Prostate orgasm

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

My husband really enjoys prostate "milking" while I give him oral. Prostate stimulation can help males not be at such increased risk for prostate cancer as they age. Also adds a kinky factor for a long term relationship.

I guess it's all about hitting the right spot, there have been enough partners in the past, long term or ONS, who have gone for sticking fingers up there, and while I've been happy to let them try, it's never done anything for me beyond thinking ooh, this is dirty.

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ok, well, I just had a go, and found some kind of spot that feels like I'm about to pee ...

That's your spot, it's also about doing it with a relaxed state of mind. Once you found it, just keep working it with a continues thrusting (not too hard). You'll improve over time.

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[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

That's your spot, it's also about doing it with a relaxed state of mind. Once you found it, just keep working it with a continues thrusting (not too hard). You'll improve over time.

I thought it might be, just because it stands out, but thanks for the confirmation. It's bloody elusive though, I'll get it for a bit, then I can't find it again. Not like I can see what I'm doing up there though anyway :P

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That 12" strapon extender is hilarious! I'll have to come back to that! Bookmarked. Thanks

[FalconFire Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FalconFire]

There's no one answer, since guys are all different to some extent. Toys are fantastic, and a variety of them can be employed to give you various kinds and strengths of orgasms, and others can be used to prolong things. Take some time, explore what works for you inside and out.

And if you are worried about butt play, get a silver serpent shower attachment. It cleans things out to the point you can have all kinds of fun. Porno style.

I'm a big fan of the bad boy, which curls up and vibrates my prostate and my perineum, a fleshlight to slow thrust into, or just blowing myself a few times while working the muscles inside with toys.

An anal orgasm is one where it is deep (the second set of inner muscles are stimulated). These are not quite as intense of penile orgasms, but you can have them over and over. A prostate orgasm is one where the orgasm intensity is much greater and can be felt throughout the pelvic region. A prostate orgasm can be achieved solely by stimulating the gland. Combined with a penile orgasm, they can be the most intense of all. You can have combinations of these, and use tantric practices to feel them repeatedly.

The key here is to find what you like, and know that it might change over time. You might find that something works for now, and then find that different techniques and tools work later.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Also the prostate is not as deep in as we think. It is a short finger in for me. It feels like a walnut sized swelling in my anal cavity. Rubbing it with a come hither (gspot like) motion is awesome. Learning to move your Aneros with your pelvic floor muscles will help to stimulate it hands free.
Yes I am a hyper of this technique. It is the best orgasm I have ever felt.

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I'm not worried about butt play, though I'm not in any hurry to have a dude go there, I have been pegged by a girl with a strap on, and would again without a second thought.

Interesting stuff, and I'm totally keen to explore, I just haven't had any luck yet. And after sitting there with an Aneros in for an hour before now and utterly failed to get anywhere, it's starting to feel like it's never going to happen.

Buuuut I do love that with a bit of time and effort it turns out that not only can we have "female orgasms", or at least something that feels that powerful, shouting and writhing etc, but we've probably got just as many different types possible too. That sits well with me.

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Also the prostate is not as deep in as we think. It is a short finger in for me. It feels like a walnut sized swelling in my anal cavity. Rubbing it with a come hither (gspot like) motion is awesome. Learning to move your Aneros with your pelvic floor muscles will help to stimulate it hands free.
Yes I am a hyper of this technique. It is the best orgasm I have ever felt.

The G-spot analogy is funny, what with catching it feels like I'm gonna pee, and people calling it "the male g-spot" and all. Obviously we'll never truly know, but I can't help but wonder how similar it is.

Though that said, the g-spot does seem a bit quicker and more reliable.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Me too, it sits very well. Aneros makes a lot of different sizes and styles. First learn what's best for you by hand play. Pegging will likely be too deep. Unless you laid on your back and lifted your legs, knees near your ears. Then if she was careful she could probably poke the prostate. Dangerous because she can't feel you with a plastic vibe. Have her try sliding her finger in and use the come hither movement. It should feel like a bump to her. Have her rub that bump.

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There's no one answer, since guys are all different to some extent. Toys are fantastic, and a variety of them can be employed to give you various kinds and strengths of orgasms, and others can be used to prolong things. Take some time, explore what works for you inside and out.

And if you are worried about butt play, get a silver serpent shower attachment. It cleans things out to the point you can have all kinds of fun. Porno style.

I'm a big fan of the bad boy, which curls up and vibrates my prostate and my perineum, a fleshlight to slow thrust into, or just blowing myself a few times while working the muscles inside with toys.

An anal orgasm is one where it is deep (the second set of inner muscles are stimulated). These are not quite as intense of penile orgasms, but you can have them over and over. A prostate orgasm is one where the orgasm intensity is much greater and can be felt throughout the pelvic region. A prostate orgasm can be achieved solely by stimulating the gland. Combined with a penile orgasm, they can be the most intense of all. You can have combinations of these, and use tantric practices to feel them repeatedly.

The key here is to find what you like, and know that it might change over time. You might find that something works for now, and then find that different techniques and tools work later.

Great explanation, I wish I could talk so openly about this subject. It's just that I find it so personal, sounds stupid I know. I do admire the fact, that you can talk about it though.

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Pegging will likely be too deep. ...

Yeah I didn't get any physical arousal from it, but mentally? playing like some slutty bitch, insulting her for not being good enough and moaning with pleasure when it was deep... Wow, that game, switching it all over, and suggesting something I wanted from her too... Beyond awesome. If I could cum from state of mind alone, it would have been up the walls

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I hope you find it. Remember the joy is in the exploration. Try, try again.

[new to the ride Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close new to the ride]

I'm a straight male who has always enjoyed pleasuring myself. Recently I've tried prostate play and OMG!!!! I've had 2 of the most mind blowing body quaking multiple orgasm I could have never imagined....

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I'm a straight male who has always enjoyed pleasuring myself. Recently I've tried prostate play and OMG!!!! I've had 2 of the most mind blowing body quaking multiple orgasm I could have never imagined....

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I'm a straight male who has always enjoyed pleasuring myself. Recently I've tried prostate play and OMG!!!! I've had 2 of the most mind blowing body quaking multiple orgasm I could have never imagined....

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