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[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

If you are watching it in a movie, even a porn one, then it is almost certainly just (or mostly) acting. The entire point of it is not for the 2 performers to be having a good time, it's for the VIEWER to be enjoying it. They need to make things obvious to the viewer, so it goes over the top. The viewer doesn't have the benefit of the sense of touch, they can't feel her heart racing, or her breath against their skin. They can't see the subtle, involuntary movements. They can't hear the quiet noises she makes. So they have her make exaggerated movements and sounds so they're more apparent to the viewer.

Women do have many of those reactions in real life, but generally to a much lesser, more subtle extent. There are some women that are very loud (like me), some that are very active etc. But I think that in general it's not to the same extent as in a movie - especially porn. Just like performers get into some positions that you know are uncomfortable but they're great for the camera so both try to sell it as much as they can and make it seem like they're having the best time ever.

I understand the entertainment side, that is a given. It is the real life side that I wish to inquire about. You say you are loud, is it a natural reaction, an exaggerated reaction, are you trying to make you partner feel better or is it something that happens that you have no control over. My wife was loud when we first met but had to quell the sound when we moved into a townhouse with neighbors on each side. She tempered her sounds and they never really returned, even when we moved into a single family residence. So, the curiosity of my question.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Naturally loud. I try to keep it quieter during certain circumstances but it's not always possible.

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Watch any romance movie, or a scene where supposed love making is being performed and even if you are into Porn, you see women wailing in ecstasy, eyes rolled back, howling/moaning like the earth is about to part. Rarely have I encountered this in real life. Do you see these acts as phony and over dramatic as I do? Is it an act that the woman put on to make the man feel better about what he is doing? Thoughts?

Honey, I think that you are so involved in what is going on and possibly after 30 years, so used to me that you don't even realize that I am gasping for air, eyes rolling and yes making moans and grunts. So yes, it is very exaggerated and in my opinion fake in the movies, but what we have baby is all real.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I understand the entertainment side, that is a given. It is the real life side that I wish to inquire about. You say you are loud, is it a natural reaction, an exaggerated reaction, are you trying to make you partner feel better or is it something that happens that you have no control over. My wife was loud when we first met but had to quell the sound when we moved into a townhouse with neighbors on each side. She tempered her sounds and they never really returned, even when we moved into a single family residence. So, the curiosity of my question.

Damn. Don't worry about the neighbors. I figure they're jealous. We leave our new windows open. Head board bangin against the wall. Glorious.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Damn. Don't worry about the neighbors. I figure they're jealous. We leave our new windows open. Head board bangin against the wall. Glorious.

Talk about a party!

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

I remember the heyday of militant fem where I got abuse from women if I held the door open.

I still get that abuse from some feminists for holding the door open, or not holding the door open whichever faux pas the is the "it" thing to bitch about at the moment. I just ignore them, because their looking for a confrontation and I'm not going to give it to them, and open the door open anyways.

I don't know if you've seen these doors they're making now but they're heavy as shit. I was walking behind a girl who was about maybe 100lbs, couldn't be more than a buck ten at five foot something, and wearing a full backpack. Freaking turtlebackin' little miss, and she could for the life of her get these doors open (2 of them) running at full speed. I had to reach forward at the hinge and get it started for her. Freaking weather-proof stainless steel and bullet-proof glass doors.

You tell me chivalry is dead I don't think so, I think people asking for help and saying "thank you" like they mean it is what needs to make a come back. That toxic feminist crap, the crybabies on college and lunatic actors (not the badass women out there who do just as much as the men without complaining), those idiots will come to terms with reality soon enough or take themselves out of the gene pool (whichever comes after college). Because nature already found a way to warn you something is toxic and shouldn't be eaten. Anything with bright blue hair that's shrieking at you is to be left alone, like poison dart frogs or this thing:
http://media.breitbart.com/media/201...-15.17.201.png

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

I still get that abuse from some feminists for holding the door open, or not holding the door open whichever faux pas the is the "it" thing to bitch about at the moment. I just ignore them, because their looking for a confrontation and I'm not going to give it to them, and open the door open anyways.

I don't know if you've seen these doors they're making now but they're heavy as shit. I was walking behind a girl who was about maybe 100lbs, couldn't be more than a buck ten at five foot something, and wearing a full backpack. Freaking turtlebackin' little miss, and she could for the life of her get these doors open (2 of them) running at full speed. I had to reach forward at the hinge and get it started for her. Freaking weather-proof stainless steel and bullet-proof glass doors.

You tell me chivalry is dead I don't think so, I think people asking for help and saying "thank you" like they mean it is what needs to make a come back. That toxic feminist crap, the crybabies on college and lunatic actors (not the badass women out there who do just as much as the men without complaining), those idiots will come to terms with reality soon enough or take themselves out of the gene pool (whichever comes after college). Because nature already found a way to warn you something is toxic and shouldn't be eaten. Anything with bright blue hair that's shrieking at you is to be left alone, like poison dart frogs or this thing:
http://media.breitbart.com/media/201...-15.17.201.png

I agree. I get angry when I hear of a feminist berating a man for trying to treat her like a lady. They act like they speak for all women and they don't. Their actions show how uncivilized they are. A decent human being would simply let the man know that they would prefer you not hold the door open for them. There are a great many women, I say the majority, that love being treated like a women.

[Dongo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dongo]

Why do some women get so into it when fellating and enjoy being slapped in the face with it?

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Why do some women get so into it when fellating and enjoy being slapped in the face with it?

Not my thing, you'll have to ask one of them.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Why do some women get so into it when fellating and enjoy being slapped in the face with it?

I honestly don't really know any women personally that have said they actually enjoy that.

However, I can tell you from experience that I really get into and enjoy my partner enjoying himself, and I have had a few guys get really into it and start doing that. I don't *mind* it, it just doesn't do anything for me personally, but when I see my partner really enjoying something then it's his enjoyment that I like, not necessarily the act itself.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Why do some women get so into it when fellating and enjoy being slapped in the face with it?

I love performing oral, everything about it is great.

But I can hand on heart say the four men I've been with, none of them have ever slapped it on my face!!

Is it not something that only happens in porn movies??!

[ino Senior Member Member of the Month June 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close ino]

I love performing oral, everything about it is great.

But I can hand on heart say the four men I've been with, none of them have ever slapped it on my face!!

Is it not something that only happens in porn movies??!

Slapping the penis across the face during oral play probably doesn't happen in porn movies only. Many people adopt what they see in porn, so the expression of sex - the norm - gets wider and more and more extreme. But I have not heard any male friend state having slapped a face with his penis.

Btw: It is a reason why I read and responded to your post, and I believe you will get many more to read what you just wrote ... :

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[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

What feels better: cut or uncut?

[ino Senior Member Member of the Month June 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close ino]

What feels better: cut or uncut?

Good question, and now I am interested to find out whether the women who are members here have tasted boths types. (The European women are less likely to have done oral on (or had intercourse with) a cut penis, and the opposite goes for women who have lived all their lives in USA.)

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

What feels better: cut or uncut?

Additionally, as a follow-up to the above^^^, is there a different preference orally, vaginally or anally, when it comes to sex with circumcised or uncircumcised penis's?