Bobberick's Penile Excursions

[wind chill Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wind chill]

keep it up man.I love the green and red color marks.
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[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

My goal is to be able to scroll through pages without any red. That's when I know I'll be on my way PE and all health-related goals. Thanks man... I'll go look for your log, though I'm sure I've already perused it a bit.

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Hi bobberick,

I enjoy reading your log. I have a question for you regarding the duration of your sex acts. Does your gf get sore after a while, or the next day? That seems to be a problem I have with my gf, therefore we typically keep it to about 15 minutes or so (though when we 1st started dating we'd go much longer). I'd rather go longer, when time permits, but it can affect sex the next day if she is sore. I think I usually have her pretty well lubricated, so I don't think that is the problem. Not to be too graphic, but is it 45 minutes of pounding away, or do you mix it up quite a bit over that time?

We typically both finish at the same time. She lets me know when she's ready and prefers that I finish at the same time, so I do.

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

It's definitely mixed up... A LOT. She is sore only once in a while. I don't pound away but every now and then. I work different angles and depths a lot. There's a lot of in between oral and whatnot. She rarely gets dry, but if she does, I'll stop and lick her up good with lots of saliva for like 20 seconds then get back to it. If I am hitting the bottom, it is well into it and after she is warmed up really well. My girth is just average, but she is super tight on me anyway, which is nice. I don't know if that might be your woman's reason for soreness?

We finish at the same time a lot too, as I am at the PONR a bunch throughout. Sometimes I can make it through her orgasms, but if I've already been close, forget it. If she comes, the extra gyration, grinding, moaning just does it to me. She likes it together too, but since it happens together about 75% of the time, she doesn't mind when I keep on going. (I think I've came too soon like 8 times in two years now... ugh... it happens.) She knows I like to come from as many different ways as possible, and this gives me the opportunity (if we are only together once).

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

I was just thinking about this a bit more. Until my woman comes, it is all about her. I only hit angles and depths she wants. I don't know how to explain this. I'll try: If I wanted to look like a stud, I could. I could have sex all damn day without coming. I just know how to alter the pace, depth, etc. to keep me from orgasm. But with her, I am truly making love. From the first second on, I do my best to make every movement feel amazing. Unfortunately, it also feels amazing to me. I think we are very in sync that way (not to say you two aren't... to each his own). With that said, there probably isn't much opportunity for me to create soreness.

Thinking further, the only time soreness really happens is if we go more than once and I just go at it however I feel after the first time... or.... when we are drinking. All bets are off then. hahaha. That's when all my "love-making" goes out the window and the jackhammer is called in. There's definitely a time and a place for all approaches, or a mixture. I'm rambling and doubt if I shed any light on your situation, but I can only share my own experience I guess.

[BRD Member Find all posts View Profile Close BRD]

bobberick,

Thanks! A lot of good info in those responses. I think, while I do mix it up some, I may be doing too much jackhammering. She gets louder when I do that, which encourages me to do it more. But I think her reaction is just because she thinks I like it. I'll have to work on mixing it up more.

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

She may or may not like it more. I'll do things that I know aren't gonna feel good later, but they're feeling good in the moment, ya know? Drinking heavily is a good example.
Have you talked to her? Does she have any theories on being sore? To me, it sounds like you guys have a decent relationship, and I'm assuming you have decent communication.

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

9/22/10...

PE Workout... GREAT WORKOUT. I even threw in a few minutes of edging to make sure I came back nice and hard for the woman later on.

PE and sexual health related thoughts... EQ - 9-10. I only lost some as we moved to the floor and my stomach started cramping. *She had me working her good. Went about 40 minutes.

Porn watching... NONE. 2 days in a row. Record is 5.

Water consumption... 128 ounces

Protein consumption... 180 grams... YES.

Empty calorie consumption... Kit Kats... again. :I That fucking bag has GOT TO GO!

Supplements... Multi and zinc

Workout... Day off... as scheduled.

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9/24/10... worked out, but the rest of the weekend is a bust due to lack of note taking... took off saturday. Oh and worked out chest.

9/26/10

PE Workout... GREAT WORKOUT. Masturbated afterward - didn't want to. Weak will power.

PE and sexual health related thoughts... Despite masturbating, I had a solid 9-10 for an awesome 10 minutes of oral about three hours later.

Porn watching...

Water consumption... 128 ounces at least

Protein consumption... Didn't keep track. REALLY need to get better at the weekend focus.

Empty calorie consumption... Actually pretty good, for a day out hiking.

Supplements...

Workout... No workout, which is fine. I hiked for a good 5 hours. Back workout tonight.

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9/27/10

PE Workout... GREAT WORKOUT. Masturbated afterward - wanted to try the coming without frenulum touching. I stayed hard for a minute or two afterward... will try again tonight.

PE and sexual health related thoughts... An hour of hard sex. At one point, she was on top and I was harder than I've ever been and deeper. She loved it... so did I.

Porn watching... NONE

Water consumption... 128 ounces at least

Protein consumption... 110. Hmmm... that sucked.

Empty calorie consumption... Pretty good... only a handful of pretzels.

Supplements... Zinc and multivitamin.

Workout... Back workout. Already a nice, good sore today.

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

I just measured early. I looked at my schedule the rest of the week and I wasn't sure I'd be able to measure until the 3rd... not the way I'd want to (after a workout and a bit of edging just like my first measurement). Technically, this is day 59. Tomorrow is day 60 and it is an off day. That said...

WOW!!!

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NEW 60 DAY MEASUREMENTS:

Day 1 .................Day 30............ Day 60
BPEL - 6.125"......... 6.843"............. 7.187"
BPSFL - 6.562"........ 7.031"............. 7.437"
MEG - 4.75"........... 4.875"............. 4.937"
NBPEL - 5.75"......... 6.25".............. 6.5"

[normalguy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close normalguy]

Amazing 2 months' gains. Congratulations Bob

[wind chill Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wind chill]

great gains bobberick.Over an Inch in just 2 months.I think that's a record.At this rate you will reach your goal by the end of this year!!awesome once again

[bobberick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bobberick]

Yeah, it's really strange. I think I'm slowing down though, so I doubt the goal is in sight yet. The girth is really coming along slowly. That said, I don't jelq near full erection. I'd rather put on the length first since its working so wonderfully.