Best Way to Achieve Female Orgasm

[DryJelq Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DryJelq]

Make sure you've got her going before you fuck her. And when she says, fuck me now. You listen to her.

A few days ago I was with this girl. After a couple minutes of playing with her clit and g-spot rather vigorously. She told me to stop and start fucking her immediately. I pushed my fingers deeper and found that the very back of her vagina was hard as a rock. After about a minute or two of fucking her, she reached orgasm.

Conclusion: Once you get the clit nice and hard, play with the g-spot. Once you get her g-spot going, the deep spots will get more sensitive.

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When you are fucking her, make sure you are stimulating all 3 zones at the same time. Try to hit the cul-de-sac at the back of her pussy. Keep some pressure on her g-spot. And then either play with her clit, have her play with her clit, or use your pubic bone to stimulate it. Grinding it or pounding it works pretty well for the latter.

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If she reaches orgasm, stop stimulation until she's almost done, then go at it again. If you time it right there's a good chance you can give her another one.

[Betterman Member Find all posts View Profile Close Betterman]

Foreplay until she is frothy and the vagina has swelled. Also, she will have a glossy drunken with desire in her eyes. Her pussy if you cup your hand over it, nibbles at your palm, like horselips eating oats from your hand. LOL

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Sheer poetry, Betterman!! I love it. Are you from Texas, by the way?

[coldgarb Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close coldgarb]

My 2 cents here :-

1. Mix up things - if you go for the same "grope breasts - lick pussy - fuck hard routine" , it will bore her after a while , so mix up and keep it less predictable

2. Eat lots of mints before giving her oral. The mint stimulates her clit

3. Ever had sex in a room full of mirrors . Its exciting . Also try videofilming while in the act. its a huge turnon

4. Try on some different music while doing it

[skywalker Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close skywalker]

oral is the best way

[Gspot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gspot]

Both Oral and Intercourse lead to great orgasms. By far the best sexual experiences I have had fit a fundamental model that is easily flexible and fits most situations:
1-Go slow, on a date, flirt, touch lightly, build a strong anticipation. She is on her way to climax before you ever pick her up just thinking about what you are going to do to her. Don't move to intercourse too fast, enjoy touching, kissing, and eating her--indulge, you are eating pussy, you should love it and need to be torn away from between her legs!
2-Sex starts with the first touch, when she opens the door, you embrass and kiss her, you are initiating intercouse that will not end for hours later. Keep this in mind the entire time you are together without being creepy, needly, or overly agressive (depends on woman/relationship). Your attitude is, "I want her and I to be aroused all night!" Release/cumming for the you is your last prioroity while her enjoyment (not just her orgasms) is your first priority.
3-Bring her to orgasm with your mouth/finger first. After allot of makingout, touching, etc., go for a long oral session that has her cumming once or more times. This depends as some women are not multiorgasmic. However, many who are do not know they are multiorgasmic (just like many women do not know about their Gspot), they just need to be treated right. If she orgasms before intercourse, the sex is going to be more exciting, and when/if she oragasms again during intercourse (possibly many times), it will likely be more intense.
4-After she has cum and is begging for your cock, give it to her! Switch positions often and don't be afraid to stop and go back to oral (both on her and BJ) during intercourse. This way, you last longer, she gets even more excited, etc. Also, if she is on the brink of cumming but cannot go over the top, returning to oral can often send her over the edge.

Following the above progression, I have been with women who came between one to 10 times but all enjoyed themselves, and so did I!! But you should not, of course, obsess and stress about giving her an orgasm. Sometimes sex is great without her having one, just like edging is for men. So, making her orgasm with oral first before intercourse will be a great night most of the time! Every woman is unique so this is just my general suggestion, as coldgarb writes above "mix it up" (women get more excited if you can surprise them on occasion) and feel free to change when/where needed.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Good advice, G-spot. It all sounds right to me.

[Gspot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gspot]

I've heard of those but never experienced one. I don't think my breasts are wired that way. However, I did recently discover that when my man bites my nipples (rather than just licking or sucking them) it sends a jolt of lust straight to my pussy.

I have experienced the hightened arousal from biting (not breast orgasms--I would have to marry a woman like that!) with most women I have been with the past few years. Biting (GENTLY or VERY GENTLY in some areas) all over her body works, physically and pschologically, especially: breasts (as mentioned), upper lip, neck, ears, high inner thigh/groin, butt cheeks, and, one not many people know about, the lower back. Orgasms start (for both sexes) at the base of the spine and giving the lower back allot of attention is simultaniously relaxing and arousing.

A girl I dated a couple years ago told me that when I would talk to her in bed after sex (after she had one or more orgasms) that the sound of my voice made her lower back tickle. She even kicked me out of bed a couple times when I would not stop whispering in her ear while rubbed her breasts, legs, back, or pussy. But I tend to over do things.

[SwedGuy Member Find all posts View Profile Close SwedGuy]

Took some time before I digged through this thread and it is really a great one. Not much to add but for one thing that my lady likes. Being naked on the bed, her hands tied up above her head and blind-folded. Then I go gently of course, touching her everywhere, really taking the time with her (fingers, tongue, toys, dick). As she cannot see and is almost helpless, she a) becomes extremely aroused b) becomes much more sensitive for touches.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

Most women do not cum with just intercourse. Many a man has been upset by this as they see their cocks as a magic wand. Many a man has blamed it on the woman saying there was something wrong with her. Yes, most women reach orgasm through oral sex. One who does not is me. Oral sex feels fantastic but I do not cum. Fingers will bring me to orgasm on my clit without penetration. I can have clitoral orgasms during penetration if I or my partner manually stimulates the area. For 42 years I only had clitoral orgasms. Only in this last year did I experience g spot orgasms and female ejaculation.

[Tylerdurden46 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tylerdurden46]

My girlf is lucky enough to cum from all forms of stimulation - oral, digital, clitoral, anal and vaginal. However, she prefers vaginal orgasms. She cums between 3 - 10 times, usually. She also sometimes experiences a state where she feels she is continually at the point of orgasm over her entire body. She tells me that those type of orgasms actually frighten her because of their intensity.

What's amazing for me, as well, is that the other day, she told me that I'm the only guy who has given her orgasms from fucking, and that she'd never experienced that "whole body" climax beforehand either.

[redbear52 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close redbear52]

One prior lover I had (of about 16) orgasmed much more reliably from vaginal intercourse. In fact, she wasn't interested in direct clitoral stimulation (either digital or oral) and she told me she didn't like masturbation.

Two others came equally easily from vaginal intercourse (without direct clitoral stimulation) as they did from oral or digital stimulation of the clitoris. They had more orgasms vaginally, since they would be willing to have more than one that way, whereas when they came from cunnilingus they usually wanted to move ahead to vaginal sex as their clits became too sensitive.

All the rest either didn't come from vaginal intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation, or did so irregularly or infrequently, whereas they all generally had orgasms pretty easily with cunnilingus.

[Tylerdurden46 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Tylerdurden46]

My girlf is lucky enough to cum from all forms of stimulation - oral, digital, clitoral, anal and vaginal. However, she prefers vaginal orgasms. She cums between 3 - 10 times, usually. She also sometimes experiences a state where she feels she is continually at the point of orgasm over her entire body. She tells me that those type of orgasms actually frighten her because of their intensity.

What's amazing for me, as well, is that the other day, she told me that I'm the only guy who has given her orgasms from fucking, and that she'd never experienced that "whole body" climax beforehand either. Btw, she told me all this completely out of the blue and in a fairly matter of fact way, so i don't think she said it to stroke my ego.

[mistydawn Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mistydawn]

I have experienced the hightened arousal from biting (not breast orgasms--I would have to marry a woman like that!) with most women I have been with the past few years. Biting (GENTLY or VERY GENTLY in some areas) all over her body works, physically and pschologically, especially: breasts (as mentioned), upper lip, neck, ears, high inner thigh/groin, butt cheeks, and, one not many people know about, the lower back. Orgasms start (for both sexes) at the base of the spine and giving the lower back allot of attention is simultaniously relaxing and arousing.

A girl I dated a couple years ago told me that when I would talk to her in bed after sex (after she had one or more orgasms) that the sound of my voice made her lower back tickle. She even kicked me out of bed a couple times when I would not stop whispering in her ear while rubbed her breasts, legs, back, or pussy. But I tend to over do things.

Bites arouse me greatly anywhere on my body. Whisper in my ear during sex and I become jelly (and won over). These things do not bring on orgasms. Just bring up arousal level bigtime.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Bites arouse me greatly anywhere on my body. Whisper in my ear during sex and I become jelly (and won over). These things do not bring on orgasms. Just bring up arousal level bigtime.

Yes, yes, absolutely!
I respond particularly strongly when he is on my back, whispering in my ear and biting the back of my neck. Oooooooooh......