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[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Do women expect their partners to help wash the dishes?
My wife is obsessed with clean dishes so doesn't trust me to do them effectively, so relegates me to clearing the table.

No, that's why we had kids. In actuality it is a shared responsibility, if he cooks I do the dishes and vise-versa. I think this is why he enjoys cooking so much because he hates doing dishes. Most chores are split and the other picks up the slack if one is unable to do the normal stuff - except Dog Crap in the back yard and mowing the lawn. He is much better at picking up the slack then I am I have to say. I hate cleaning and so I am a procrastinator when it comes to house hold duties - a flaw I am working on

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Anal sex?

Dreams are important.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I'm not good at spotting weird but to answer the above, you learn to overcome it, at first you think you need to pee but you don't really. It's just the g spot is close to that part of the body.

Actually after an orgasm it's really hard for a girl to pee. So after a while you don't associate that feeling with wanting to pee. It's just a nice intense feeling before an orgasm.

Do me a favor. Next time you have an orgasm and feel the need to pee, do so. It's not pee, it's a full body squirting orgasm sensation. I've been trying to coax the wife into letting it loose but no luck yet. arrrrgh.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Do women expect their partners to help wash the dishes?
My wife is obsessed with clean dishes so doesn't trust me to do them effectively, so relegates me to clearing the table.

I expect a relatively equitable division of responsibilities, and for each couple what's equitable and fair will be different. Some will take into account if one person works more hours than the other, or has a more physically demanding or exhausting job, or is particularly skilled (or not) in some areas. So while I don't necessarily expect that my partner will help specifically with the dishes, I do expect there to be some help somewhere.

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What is it with women and large fit condoms ?
If a guy I obviously in the top 10% for penis size why would there be any question about him wearing one ?
Why do women create a problem over this ? Or is this some sort of mind game, some sort of weird confidence knock like the big dick ex

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

What is it with women and large fit condoms ?
If a guy I obviously in the top 10% for penis size why would there be any question about him wearing one ?
Why do women create a problem over this ? Or is this some sort of mind game, some sort of weird confidence knock like the big dick ex

Probably because when most women think of condoms they think about the how we've all seen them blown up like balloons, so we KNOW that they can expand and be larger than any penis ever would be. However I also think that most women don't actually think about the *comfort* factor of a condom, and how yes just because you can physically get it on doesn't mean that it isn't going to be so constricting as to be counter productive.

Think of it like the equivalent of "but hey women give birth so their vaginas can easily handle a penis of any size and like it". Just because something CAN be made to be that size doesn't mean it's enjoyable.

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Who do women think large fit condoms are for ? If they are looking at a penis very clearly in the top10% and think is is not for that ?

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Who do women think large fit condoms are for ? If they are looking at a penis very clearly in the top10% and think is is not for that ?

My guess is most women think it's an ego/confidence thing and not strictly necessary.

I've known guys that need the larger sizes, and who had difficulty getting the regular ones on or who just found them way too constrictive. But I've also known guys who were quite clearly right at 'average' who insisted they needed the largest size condom available. So I suspect that many women get a little jaded about it. I'm not saying it's right, or it's fair, just trying to explain it.

And some are just plain stupid.

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While I agree with you Q, that a condom's sleeve can expand to accommodate almost ALL erect penis's, it's the rigid rim on the mouth of a condom that hurts like hell on guys with a thicker base girth at the root of their penis. US condom manufacturers don't make condoms that will comfortably fit guys with a 6" or greater base girth!

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Do me a favor. Next time you have an orgasm and feel the need to pee, do so. It's not pee, it's a full body squirting orgasm sensation. I've been trying to coax the wife into letting it loose but no luck yet. arrrrgh.

Exactly why I asked the question. I always feel like my wife is holding back from her true orgasmic potential.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

While I agree with you Q, that a condom's sleeve can expand to accommodate almost ALL erect penis's, it's the rigid rim on the mouth of a condom that hurts like hell on guys with a thicker base girth at the root of their penis. US condom manufacturers don't make condoms that will comfortably fit guys with a 6" or greater base girth!

Yep, kind of the point I was making. Some/many women seem to think that just because a condom CAN expand to that size that it's comfortable or should be worn by men of all sizes. I did a quick google search and found a picture of a guy wearing an inflated condom like a hat but I'm willing to bet it wasn't comfy. Just like some/many men seem to think that just because a vagina CAN expand to accommodate childbirth doesn't mean that it's a comfortable experience. Just because you might be able to get something the size of an eggplant in there doesn't mean it's pleasurable or a good idea.

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My guess is most women think it's an ego/confidence thing and not strictly necessary.

I've known guys that need the larger sizes, and who had difficulty getting the regular ones on or who just found them way too constrictive. But I've also known guys who were quite clearly right at 'average' who insisted they needed the largest size condom available. So I suspect that many women get a little jaded about it. I'm not saying it's right, or it's fair, just trying to explain it.

And some are just plain stupid.

Definately agree that a lot of guys think they are bigger than they truely are. At my store Magnum condoms are the number one seller in condoms. I get a few ladies come in and buy condoms, they never buy magnums.

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Definately agree that a lot of guys think they are bigger than they truely are. At my store Magnum condoms are the number one seller in condoms. I get a few ladies come in and buy condoms, they never buy magnums.

Sorry I can't add much to the conversation as the only time I experienced a condom was with ZZM and it busted in 2 strokes. Obviously needed the magnum - We were so naive back then. We weren't to worried about much back then as I was on the rhythm method and there was not a lot of concern about STDs, so we just said F#$k it and continued with out it.

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Sorry I can't add much to the conversation as the only time I experienced a condom was with ZZM and it busted in 2 strokes. Obviously needed the magnum - We were so naive back then. We weren't to worried about much back then as I was on the rhythm method and there was not a lot of concern about STDs, so we just said F#$k it and continued with out it.

Well, you both got lucky. I got a lot a guilt to deal with now that my little girlie has cancer. My fault.

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Well, you both got lucky. I got a lot a guilt to deal with now that my little girlie has cancer. My fault.

Do you honestly think your daughter wants you to think that way?