Had a fight with my gf last night

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

It basically went on like this:

Her: I'm always mad at you because i think you're gonna cheat on me

Me: why the fuck do you keep thinking I'm gonna cheat on you

Her: ever since you told me you cheated on your ex it made me scared and insecure

Me: well you're the one that asked about my past. As a matter of fact I have not even been with anyone else before you for 3 months, you on the other hand is addicted to sex and I'm disgusted to even think about how many men you've been with, so it's not fair for you to keep bringing up my cheating past. Also if my cheating past bothers you, how about that thing you told me the first time we had sex, "I have been with men with very big dicks", you think that doesn't bother me? But I never bring it up.

Her: can i come over?

Me: no

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

She asked to come over and you said no? Oh do you have much to learn!

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

She asked to come over and you said no? Oh do you have much to learn!

Why. I'm mad at her and I'm also upset once again for having to remember what she said.

[Tamora Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Aug 2015 PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Tamora]

Seems to me you love the drama of it all.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Different scenario.
Her... I'm afraid you will cheat on me.
You... Don't worry baby. I love you and I won't cheat.
Her ... can I come ride your huge pony.
You.... yeah, baby, yeah.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Why. I'm mad at her and I'm also upset once again for having to remember what she said.

Being mad is simply a waste of time. Let it go and have fun.

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

Being mad is simply a waste of time. Let it go and have fun.

She's the one always getting mad. This fight started because she didn't want me to take my mom with us on vacation, which my gf refers to as "her trip" -- the trip that was my idea and that I paid for. Our fights always escalate because she starts bringing up shit.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well then let her go and move on. Why are you staying with someone who you say just wants to fight? More wasted time.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Love is actually hate.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

It basically went on like this:

Her: I'm always mad at you because i think you're gonna cheat on me

Me: why the fuck do you keep thinking I'm gonna cheat on you

Her: ever since you told me you cheated on your ex it made me scared and insecure

Me: well you're the one that asked about my past. As a matter of fact I have not even been with anyone else before you for 3 months, you on the other hand is addicted to sex and I'm disgusted to even think about how many men you've been with, so it's not fair for you to keep bringing up my cheating past. Also if my cheating past bothers you, how about that thing you told me the first time we had sex, "I have been with men with very big dicks", you think that doesn't bother me? But I never bring it up.

Her: can i come over?

Me: no

Is this not a variation of the arguments you've had with her many times before? This is the definition of insanity- repeating the same behaviors/actions and expecting a different result. With all due respect, both of you can use a good dose of emotional maturity.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

And a bigger dose of mature yourself before screwing around with someone else.

[Felipe JR. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Felipe JR.]

different scenario.
Her... I'm afraid you will cheat on me.
You... Don't worry baby. I love you and i won't cheat.
Her ... Can i come ride your huge pony.
You.... Yeah, baby, yeah.

lmao!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You had your advice which was basically grow up on a previous thread .

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Boy, you just don't want to have sex with your girlfriend. Girlfriend asks to come over in a time where she's vulnerable and potentially down for sex to reassure her that you love her. You tell her "No." Girlfriend gets mad at you for bringing your mom with you on vacation... You let it turn into a fight, rather than reassure her that you two will have plenty of alone time and your mother won't be intruding. I agree with Cusp and the others, you have got A LOT to learn about relationships.

[The Next Big Thing Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Next Big Thing]

I dont know your relationship but from what you have written I can see you react really immaturely. Why do you need to be so neurotic and mean? It seems like you are the one creating conflict. You are the man, it is your responsibility to make the woman comfortable. Calm yourself down first, be okey with yourself first and then ask her whats bothering her and make her feel good. If you are not able to do that, maybe you need some time to work on yourself before you start a relationship.