if penis size is really that important

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

Not really true. I've had countless friends who had at least 8 inch. And I've personally seen a few of them (some dudes can't keep their dicks in their pants.). I can think off hand of 3 people who I know to have dicks that were bigger then 8. I know though word of mouth of other friends who had at least 7 (I think I was stuck in the land of the big dicks.) Big dicks are out there and their common enough. Just accept the fact that dick size isn't all that matters and there is such a thing as too much of something good.

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My friends who were overly blessed would complain about females being scared off or only being able to have sex for small amounts of time. No next day sex for them or deep throat blow jobs. huge dicks are fun to show off but don't always work towards your advantage.

Yes, it is all about your experience.
I am also stuck in the land of big dicks.
Most of my friends had 8+ except maybe one or two. And they liked to brag about it any chance they got or even whip it out for show.
So this is why my opinions are the way they are. I have to complete with these pricks, they are the ones that live in my town and have sex with the girls. Just the way it is

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Penis Palace

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Mmm Penis Palace

My strategy if I were with a woman who was previously seeing a larger guy would be to quite simply ROCK her friggin world. I was with a girl once who suggested I was on the small side, so I gave her six orgasms in a row and drove her half way to madness. Just use skillz bro

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

first, thank you for apologizing

secondly, i still disagree with you and think you are confused and your black and white thinking does not make life simpler for you
i am telling the truth and it doesn't damage men me saying the truthful opinion that bigger penis does not mean better lover, better sex, or you are more of a man.You saying I am a liar just because you don't agree with my opinion is not right and is insulting. you need to discredit my opinion as a female is insulting.
I don't say things just to please people and i am not a ego stroker, ask around, i speak my mind and i am not a suck up I also don't have an issue if men choose to aim for big goals, i have the right to point out that it will limit certain things, that it won;t guarantee you will be a good fuck or that girls will be more into you because you have a bigger penis.
but you also have to recognize not all men here want that huge dong, and there idea of big is much less ..or they are starting at a much smaller point. so its insulting to them to be told that females won't want their dick if its not so big your tripping on your ego over ..cuz that is not true, the majority of females prefer average size penis though to the upper end of average, its your insecurity and your emotional injuries that have you thinking i am wrong. i have never once said all women don't want big dick, i have been known to say some women can only handle small. the point being there is no idea size because vagina ranges as much as dick does..so its soo naive and or macho to say that women want big dick,
I see the world in shades of grey, it far less narrow of a perspective and not as over generalized. and you are an over thinker. much of what you are saying is based on what if. when you think about you and girls.

Interesting. Every women has their own interpretation on what big is regarding length and girth. I think the point that is being missed it that the average size penis is the most common size 6ish length and 5ish girth give or take. I also believe there is something called too small (which varies) and too big(which also varies). A perfect example was the my wife's second husband was too long but not too thick (not thicker than I am) which make it uncomfortable for extreme penetration. He was one of the huge side of length. Then her first husband whom she borne to children to was average in length but thin in girth where after having kids (even though she had c-sect for both) she really couldn't feel it much. Again varies. Different shape penises as well out there because most penis are not exactly the same in girth on the shaft where many are thicker at the base but then we have those with the baseball bat syndrome as well. \
One of the important things that is missing is what that means in the relationship (not casual sex). Not a whole lot if the relationship is going somewhere. It is the person that is more valuable then the penis attached to him.

[Brandon85 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brandon85]

I don't know where to start on this one...

I am thoroughly convinced that women (as little as I know about them) care much more about the person than the size of their penis. Of course, there are going to be women who desire a large one. Just as I have friends who will only go out with a girl if she has natural D's. But the majority of my guy friends are with the woman they are with for the complete package.

So, I am going to 'assume' that most women are with the men they are with for the man that they are.

We as human beings all have 'preferences' but that does not necessarily translate into what one wants in reality. I have a few lonely, very lonely guy friends who has yet to have a serious relationship because no girl fits all the criteria on their 'list' perfectly. So, they go out with a girl on one or two dates and then never asks them out again. Why? Because the girl didn't meet their 'list'.

It is my opinion that it would be a 'no'.

My friends dont have relationships because they are scared of rejection. It is easier for them to find fault and flaws in the other person faster than the other person, so they can dump them first to avoid rejection.

So, to stay on topic:

I believe that it isn't about having a big enough shlong that makes one fear dating, sex etc etc etc. It really is the person's own inner insecurities that cripples them from being in one. The excuses make it more palatable and reasonable.

If there is an anology to this. Then here is one. Most of my friends are pretty buff. They work out much more than I do and have pretty cut bodies. A lot of them are wanting to be MMA fighters. Which, by the way are awesome friends to have. It is like being in a group of pitbulls. People just leave you alone!

Oh, back onto topic...

If girls were totally into ripped bodies. I would be left in the dust. I would never be noticed.

Yet, I get so much attention from women that I don't notice it most of the time anymore. It has faded into the background. I have no desire to hook up with random strangers for sex. Nor have I ever cared about bedding the most women I can possible.

For me, if a girl overlooks me for an 8" dick. Good. She is definitely not a girl I want to be with.

I prefer deep trusting relationships any day over random sex. And that is the beauty of a free society. We can choose what we want.

After being on here for a while now, I continue to read about how men NEED a big one to please their women. The original reason I came on this board was to be bigger because my girlfriend told me that she loved my size. She is the only one to ever mention my size btw. So, I thought that bigger was better. Nope. I was wrong. She loves my cock the way it is. In fact, she would not want it to get bigger despite me telling her I can get bigger if she would like.

I think a bigger cock is a great confidence booster. I can totally relate to that as I always thought I was at best average until my girl told me how much she liked...no. LOVES my cock. Whether it is true or not is pretty much irrelevant. As long as I know and feel that she loves and desires me.

But when I ask her what she would like for her birthday. Her answer always is: Me!!!

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Mmm Penis Palace

My strategy if I were with a woman who was previously seeing a larger guy would be to quite simply ROCK her friggin world. I was with a girl once who suggested I was on the small side, so I gave her six orgasms in a row and drove her half way to madness. Just use skillz bro

Girls like guys with skills

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[Thrill Drill Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thrill Drill]

I conclude that 8.5"-9" in length and 7" in girth is the ultimate size to be able to fill most women. Not to say you can't fuck the shit out of a woman and get her cumming hard with a 6.5"x5.5". But as in ultimate size, I am think 9x7 wins.

LOL! No no no no Do you have ANY idea how big 7 inch girth is? Forget about pounding away at her, you may not even be able to get it in, and if you do, 95%+ of the time she'll be in pain unless you go super slow. 6 inch girth is massive, it's big enough to fill her up and fuck as fast as you want. If you want a little more, 6.25 or so is good, I l know a guy in real life with 6.5 who says he wishes that he was just a little less thick because women complain all the time about it being too much, it leaves them sore and they don't want to do it again.

And 9 inch length may be nice to look at, but if the perfect penis is one that completely fills you up, then 9 inches is not needed. A lot of women can't even completely take 7 inches, 9 is too much, you'd never get it all the way in. It's fine if you don't mind leaving a bit out, but for those guys that like to go balls deep, 7 is probably the best goal. 8 inches is popular around here, but it's mainly for ego.

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Girls like guys with skills

like...nunchuck skills. Bo staff skills.

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like...nunchuck skills. Bo staff skills.

Pole vaulting

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

LOL! No no no no Do you have ANY idea how big 7 inch girth is? Forget about pounding away at her, you may not even be able to get it in, and if you do, 95%+ of the time she'll be in pain unless you go super slow. 6 inch girth is massive, it's big enough to fill her up and fuck as fast as you want. If you want a little more, 6.25 or so is good, I l know a guy in real life with 6.5 who says he wishes that he was just a little less thick because women complain all the time about it being too much, it leaves them sore and they don't want to do it again.

And 9 inch length may be nice to look at, but if the perfect penis is one that completely fills you up, then 9 inches is not needed. A lot of women can't even completely take 7 inches, 9 is too much, you'd never get it all the way in. It's fine if you don't mind leaving a bit out, but for those guys that like to go balls deep, 7 is probably the best goal. 8 inches is popular around here, but it's mainly for ego.

Ya I do have an idea how 7 inch girth is. When I was pumping, the largest measured girth I had after a workout was 7.25". Still seemed kinda small to me after I got used to it. I'm pretty sure the girls I've been with could have taken it easily, but I can't say 100% as I never used it on a woman at this size. I stopped pumping though to work length, because I am not happy with my length, and even seeing the 7 inch after workout girth on my short length just looked stupid and useless to me. I think it's a good girth though, especially for an experienced woman

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7in girth is the same size as my wrist. For a dick its huge. Hmm I must ask my friend who was born with undeveloped palm does he fists, erm... wrists his girlfriend.

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Ya I do have an idea how 7 inch girth is. When I was pumping, the largest measured girth I had after a workout was 7.25". Still seemed kinda small to me after I got used to it. I'm pretty sure the girls I've been with could have taken it easily, but I can't say 100% as I never used it on a woman at this size. I stopped pumping though to work length, because I am not happy with my length, and even seeing the 7 inch after workout girth on my short length just looked stupid and useless to me. I think it's a good girth though, especially for an experienced woman

If you can get yourself up to 7.25 inch girth than you're thicker than 99% of guys out there lol. Can you wrap your fingers around it?

[MikeShlort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MikeShlort]

If you can get yourself up to 7.25 inch girth than you're thicker than 99% of guys out there lol. Can you wrap your fingers around it?

If I gripped lightly, without squeezing to make them touch, my thumb and middle finger would not touch. A couple mm away from touching. It's about the circumference of my wrist, but I have very skinny wrists. Many girls have the same size or bigger wrists than me.
I think with an extra 1.2" of length or so, it would be very useful.

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BTW I am only 5.75" girth normally.