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But the real issue here is this the implicit thought here is so long as you are not a no hoper

Hi,

There is no such thing as a global, universal no hopper. The reality is that it's in your mind.

My post was meant to perhaps inspire some insight in self confidence. It doesn't take much to have it.

Now many want to ignore the lessons the real world teach us

Lessons in life are what ppl wish to get out of them. For example, I've had massive failures but looked at them as opportunities of what not to do and to be better, etc...

or just got lucky and wants to ignore the real situation for others. All this helps no one reality should be faced

This is what luck means;

“Luck Is What Happens When Preparation Meets Opportunity"

Of course one will call it what ever they want based on there frame of mind. In other words, problems and solutions start there, in the mind.

And lastly, of course I am drawing from my own experience, my self as are you. We are all trapped in our selves. But to call me out and by the sounds of it, say your way is the truth and mine is a cliché, is to me, a bit arrogant.

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Is it true men are too.

I think men who lie are more than insecure. More like scared?

[Jobe8302 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jobe8302]

I've heard those sons-ah-b****es that cuss a lot tend to be more truthful...but wtf do I know.

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Feel free to ask me anything and everything (within reason - keep it clean), and lets put some of these myths to rest.

What say you?

Mom... I got a question. Why is it the older I get, the more I realize a group of women are more perverted than a group of men? (In my younger days I part-timed as security for Bachelorette parties in a larger "Sin City")

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Hi,

There is no such thing as a global, universal no hopper. The reality is that it's in your mind.

My post was meant to perhaps inspire some insight in self confidence. It doesn't take much to have it.



Lessons in life are what ppl wish to get out of them. For example, I've had massive failures but looked at them as opportunities of what not to do and to be better, etc...



This is what luck means;

“Luck Is What Happens When Preparation Meets Opportunity"

Of course one will call it what ever they want based on there frame of mind. In other words, problems and solutions start there, in the mind.

And lastly, of course I am drawing from my own experience, my self as are you. We are all trapped in our selves. But to call me out and by the sounds of it, say your way is the truth and mine is a cliché, is to me, a bit arrogant.

More slogans just what the world needs .
I have seen a lot of this it always used to contain a bit about how Lance Armstrong proves you can do anything you set your mind to.

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Mom... I got a question. Why is it the older I get, the more I realize a group of women are more perverted than a group of men? (In my younger days I part-timed as security for Bachelorette parties in a larger "Sin City")

This is something I realized very young.

Of course, I have 5 sisters.

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I'm glad you and your brother managed to overcome things, but its not so easy for me. I didn't have a very good childhood and thus don't have much self esteem, and I've got easily more than half my life full of destructive mental behavior to overcome.

I saw you used the word potential. When I was younger, 19-early 20's, my ex stuck with me even when I'd go more than a year without a job because sex was good and because she saw potential in me. Eventually I finally wore her down and after me attempting to break up with her while in a very low spot for probably the 3rd time in the last month, she finally had enough and rightfully so. She was taking care of me, not the other way around. I don't even see potential in myself anymore either honestly. I don't have my high school and with my ADHD, I know I won't be able to do the GED on my own. Its too much money for classes and I can't stay in my house any longer its volatile. I feel like every way that I turn there's this huge block that prevents progression.

I'm not codependent in relationship terms but sexual validation has always been a big deal to me so after 3 years of nobody actually ever being interested in person, I feel pretty unwanted and useless. I guess I'm answering my own questions and whining or rambling at this point but w/e. I understand why no woman wants to be with me, I can't blame them. It just sucks because I feel like right now I could use one more than ever.

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Mom... I got a question. Why is it the older I get, the more I realize a group of women are more perverted than a group of men? (In my younger days I part-timed as security for Bachelorette parties in a larger "Sin City")

Son, what were you doing at a Bachelorette that needed SECURITY? What kind of Bachelorette parties to they have in "Sin City"?

I think it is our way of gathering information. Girls aren't given any real talks about sex, with the exception of how not to get pregnant or acquire an STD.

At every social event I have been to there is always at least one of these conversations happening. We talk about all the different aspect of sex (sometimes with the current partner and sometimes past experiences) so we can feel out what is considered normal and what is edgy and what is out of bounds. I think a lot of women want to let loose in the bedroom but are concerned about social norms and the reaction of their partner, so this public perversion talk is a way for them to get comfortable with themselves and their desires. Most of it is bullsh*t one trying to have a better story than the other. But in reality they are trying to find out what experiences others have had so they can feel more open about having their own. There is always at least one prude and one extremely enlightened person in the group.

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About all they are good for.

Well I can tell you if a woman has a large fit condom there and tries to put a standard size on me it does not make me feel insecure . It does piss me right off . While I still don't know the purpose of this little game I do consider it a direct insult.

Why? You can't possibly feel inadequate about your size. If a gal had trouble getting a standard condom on my I'd be smiling ear to ear. And as far as the gals that have tried that with you, remeber, it's said here all the time. Woman have a hard time guesstimating length.

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More slogans just what the world needs .
I have seen a lot of this it always used to contain a bit about how Lance Armstrong proves you can do anything you set your mind to.

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I don't have my high school and with my ADHD, I know I won't be able to do the GED on my own. Its too much money for classes and I can't stay in my house any longer its volatile. I feel like every way that I turn there's this huge block that prevents progression.

Try working on one thing at a time - make a list of everything you want to change in your life and prioritize. I would say finding a job, no matter how menial can lead to you marking a lot of things off your list. Even the most entry level positions can lead to better things. My daughter is a great example, started out as a lifeguard when she was 15 by the end of the summer she was senior staff, now at 19 she supervises 8 pools and approximately 45 employees. Before I went to college, I was a part time cashier at a department store and within 6 mo.s I was a head end manager and then promoted to invoice auditor. Look at yourself in the mirror every day and tell yourself 5 good things about yourself (this really works) and then get yourself out there and start checking things off your list.

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Do women like guys in speedos?

No.

Briefs, bikini briefs, or boxer briefs?

commando or boxer briefs.

For a woman, does it actually feel like you need to pee when you're about to orgasm? How did you overcome that feeling, break the barrier so to speak?

Only when I am squirting, not for regular orgasms. I did not have to overcome anything, it happened I enjoyed it and relaxed about it from that point forward.

Do women expect their partners to help wash the dishes?
My wife is obsessed with clean dishes so doesn't trust me to do them effectively, so relegates me to clearing the table.

Yes specially if I cooked. I don't mind him using the dishwasher, I still wash all my fancy chef stuff.

For those women who enjoy anal sex, what is it that they enjoy?

The awesome orgasm from it, different but strong.

What is it with women and large fit condoms ?
If a guy I obviously in the top 10% for penis size why would there be any question about him wearing one ?
Why do women create a problem over this ? Or is this some sort of mind game, some sort of weird confidence knock like the big dick ex

Couldn't say never used them with the Mr.

How much does a mans status in terms of job, place he lives, car he drives, how much money he makes actually matter, to both you and women in general, in your opinion. I've not had a job for a few years now, no car, no money, live at home with my parents. I'm handsome, but I've noticed the exact moment, including online relationships, that a woman learns of my situation her entire mannerism towards me changes. One girl thought I was handsome liked talking to me then just gave me the cold shoulder once she learned I was basically a nobody.

I feel like that is the ONLY thing that matters is money. Money and status I guess. Money is more important though because money can equal security, whereas someone with high status might not nessesarily have a lot of money. Are all women like this? Yes. Not in the sense that, they all measure a mans worth by how big his paycheck is, but in the sense that they are attracted to security.

For me I look at a relationship as a partnership, so as long as we can do well together we are all good. Realize that I have always lived within my means and I mean Mine, if something happens I want to be able to live in just one income if needed.

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Son, what were you doing at a Bachelorette that needed SECURITY? What kind of Bachelorette parties to they have in "Sin City"?

That's where I disappeared to for 10ish years...and all along y'all thought I was just out "whackin' it in the tool shed"

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Describe the female edging experience...

Guys edge for stamina training and as an attempt to overcome Pre-E issues. This can also be used as a way to tease your lover into absolute oblivion if done correctly and with a promise of finish at the end. I've often wondered what the experience is for women who is brought to the edge of orgasm and then denied or left just at the edge and given not enough stimulation to go over but the stimulation does continue. Is it exciting, is it frustrating, or does it leave you with the feeling that you lost a good opportunity for an orgasm? I ask in that some women are multi-orgasmic and a lost orgasm may be seen as a lost opportunity as you can go again if you wanted to. For me, an all day tease where I am brought to the brink several times leads to a very satisfying orgasm at the end. It usually involves a bigger load and a more prolonged feeling of bliss. Does it work the same way on women?

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For me bringing me to the edge and then backing out, is fine as long as I am going to get the pay load. This is actually something my Mr. loves to do specially when he is in Dom mode, for me a good edge session usually ends up on a squirt. If however the edge session ends up being interrupted (has only happened once) then I become a frustrated witch and you do not want to be around me. I need my O's.