Had a fight with my gf last night

[MisterBator Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MisterBator]

You my friend, need to go watch some "Coach Corey Wayne" videos on YouTube. Good watch for any man in fact. He helps give an understanding to relationship dynamics that you're probably not aware of yet. Spend some time and educate yourself so you don't repeat the same bad manners with women time and time again resulting in one failed relationship after another.

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

You my friend, need to go watch some "Coach Corey Wayne" videos on YouTube. Good watch for any man in fact. He helps give an understanding to relationship dynamics that you're probably not aware of yet. Spend some time and educate yourself so you don't repeat the same bad manners with women time and time again resulting in one failed relationship after another.

How was this my fault though? What should i have done differently?

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How was this my fault though? What should i have done differently?

Watch some videos man. I don't particularly care to be a relationship coach today. Best of luck.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Is this not a variation of the arguments you've had with her many times before? This is the definition of insanity- repeating the same behaviors/actions and expecting a different result. With all due respect, both of you can use a good dose of emotional maturity.

Here's your BEST ANSWER^^^. Enough said...

[closed299 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed299]

Personally i would have done the following before getting into a relationship in the first place

1. Got to know her as best i can
2. Found out about her past- number of partners, 1 night stands, has she cheated etc
3. Most important - how she ended up with you. Did she cheat to be with you, how easy was she to sleep with etc etc

Then i would have decided whether id want to get in a relationship with her.

For me if shes had several one night stands, several no strings flings, shes cheated before, she was easy to sleep with and she cheated to get with you id treat her like the slag she is and fuck her into oblivion never to be seen again

I would never get into a relationship with someone without knowing about their past as no matter how much she likes you know 2/3 years down the line when everythings routine and the honeymoon periods over she’ll be at it again

Never let your emotions/feelings for someone cloud your judgement. Use your common sense

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

I am the way i am because of the "big dicks" comment she made. There's not a single day that goes by that I don't think anout it. Everytime we have sex i remember that I'm not good enough. Everytime she complains that i came too soon i remember that I'm not good enough. Everytime i look at porn and i see a man with a big dick i think about her getting fucked by it. Months later I still can't shake that off and i shouldn't have dated her after she said it. She never even said "you're dick is fine" when I've gotten compliments from other women about my size. Makes me wonder really how big these other dicks were. My 7.5 bpel is probably below average for her. So blame her for ruining my confidence and turning me into a cold hearted asshole.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

You're doing it all wrong bro.

You're supposed to put that pussy on a pedestal!!!

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

I am the way i am because of the "big dicks" comment she made. There's not a single day that goes by that I don't think anout it. Everytime we have sex i remember that I'm not good enough. Everytime she complains that i came too soon i remember that I'm not good enough. Everytime i look at porn and i see a man with a big dick i think about her getting fucked by it. Months later I still can't shake that off and i shouldn't have dated her after she said it. She never even said "you're dick is fine" when I've gotten compliments from other women about my size. Makes me wonder really how big these other dicks were. My 7.5 bpel is probably below average for her. So blame her for ruining my confidence and turning me into a cold hearted asshole.

I should mention, the point of this fight is that despite having to deal with this big dick thing, I never brought it up (before this fight, that is). I sucked it up and dealt with it on my own (maybe unconsciously my bruised ego made me mean but i guess that's the price she pays). She on the other hand brings up my cheating past almost daily and constantly accuses me of cheating. Then when she gets mad for a stupidest reason, she says it's all because she feels insecure because she thinks I'm gonna cheat. How fucking unfair is that? If i had to be a man and deal with her past then should have done the same for me.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I am the way i am because of the "big dicks" comment she made. There's not a single day that goes by that I don't think anout it. Everytime we have sex i remember that I'm not good enough. Everytime she complains that i came too soon i remember that I'm not good enough. Everytime i look at porn and i see a man with a big dick i think about her getting fucked by it. Months later I still can't shake that off and i shouldn't have dated her after she said it. She never even said "you're dick is fine" when I've gotten compliments from other women about my size. Makes me wonder really how big these other dicks were. My 7.5 bpel is probably below average for her. So blame her for ruining my confidence and turning me into a cold hearted asshole.

^^^WRONG!

You are they way you are, because you're IMMATURE, have a PORN addiction, and refuse to accept responsibility for being "AT FAULT" and seeking appropriate mental help.

Emotionally (and maybe even physically with the pre-E and self-loathing), you're a disaster just waiting to happen to the next female you can bed. Get some HELP, and stop screwing up everyone else's life. I'm not saying your current GF doesn't have maturity & emotional issues as well (birds of a feather), but two wrongs don't make for a healthy relationship, FOR SURE! Focus your energy on fixing yourself, and you might recover, becoming a confident healthy male worthy of a mature female investing in a relationship with. Continue to blame everyone & everything else (BIG Dick Guys), and you'll spend a lifetime of self-loathing & failed relationships...YOUR CHOICE!

[closed299 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed299]

Previous dick size doesnt bother me for some reason. Im only 6.5NBP but i just go into it determined to learn what she loves and what her body responds to. I become literally obsessed with just giving her the best sex ever and i certainly did with the last woman i was with
Dick size means fuck all if you know what your doing. Sooo much more to pleasuring a woman than just sticking your cock in.

Id advise you to adopt the same approach as theres no way 1-2 inches of extra dick is going to make such a phenomensl difference that nothing else matters but a big dick.

If she genuinely believes a bigger dick is simply better then she hasnt had real sex

[closed299 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed299]

The ironic thong is okayok you responded to a post of mine a few days ago mocking my advice when everyone else thought it was brilliant sexual advice. I responded but you went silent. Now here you are, the sex guru, asking for advice on sex ....

[peckerachu Banned Find all posts View Profile Close peckerachu]

Previous dick size doesnt bother me for some reason. Im only 6.5NBP but i just go into it determined to learn what she loves and what her body responds to. I become literally obsessed with just giving her the best sex ever and i certainly did with the last woman i was with
Dick size means fuck all if you know what your doing. Sooo much more to pleasuring a woman than just sticking your cock in.

Id advise you to adopt the same approach as theres no way 1-2 inches of extra dick is going to make such a phenomensl difference that nothing else matters but a big dick.

If she genuinely believes a bigger dick is simply better then she hasnt had real sex

To me that is incomprihensible and self dustrictive but to each his own. My reasoning would be simple circle argument of -why should I have to work harder than somebody with a bigger penis to give the same level of pleasure that's unfair. And I wouldn't sweat a single drop more than someone with a monster penis would because I shouldn't have to.

I understand OP is angry because his GF thinks he has a small penis. Since his penis isn't small but not a monster size either I think the problem is the size of the vagina more than anything. Turn the argument around and tell your GF about that you have had a lot of super tight girls.

[closed299 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed299]

To me that is incomprihensible and self dustrictive but to each his own. My reasoning would be simple circle argument of -why should I have to work harder than somebody with a bigger penis to give the same level of pleasure that's unfair. And I wouldn't sweat a single drop more than someone with a monster penis would because I shouldn't have to.

I understand OP is angry because his GF thinks he has a small penis. Since his penis isn't small but not a monster size either I think the problem is the size of the vagina more than anything. Turn the argument around and tell your GF about that you have had a lot of super tight girls.

What is incomprehensible and self destructive? Dont understand

[okayok Banned Find all posts View Profile Close okayok]

Id advise you to adopt the same approach as theres no way 1-2 inches of extra dick is going to make such a phenomensl difference that nothing else matters but a big dick.

Are you fucking kidding me? 1-2 makes a world of difference -- even if not for her, at least for me. I wouldn't have to hear "pound me harder so it goes deeper", wouldn't have to feel her grabbing my butt to pull me closer ans make me go in deeper, wouldn't have to worry about my dick slipping out on certain positions.

This was never an issue with other women before. I never worried about penis size before. I used to do PE not for size gains but for EQ. I feel like I'm traumatized now.

Your advice was bad because a guy came in asking about PE but you just told him don't worry about it, size doesn't matter, blah blah blah. Clearly it does otherwise YOU wouldn't be here.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Are you fucking kidding me? 1-2 makes a world of difference -- even if not for her, at least for me. I wouldn't have to hear "pound me harder so it goes deeper", wouldn't have to feel her grabbing my butt to pull me closer ans make me go in deeper, wouldn't have to worry about my dick slipping out on certain positions.

This was never an issue with other women before. I never worried about penis size before. I used to do PE not for size gains but for EQ. I feel like I'm traumatized now.

Your advice was bad because a guy came in asking about PE but you just told him don't worry about it, size doesn't matter, blah blah blah. Clearly it does otherwise YOU wouldn't be here.

WRONG, AGAIN!

LOTS of members here in the Gym join to improve EQ, better themselves in sexual knowledge & technique, and improve their confidence in a variety of other ways than SIZE ALONE. Being a good sexual partner has MUCH more to do with KNOWLEDGE & ABILITY than about having a HUGE DICK, Bro. Unless you have a micro-penis, most males can please most females with an average sized Dick, which is about 5.25" X 4.6" IF they have the knowledge & ability to use it well!