How to not kegel while having sex

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

By the way you should make edging a part of your PE routine...trust me do your research

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Dry jelq I like your post and it ties in with mine ( post 17).
Guys reread these posts and think if this may help you.
I really believe the problem lies in the method(technique) you are using with kegals.

[phallic1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close phallic1]

Great advice pe ZEN. I stopped kegeling to hold back ejaculation years ago. I learnt how to relax and move the energy with breathing instead of creating tension by contracting. It sure makes a huge difference on orgasm sensation and control during sex.

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

Yes! phallic1 but most ppl on here are focused on "getting as big as humanly possible" as on a recent post of mine. lol.

However, the most important thing is to be able to satisfy a woman...I'm sure you would agree

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Phallic how long did this breathing thing take to learn. Most people can become multi orgasmic in a few months if they put their mind to it.

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

Really its about moving energy away by moving attention to other parts of the body as well. For example, if you are focusing on how good your penis feels, it will lead to ejaculation. If you say to yourself "it feels good all over my body" then you are sending that energy all over your body as well. Feel how good your hands feel, how tingly! Feel your feet. Do this and continue to stimulate you get the point, and it WILL lead to MMO.

It gets easier with more edging practice and kegel control. Doing this regularly along with ballooning can also lead to gains as well as enhanced EQ, flaccid hang, and overall ability to achieve erections! It trains your body to "accept pleasure" rather than quickly releasing it like a horny teenager

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

and believe me I've had MANY retrograde ejac's - which leads to 'temporary' loss of erection. But oh well try and try again

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Actually zen, you can have multi dry orgasms while focusing on your dick and you do not have to breath through the soles of your feet to do it.

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

I believe in the motto: "where attention goes, energy flows" hence I'll put attention on cycling up to the 3rd eye and then down the governing channel, then repeat

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

A lot of people get confused about "Dry Orgasms"

To me this means 'internal body orgasm' without the need to ejac, but some people think it means 'retrograde ejaculation', you know forcing the kegel during PONR and still feeling the pulses but the sperm goes into the bladder instead...

[WiseGuy Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close WiseGuy]

When you masterbate, don't do it with the intention of bringing yourself pleasure. Your hand should be moving and your mind should be off your dick. Same when you are having sex. Don't think about your dick and what you are feeling. Completely detach yourself.

^^ Not a great way to live life!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

A retrograde ejaculation is NOT a dry orgasm.

Pe zen I have said the same thig many times in several ways.
If your technique is correct ,you can concentrate on your dick and have repeated dry orgasms.
I believe the problem some people are having with kegals are due to poor technique.
Fix the technique fix the problem.
Wise guy is right, I want to be there feeling all the pleasure, having a damn good time, not going omm through my 3rd eye.

Look anyone that can get mmo(male multi orgasm), through your 3rd eye governing channel ,more power to you. However for most people, this is a way unnecessary diversion if your goal is mmo. It will either take far longer than needed ,or you will give up after months or years of fustration. If you are into the mystic thing fine, I am not saying it has no value, it is just not necessary for mmo.

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

well, ok - but if you know what is happening to your body at the same time, then so much the better. Just "concentrating on your dick" is uninformative for those of us who are more sensitive to stimulation, and therefore require additional supplementory means to divert energy.

This is OLD wisdom - 1000's of years of Taoist master of sexual energy can't be wrong. Check out Mantak Chia and tell me he is not a master of sexual kung fu

[phallic1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close phallic1]

I remember using the mental image of dead road kill dogs and funerals to try and stop from cumming to quickly when I was young...wtf was wrong with me, gawd.

Now I have the opposite problem...I'm lucky if I cum during sex.

It's all a head game.

[pe_ZEN Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pe_ZEN]

LOL no can't top dead road kill |D

Well shouldn't be too much of a problem cuz you can last longer for the lady. As for me edging has helped me know when to stop stimulating...that was key for me. So many times I'd stop stimulating but the energy keeps on collectin' until *involuntary kegel* SPLAT