements can have the same effect.

In relationships, respect may be more complicated. Ultimately I think it is relationship dependent and unique for many couples. At least in the relationships that I've had, respect was given and earned in very different ways between the different partners.

OP, you are absolutely right that you may not gain the respect that you feel you have earned. I might note that nowhere in this thread have we established a baseline for what we are referring to as "respect." For each responder it could mean something completely different. You can probably gather the essence of my baseline from context clues in what I've wrote here. But after reading this thread, I've gained the sense that a more important question for you rather than 'how to gain respect' is 'why do I desire this respect?'

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Look guys no use pretend it wasn't a simple question if you don't want to answer it fine.

Like I said. It is a very simplistic question on its face. But because it is on such a broad topic many people may need you to expand upon it. Ya know. Instead of making flippant comments. But because ya haven't done this even after several people have asked I'm going to assume that the respect clause in the rules doesn't apply to you and bow out of this thread. I

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Wow I ask a simple question and I get all sorts of weird assumptions about where my head is at .. Aggressive comments and general weird stuff .

Philosophical questions I will avoid in future.

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Thread re-opened,

Please stay on topic, refrain from attacking each other. Debate with facts, not insults.

Peace !