I'm A Woman, Ask Me Anything!

[closed291 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Member of the Month June 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed291]

WOW. Your natural lube came back? I miss that. That was always a sign she wanted it. Now, I never know, unfortunately I take that personally and for me puts a damper on the event. Astroglide instead.

I found a lube better than Astroglide, Swiss Navy silicone, and Sliquid (which we have used faithfully)...there is one called "Aloe-cadabra." My, my, my...it's amazing. It never dries up and so slick! It's the cat's meow!

[discreet Senior Member Member of the Month May 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close discreet]

I found a lube better than Astroglide, Swiss Navy silicone, and Sliquid (which we have used faithfully)...there is one called "Aloe-cadabra." My, my, my...it's amazing. It never dries up and so slick! It's the cat's meow!

Hi,

Wow great tip, thank you.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Hmmmm, do I dare ask another question this morning? I think I'll play it safe....

How was your coffee this morning dear?

[KMWylie Senior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close KMWylie]

I'll ask a question----->

Why is it that women seem to be a moving target? What worked today, doesn't work tomorrow. Touch my boobs, don't touch my boobs. Insert a finger along with oral, next time my finger is pulled away. AND one that I never understood is, Its OK, I don't want any attention today. Help a guy understand these conflicting signals.

Physiologically.... hormones.

Philosophically... because if we weren't an enigma, you guys would get bored. ;-)

[discreet Senior Member Member of the Month May 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close discreet]

Hi,

Dunno about any other guys here but I love that about woman, moving target etc...

Keeps me on my toes.

In fact, it's kinda cute, albeit in a horror show sort of way at times. Sorta like "oh dayam, here comes the bride of Chucky".

Hey, she acts out, go buy another Craftsmen tool etc... Although I've been disappointed in Craftsmen for oh about 10 years now. Cobalt from Lowes seems a lot better.

Although the best are Snap-On.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Hi,


Hey, she acts out, go buy Snap-On.

YIKES!...In my VAST EXPERIENCE..I've never been in bed with ANY WOMAN with a SNAP ON TOOL! ...sounds DANGEROUS!

[discreet Senior Member Member of the Month May 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close discreet]

YIKES!...In my VAST EXPERIENCE..I've never been in bed with ANY WOMAN with a SNAP ON TOOL! ...sounds DANGEROUS!

My friend,

There is a slight yet huge difference between SnapOn and StrapOn.

Although if she's comin at ya with a pair of locking pliers then RUN.

[SnapperLapper Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SnapperLapper]

There are so many "questions" to ask, and the answers would vary from female to female, so there is no real absolute answer.

Why can't some women enjoy sex fully, and orgasm regularly?

I know several reasons why this is, and there is not a consistent answer that is the same for all women.

See what I mean?

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

It's been asked a million times, but on a scale of 1-10, 10 being highest, how much do you think penile girth contributes to sexual satisfaction?

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

Hmmmm, do I dare ask another question this morning? I think I'll play it safe....

How was your coffee this morning dear?

Great cup of coffee.

[discreet Senior Member Member of the Month May 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close discreet]

Great cup of coffee.

Aahhh, is Monsignor TheZZMan your Mr. Coffee?

This is actually very sweet.

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

There are so many "questions" to ask, and the answers would vary from female to female, so there is no real absolute answer.

Why can't some women enjoy sex fully, and orgasm regularly?

I know several reasons why this is, and there is not a consistent answer that is the same for all women.

See what I mean?

It's a great question though and one that should be explored because there are some misconceptions that some women are not built to enjoy sex. Some women believe this of themselves which is a shame because I believe we are made to enjoy it, crave it.

If I get all biblical on you all for a sec. When Adam and Eve where excommunicated from the garden of Eden, God said to the woman -

“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband ...."

Genisis 3:16

This being said, I think a lot of women do not understand how enjoyable sex could be and therefore do it to please or appease their husbands or SO. This is why it is important for women to be more open with their SO about what feels good and what doesn't so they can get the full experience. I think there are a lot of women out there that have never had a vaginal orgasm. The trick is getting her to have the first one, after that they come more frequently because we know what to look for. So don't give up, communicate and keep trying.

[TheZZWoman Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZWoman]

It's been asked a million times, but on a scale of 1-10, 10 being highest, how much do you think penile girth contributes to sexual satisfaction?

The vaginal wall is a miraculous thing. It forms to its prey. In my opinion I do want him to fit in nice and snug and stretch me a little but that doesn't mean a man with below average girth can't do that, the average circumference of a vagina is .8 to 1.4 inches while the average girth of a male is 4.75 to 5 inches so even the largest vagina has to stretch for the smallest girth.

[SnapperLapper Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SnapperLapper]

It's a great question though and one that should be explored because there are some misconceptions that some women are not built to enjoy sex. Some women believe this of themselves which is a shame because I believe we are made to enjoy it, crave it.

If I get all biblical on you all for a sec. When Adam and Eve where excommunicated from the garden of Eden, God said to the woman -

“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband ...."

Genisis 3:16

This being said, I think a lot of women do not understand how enjoyable sex could be and therefore do it to please or appease their husbands or SO. This is why it is important for women to be more open with their SO about what feels good and what doesn't so they can get the full experience. I think there are a lot of women out there that have never had a vaginal orgasm. The trick is getting her to have the first one, after that they come more frequently because we know what to look for. So don't give up, communicate and keep trying.

I agree with you, and I am a Christian. The thing is, even if a woman has had vaginal orgasms before, it still takes a desire to seek them out to remember what brought it about.

Why would a woman NOT seek them out?

[RedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedWilly]

The vaginal wall is a miraculous thing. It forms to its prey. In my opinion I do want him to fit in nice and snug and stretch me a little but that doesn't mean a man with below average girth can't do that, the average circumference of a vagina is .8 to 1.4 inches while the average girth of a male is 4.75 to 5 inches so even the largest vagina has to stretch for the smallest girth.

But if you'd have to say on a scale of 1-10 how much girth matters in the enjoyment of sex, all other factors being equal, what number would you put on it?