Young, insecure male.....

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

Have you been drinking?...your posts are coming off extremely narcissistic. I am sure that everybody on this thread wants to help you, but is difficult to sympathize and help you after considering your more recent posts. I have not read all of this thread, but it seems as though things started out with a legitimate question and have somehow devolved into an exploration of and/or demand for recognition/validation of your self worth.

My advice would be to pump the breaks before acting as impulsively as you have been expressing your thoughts here, and let the dust settle. Then I would re-evaluate your situation and re-read the advice that has been given to you here.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

Well, not making this up at all, the first time I ever had sex, the girl got me to slap her, bite her, pull her hair, fuck her face and fuck her in the ass etc. I had bite marks all over my body and blood on me from her nails. I was weirded out by it. The second girl liked to have sex in her car while people would drive by. She liked to have sex in places where we could get caught. The third girl was very inexperienced and got clingy afterwards, and I didn't pursue her further....and this one I met at a party. All these guys were after her and I just remember going up to her, stealing her from this short dude and dancing with her and then making out with her for an hour on the couch. The next day, there were photos of us on fb making out. It was really embarassing, cause we were both so drunk we didn't know people were snapping photos. She was in my lap and everyhing. After that, we tried to have sex in my car, but I was too drunk. That's how the relationship started. I guess I don't need to worry about being beta....she chose me the night of the party over a whole host of guys...who, I might add, tried the same thing with her that night and failed. She also told me right at the start that she had never done it without a condom before and she was nervous about it, but we still had sex without one. Don't know if that is the truth, but I assumed it was, cause why would she bring it up unless it was because she had reservations about it?

Anyways, does that count as a "past" at all?

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

I am absolutely hammered right now. A bottle of vodka and six beers over the course of the evening. Hope my grammar is intact. Feel free to stop reading if I am offending you. I know I am a douche. I know I deserve to be alone. I feel pretty damn alone right now.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

Well, not making this up at all, the first time I ever had sex, the girl got me to slap her, bite her, pull her hair, fuck her face and fuck her in the ass etc. I had bite marks all over my body and blood on me from her nails. I was weirded out by it. The second girl liked to have sex in her car while people would drive by. She liked to have sex in places where we could get caught. The third girl was very inexperienced and got clingy afterwards, and I didn't pursue her further....and this one I met at a party. All these guys were after her and I just remember going up to her, stealing her from this short dude and dancing with her and then making out with her for an hour on the couch. The next day, there were photos of us on fb making out. It was really embarassing, cause we were both so drunk we didn't know people were snapping photos. She was in my lap and everyhing. After that, we tried to have sex in my car, but I was too drunk. That's how the relationship started. I guess I don't need to worry about being beta....she chose me the night of the party over a whole host of guys...who, I might add, tried the same thing with her that night and failed. She also told me right at the start that she had never done it without a condom before and she was nervous about it, but we still had sex without one. Don't know if that is the truth, but I assumed it was, cause why would she bring it up unless it was because she had reservations about it?

Anyways, does that count as a "past" at all?

Lol.. yeah it does. Introduce me to the first one one day would ya

Look, I'm being quite hard on you up there I know. We're different guys with different outlooks and tastes, and I'm a good bit older than you ... Just take it as an opinion, cause all the advice in the world is no good if you can't make the decisions you need to make on your own.

You don't deserve to be alone mate. I think you've got some mixed up feelings about this, and I think you're over sensitive to things that I just don't think matter at all, but you're obviously a clever guy, articulate, thoughtful, sensitive. Man, you deserve a wonderful woman.

Now stop beating yourself up.. you're only playing yourself, Jeru

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

No, Spanky, I am dead serious about my virginity loss story. I mean, I guess I wasn't bleeding profusely, but I did need a couple band-aids on my chest. Man, she actually scared the crap out of me. Also projectile vomited on me a couple hours later. I never called her back. Lol.

I am drinking water now, and a bit less intoxicated. I'm supposed to be in France in less than a month, to spend new years with her and her family in Paris. Christ, what have I gotten myself into? She likes me enough to introduce me to her family. Apparently, her family has never met one of her boyfriends ever.

One day, early on, she said she was so happy to finally be in a normal relationship. Oh shit. I can't do this to her. Fuck fuck fuck fuck.

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

No, Spanky, I am dead serious about my virginity loss story. I know you don't believe me, but that's the way it went down. I wouldn't believe it either though, so I understand. Man, she actually scared the crap out of me.

I didn't think you were lying or making it up at all.. just saying that kinda floats my boat. We're all different, hey

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

Oh, cool. You know, I might be screwed up, but if it weren't for this forum, I would have NO ONE to communicate to, and I think it is a blessing. Thanks for being there dude. There's something amazing about strangers who spend time to try and help someone off of a sinking ship. Time to collapse.

[Slow deep and hard Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Slow deep and hard]

I really think you should stay with this girl for now

2 month in after i meet my current wife she also told me that she ones had a f... friend , when i saw on fb that he was a tall hansome black dude that almost ruined me because of my penis insecurity and i keept seeing him f... her when i closed my eyes and it almost drow me mad , but there was somthing sweet about this girl and i decided that if i left her i would regret it because i would just be giving into my fears.


Long story but it was the best choice i ever made, we are a farytale happy couple now and every day im happy i stayed.
I could never settel with enyone in the past , but this girl just dos it for me but it toke 4 month before i feel in love an let her in.

What im trying to say is , give it time your problem gets better with time, and you dont know yet if this girl is the best thing that ever happen to you.

Real love can cure most things

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[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

That post is crossing the line big time. I suggest you go back and edit NOW before I get pissed! If you don't know what to edit that you don't deserve to be here.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Jungle-sex, seriously?!?! WOW!!

At the rate you're going, you'll never find a girl that will please you due to all your insecurities

Maybe you should read back over all your posts and you'll see yourself in a different light.....

[spanky Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close spanky]

I'm just going to say one thing. Very very nearly every woman you will ever meet will have slept with someone else. And enjoyed it a lot. That's life my friend. Deal with it.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

Edits made.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

You need help.

[ColtAR-15 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ColtAR-15]

Tijor again?