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[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

It really annoys me when people think a Paedophile is just a man. There's been quite a few cases in the UK were the woman was the paedophile and there really shouldn't be any reason why there's not as many woman paedophiles out there has there is men.

Women have access to children way more easier than men do and i'm sure many women have sexually abused a baby without ever getting caught and because they are rarely caught people when talking about paedophiles just assume a man (it's not).

[iminsoluble Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close iminsoluble]

Yes fellas well of course I agree with you, but from another perspective, if a guy is legitimately wired like that and that is just the way that he biologically gets off, who are we to say he is weird just because it is different from us and shunned in society?

I actually agree with this to a point, that is how they are wired. Right or wrong we can't fault them too much for it or we risk applying the same reasoning to those who's sexual interest we also dont agree with (homosexuals to be the largest group frowned upon)

Again I'm not saying I think their desires are acceptable but I highly doubt they CHOSE to have those desires. Just like we've come the conclusion that homosexuals don't "CHOOSE to be homosexuals; it's just the way they are. In that aspect I pity them for having those desires but most of that pity goes away once they act upon them as they've now abused someone.

I guess I'm just sad for them that, that is what excites them because they know its not right, we know its not right but they still have it. I couldn't imagine if my heterosexual desires were considered gross or unethical because that is what I have.

Very touchy subject!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

It really annoys me when people think a Paedophile is just a man. There's been quite a few cases in the UK were the woman was the paedophile and there really shouldn't be any reason why there's not as many woman paedophiles out there has there is men.

Women have access to children way more easier than men do and i'm sure many women have sexually abused a baby without ever getting caught and because they are rarely caught people when talking about paedophiles just assume a man (it's not).

Wow schlittle, that just gives one a new set of scary thoughts. This is a very good point and I bet it is very overlooked.

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

Yeah Schlittle that is interesting but, I think they are a little different. A man can theoretically fuck a 5 year old girl for his own pleasure, I'm not sure a woman can do that to a 5 year old boy, physically speaking?

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

Wow schlittle, that just gives one a new set of scary thoughts. This is a very good point and I bet it is very overlooked.

It's not 99% men paedophiles to 1% women Paedophiles. Women are just as likely to be a paedophile as a man because they have sexual desires just like a man and i'm certain that it's more 50% 50%. And as i said women have far more opportunities and i bet thousands of babies every day get fingers slipped into them by paedophile women and they will never ever get found out.

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

Yeah Schlittle that is interesting but, I think they are a little different. A man can theoretically fuck a 5 year old girl for his own pleasure, I'm not sure a woman can do that to a 5 year old boy, physically speaking?

It's not different at all because if a man fucks a 5 year old child were a women fingers a baby they are both evil paedophiles.

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

No, the woman is a sadistic fuck who enjoys sexually molesting a child, and the man is a paedophile who is attracted to fucking small children. If you want to make the argument that the woman gets off sexually and must pleasure herself while fingering the child in the ass, then sure. But you don't think those cases would get reported more often?

I mean to say that there is a difference between sexually abusing a child and actually being a paedophile.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

It is estimated that there is a 10 to 1 ratio of male to female child molesters (see Pedophilia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia). That means 10 times as many men than women, schlittle.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

No, the woman is a sadistic fuck who enjoys sexually molesting a child, and the man is a paedophile who is attracted to fucking small children. If you want to make the argument that the woman gets off sexually and must pleasure herself while fingering the child in the ass, then sure. But you don't think those cases would get reported more often?

I mean to say that there is a difference between sexually abusing a child and actually being a paedophile.

I'd think sexual abuse is sexual abuse - on any level.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I'd think sexual abuse is sexual abuse - on any level.

I agree.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

I'm sure the woman has a better chance of not being caught.

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

No, the woman is a sadistic fuck who enjoys sexually molesting a child, and the man is a paedophile who is attracted to fucking small children. If you want to make the argument that the woman gets off sexually and must pleasure herself while fingering the child in the ass, then sure. But you don't think those cases would get reported more often?

I mean to say that there is a difference between sexually abusing a child and actually being a paedophile.

There really there isn't a difference both of your examples are paedophiles. If a man fingered a child in the ass and didn't get a hard on i'm sure his defence couldn't be "i didn't get an hard on so i'm not a paeophile", and a woman couldn't say " i didn't touch myself while abusing the child so i'm not a paedo". They are both paedos and i reckon the number of paedophiles in the world is near to 50-50 (men to woman).

And women don't get caught as much because they are probably slyly abusing there own babies without the world knowing.

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

It is estimated that there is a 10 to 1 ratio of male to female child molesters (see Pedophilia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia). That means 10 times as many men than women, schlittle.

More like 50-50. Women can do it more slyly. And there's no reason to suspect less women have sexual thoughts about children than men.

Later edit: If you hadn't have explained to me what a 10 to 1 ratio was i would have never known.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

There really there isn't a difference both of your examples are paedophiles. If a man fingered a child in the ass and didn't get a hard on i'm sure his defence couldn't be "i didn't get an hard on so i'm not a paeophile", and a woman couldn't say " i didn't touch myself while abusing the child so i'm not a paedo". They are both paedos and i reckon the number of paedophiles in the world is near to 50-50 (men to woman).

And women don't get caught as much because they are probably slyly abusing there own babies without the world knowing.

Agreed, i'm sure theres just as many women as there are men, it's much easier for a woman to not get caught or not show any signs of abuse on a child..
Also people don't seem to take a woman abusing a man/boy as serious until it goes overboard or some sort of solid facts or witnesses.
Boy "My mom used to wash my privates extra long but it felt good"
Adult "That's normal when boys are touched there at any age."


Girl " Same as above----"
Adult " What??!! Your dads going to jail!"

[schlittle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close schlittle]

Agreed, i'm sure theres just as many women as there are men, it's much easier for a woman to not get caught or not show any signs of abuse on a child..
Also people don't seem to take a woman abusing a man/boy as serious until it goes overboard or some sort of solid facts or witnesses.
Boy "My mom used to wash my privates extra long but it felt good"
Adult "That's normal when boys are touched there at any age."


Girl " Same as above----"
Adult " What??!! Your dads going to jail!"

Agreed.

And in the UK when a male teacher has sex with a pupil he's a paedophile and he's going to jail. And then the reverse happens with a female teacher and a child then she mostly gets off and she's not a paedophile.