Toys and Porn

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Yeah I showed this to Mrs Basset, but she just looked at me like I was crazy, I thought it would be pretty cool.

This is definitely one for guys who like the idea of getting a toy for their partner, but maybe feel a little intimidated by all the different varieties out there, there should be no jealousy issues for anyone and it would be fun to make one!

Thanks for the reply GrowStrong! There is a guy here who made one and posted pics of it in the photo's section, I can't remember who it was, I think maybe it was a member called MySword.

[FinallyBig Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FinallyBig]

you know you can mould your own penis and put a vibrator on it too, now thats a toy i would encourage my partner to use, how cool is that? moulding your penis haha. but yeah like say you two would go a long time without seeing each other and she misses feeling you inside her, what better than to give her your penis :P

something like this
Clone-A-Willy Vibrator Create Your Own Penis Moulding Kit at Lovehoney - Free Delivery on Willy Moulding Kits

Man if my girl asked me to mould a dildo of my dick I would be so flattered!

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/720...-my-willy.html

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Thank you very much MrB8!

[GrowStrong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GrowStrong]

Yeah I showed this to Mrs Basset, but she just looked at me like I was crazy, I thought it would be pretty cool.

This is definitely one for guys who like the idea of getting a toy for their partner, but maybe feel a little intimidated by all the different varieties out there, there should be no jealousy issues for anyone and it would be fun to make one!

Thanks for the reply GrowStrong! There is a guy here who made one and posted pics of it in the photo's section, I can't remember who it was, I think maybe it was a member called MySword.

yeah thats what i figured, like it would be good for guys who dont want their partner to feel a different penis inside them. but to be honest i only want to do that so i can see my penis after moulding, i think it would be awsome hahaha, then giving it to my partner to enjoy would be a bonus. also thanks for letting me know about those pictures, ill go have a look now, i havnt actually seen any pictures of this yet so this will be interesting

[GrowStrong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GrowStrong]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/720...-my-willy.html

thanks for the link, thats so awsome haha im totally going to do that when i reach my penis goals

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

toys + great sex = AWESOME time :-)

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

There is a major problem with a clone a willy kits is that the product is much harder and doesn't feel at all like a real penis. I knew this other guy who made a replica from platinum silicone+slacker and it feels pretty close to a real penis.

Oh, and your penis can vibrate, if put a vibrating cockring on it.


PS: I feel there's a pressure on women to have multiple orgasms and for men to give them multiple orgasms. But sometimes the women simply can't have them easily so the guy gets his ego hurt, which causes other issues as well.

[GrowStrong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GrowStrong]

There is a major problem with a clone a willy kits is that the product is much harder and doesn't feel at all like a real penis. I knew this other guy who made a replica from platinum silicone+slacker and it feels pretty close to a real penis.

Oh, and your penis can vibrate, if put a vibrating cockring on it.


PS: I feel there's a pressure on women to have multiple orgasms and for men to give them multiple orgasms. But sometimes the women simply can't have them easily so the guy gets his ego hurt, which causes other issues as well.

haha oh yeah! i forgot about vibrating cock rings i might buy one soon that would also be cool :P
thanks for the heads up, platinum silicone + slacker sounds like the way to go then, ill try and find kits with those in it when i do it.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

In my opinion, sex and ego is an oxymoron, same with relationships and ego.

Well, ego in general can blind us to many good things in life.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

It should be an oxymoron, unfortunately the Gym shows us otherwise on a daily basis

In my opinion, sex and ego is an oxymoron, same with relationships and ego.

Well, ego in general can blind us to many good things in life.

[FinallyBig Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FinallyBig]

It should be an oxymoron, unfortunately the Gym shows us otherwise on a daily basis

I think every man's ego is tied in a big way to his sexual performance and penis size. This is a forum for guys trying to make their dicks bigger, so a lot of guys here are going to be like that, including myself.

I'm sure there are men out there who wouldn't feel hurt if their gf couldn't orgasm without her toys, but it would bother me and many other guys I've talked to.

Let's try to imagine how insecure women would be, if most women couldn't get their bf to cum. Imagine they could have sex with us in any position, and did everything they could, but couldn't get their man to finish? And then he always had to go watch porn and use a vibrator on his dick afterwards to finish. I think a lot of women would have bruised egos then. Lucky for women most guys cum in 5 minutes or less with little effort on the woman's part.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

I think every man's ego is tied in a big way to his sexual performance and penis size. This is a forum for guys trying to make their dicks bigger, so a lot of guys here are going to be like that, including myself.

I'm sure there are men out there who wouldn't feel hurt if their gf couldn't orgasm without her toys, but it would bother me and many other guys I've talked to.

Let's try to imagine how insecure women would be, if most women couldn't get their bf to cum. Imagine they could have sex with us in any position, and did everything they could, but couldn't get their man to finish? And then he always had to go watch porn and use a vibrator on his dick afterwards to finish. I think a lot of women would have bruised egos then. Lucky for women most guys cum in 5 minutes or less with little effort on the woman's part.

Yes, they feel hurt when their guy is porn dependent or has DE, but that's different.

When guys feel insecure about their ladies using toys, they are missing the fact that a toy can be used to add to their mutual experience and not his substitute.

This kind of mentality stands in the way of many exciting things and turns sex into a duty, which of course deadens the whole experience.


The Perils of Goal-Oriented Sex

Debunking A Popular Myth About the Female Orgasm

Also, lets not take extreme case and generalize them as facts, when even those cases can be resolved.

[FinallyBig Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close FinallyBig]

Yes, they feel hurt when their guy is porn dependent or has DE, but that's different.

When guys feel insecure about their ladies using toys, they are missing the fact that a toy can be used to add to their mutual experience and not his substitute.

This kind of mentality stands in the way of many exciting things and turns sex into a duty, which of course deadens the whole experience.


The Perils of Goal-Oriented Sex

Debunking A Popular Myth About the Female Orgasm

Also, lets not take extreme case and generalize them as facts, when even those cases can be resolved.

How come a guy watching porn is worse than a girl using toys? Unless the girl is only thinking about her boyfriend and no one else while she is masturbating I don't see the difference. Because isn't that the issue women have with porn? The idea of a man masturbating and fantasizing about a woman other than themselves? When women close and their eyes and fantasize, they are creating a "mental porn" to arouse themselves.

I don't care what women tell me, I don't believe that the NEVER think about anyone but their boyfriend when they are pleasuring themselves. I've talked to girls who've told me they will fantasize about other guys, or girls quite often too, because many of them are bisexual. One girl told me she thought about her ex-bf, and she felt really guilty for it because she loved her current bf so much. So even when they really love the guy, it's hard to only think about him, and I understand that. My buddy's gf found his porn collection and threw it all in the garbage when he was at work. But if a guy found his gf's toys and threw them all in the garbage people would call him an insecure jerk.

TPW debunking myths about female orgasm thread has a good point about how if a woman isn't into it, it isn't going to happen. She says that an orgasm cannot be "given", the woman makes it happen. But even if a woman is not in the mood for sex, a powerful vibe can still make her cum in a couple minutes or even as little as 5 seconds! It can literally "give" her an orgasm even if she wasn't even in the mood earlier! But with a man, since we can't create that overpowering stimulation, if we don't get her really aroused, and her mind isn't into it, it won't happen. Vibrators will force a woman to cum, even the most frigid non-sexual woman can orgasm with a vibrator. That's why sexual therapists recommend them to women with sexual dysfunction. I would call them the "failsafe" method, they work where everything else failed. Adding them to the bedroom will help a woman who isn't going to orgasm any other way, but secretly many men wish they could make a woman orgasm like that with their own penis or tongue.

Okay this may be another one of my "extreme cases" but this is to point out the bad feeling it gave me. I've had a girl who even if I went down on her for an hour, she would say, "You can stop if you want you know." And I felt like crap cause she was just lying there and waiting for me to give up because I wasn't getting anywhere. Yeah that hurts my self-esteem. Cause other girls loved my oral and would ask me for it all the time. It would be the same as a girl giving her bf head for an hour until he tells her she should just stop cause he's not going to cum. It's a shitty feeling to be told your efforts are pointless and just stop cause I'm getting tired.

And I don't think DE is any different than a woman who can't orgasm. Cause the guys with DE can orgasm when they masturbate, just not with a girl. And girls who can't orgasm with a man, can when they masturbate, it's the same thing.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Some very interesting points there actually, FinallyBig.