A place to rant

[iminsoluble Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close iminsoluble]

Agreed, i'm sure theres just as many women as there are men, it's much easier for a woman to not get caught or not show any signs of abuse on a child..
Also people don't seem to take a woman abusing a man/boy as serious until it goes overboard or some sort of solid facts or witnesses.
Boy "My mom used to wash my privates extra long but it felt good"
Adult "That's normal when boys are touched there at any age."


Girl " Same as above----"
Adult " What??!! Your dads going to jail!"

My mother in law used to run a daycare when her kids where younger. Her son although older (12 at the time) was never allowed to help her change any diapers for fear that he would be accused of something. It's the same way now, in society if a male exposes himself unknownly to a minor he is probably going to jail; women don't have to worry about it that much.

I have a window in my bathroom that I have to make sure is closed before I get into the shower because we have young neighbors. My wife will sometimes come in and open the window to let out the steam while I'm in the shower and not even think about closing it before I get out of the shower. We have gotten into a lot of arguments about it because she doesn't think anything of it, I have to tell her I'm male, if you saw your children looking into someones bathroom window and the guy was naked you'd think he was a perv wouldn't you?

I really hate the double standards!

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Yeah, treated equal... right
Just like a male gyno need nurses in the room while hes examining, female uro with a male patient does not.

I'm done with this topic.

Now I forgot what my own rant was going to be about!

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Tonights evening news! People smoking at the gas station: Friend or foe, or just plain retarded.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Retarded

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

My mother in law used to run a daycare when her kids where younger. Her son although older (12 at the time) was never allowed to help her change any diapers for fear that he would be accused of something. It's the same way now, in society if a male exposes himself unknownly to a minor he is probably going to jail; women don't have to worry about it that much.

I have a window in my bathroom that I have to make sure is closed before I get into the shower because we have young neighbors. My wife will sometimes come in and open the window to let out the steam while I'm in the shower and not even think about closing it before I get out of the shower. We have gotten into a lot of arguments about it because she doesn't think anything of it, I have to tell her I'm male, if you saw your children looking into someones bathroom window and the guy was naked you'd think he was a perv wouldn't you?

I really hate the double standards!

I totally agree. When my daughters were little (they're 13 and 10 now) and their mother and I had first divorced, going out in public and having one of them tell me "daddy, I have to go potty" used to TERRIFY me. What do I do? Where do I take them? So, I would go into a Starbucks because they have those lockable bathrooms, one for the men and one for the women. I would take them into the mens bathroom, help them with their business, I would tell them to wipe themselves and then we'd go about our business. One day, I came out of the bathroom and there was evidently a line for it. The LOOKS I got coming out of a bathroom with two little girls and I'm a 6'2'', built man..........yeah, not good. I was waiting for someone to follow me out to my car and write down my license number and report me to the police.

Now, as to your post, I have to agree with your wife. If you're in your OWN home, taking a shower and the window's open, that's your right. The kids need to look elsewhere or involve themselves in an activity and not peep into your window. That's just me though. I don't make it a practice of walking in front of my window in the buff but if I'm in the shower and someone happens to see, oh well.........that's on them.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Tonights evening news! People smoking at the gas station: Friend or foe, or just plain retarded.

I'm going with slightly retarded......

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

I'd think sexual abuse is sexual abuse - on any level.

Certainly agree. But you are talking only about the effect. I am talking about the reason behind the abuse/molestation. Putting a finger inside a child's ass for the sheer pleasure of inflicting sexual abuse does not make one a paedophile.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Certainly agree. But you are talking only about the effect. I am talking about the reason behind the abuse/molestation. Putting a finger inside a child's ass for the sheer pleasure of inflicting sexual abuse does not make one a paedophile.

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this. Putting a finger in a child's ass for the sheer pleasure of inflicting sexual abuse DOES make someone a pedophile. Pedophilia is sexual abuse inflicted on a child by an adult. Don't care how you want to define it....it is what the hell it is.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

I'm sorry but I totally disagree with this. Putting a finger in a child's ass for the sheer pleasure of inflicting sexual abuse DOES make someone a pedophile. Pedophilia is sexual abuse inflicted on a child by an adult. Don't care how you want to define it....it is what the hell it is.

I think he's talking more about the clinical definition. Pedophilia is not a crime per se it is a symptom and I believe is for the purpose of sexual gratification or it is their sexual preference. From a clinical standpoint if someone sticks objects up a childs ass because he/she is a sadistic bastard and not for sexual gratification then technically he/she is not a pedophile, he/she is just a sick bastard. See PC 288 .

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Make no mistake, pedophilia is a crime. You have a sexual act with a child and then you are a pedophile, and should be put to death in my opinion.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

Make no mistake, pedophilia is a crime. You have a sexual act with a child and then you are a pedophile, and should be put to death in my opinion.

Pedophillia is a psychological disorder where one has sexual desires for children not a criminal statute. The acts that pedophiles do is the crime not the fact that he/she is pedophile. If a pedophile has never engaged in lewd conduct or downloaded or manufactured child porn then there is no crime unless statutes in certain jurisdictions are now prosecuting people for their thoughts. Being a pedophile at least in Ca is not a crime unless they commit criminal acts. What im saying is there is no section in the penal code that makes just being a pedophile a crime. A more simple example: Kleptomania is not a crime but stealing is. The terms pedophillia, pedophile, kleptomania or necrophillia is more of a clinical term (psychological disorder))not a legal one. Look up the actual definition of pedophillia. Our disagreement is the use of the terminology (clinical vs legal) not that their sick bastards.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

My rant: Forget the weakening sperm or deadly human killing virus or any crazy ideas that you get when you think about human population going extinct.

Women are plenty for that.

So, forget pedophiles, hate at me for the moment.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

I hate thinking your finally free of some all consuming problem only to wake up and find out you've subconsciously thought of another possible solution, meaning your about to go through a few weeks/months of misery. Or possibly do nothing and let everything you care about slip away.


Also I really hate being an idiot lol

[ryansambas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ryansambas]

I tried to watch Pacquiao v Marquez on a stream and it kept freezing! I had no problems with UFC 137, Hopkins v Dawson, Ortiz v Mayweather and others so I'll have to wait to download it.

I've ordered 3 UFC PPV's this year but I can't afford to order each one and in order to stay a fan of MMA and Boxing I have to watch it somehow

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

Do we have to use such descriptive words. Can't we use "man or woman abuses a child" instead of referencing a body part or specific action?

We all agree that child abuse and sexual abuse is horrific.

No matter who does it.