Edging 101

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Hey everyone I have this problem, i hope you can give me some advice.
I always edge for maybe 10 minutes after my routine, after I get done with jelquing I do few kegels and then i edge. I consider it kind of warmdown ,so I dont warm my penis down afterwards as long as before. But the thing is, when I edge everything feels alright, but when I get done after couple of minutes I start to feel slight pain in the area above my penis, I dont know if its the prostate or what. But it hurts a little and my testicles become also more tense and also hurt a little bit when I hold them. I just feel some sort of tension and little pain all around my penis. Last time I was able to endure it for maybe 2 hours but I decided to edge again then and ejaculate and it helped. But I dont want to do this too often as I heard excesive masturbation can hinder gains. But what should I do then? People say that edging helps gains a lot, but ejaculating not. But after edging, I always have that terrible feeling as I described above. So what should I do in your opinion?

Sounds like it could be tension in the BC muscle from the edging. Try front reverse kegels and massaging the area.

[Zabel Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zabel]

I get that problem sometimes, mainly after sex, and I'm quite sure it happens (at least to me) because of having an erection for a relatively long period of time (as ThirdArm says, it seems "you just have pent up tension"). If I jelq, masturbate, receive oral or have sex forcing my penis a bit down (I have no upward curve, but I get a roof-pointing erection), I feel that small pain. My solution is massaging for a while, gently touching the BC zone for some minutes.

[bknc2012 Member Find all posts View Profile Close bknc2012]

So I tried edging for the first time, last night. I didn't get to the ideal 30 minutes, but that gives me something to shoot for. What I wanted to know is when you get past the PONR, do you you kegel or reverse kegel in order not to ejaculate? I searched in the thread, I have seen people saying both and I am looking for some clarity. Thanks.

[jcarrier Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcarrier]

I'm thinking of buying an STU Fleshlight to edge, as I need to condition myself to last longer. However, i'm worried because i want to maximize gains from PE and considering for sure that at least in the beginning i won't be able to hold back and not go past ponr with the fleshlight, that cumming frequently may hinder or stop my gains - despite this yet being sort of a non consensus around here. Do you guys think i should wait to initiate edging with a fleshlight and such a training till after I've gained with PE? or really doesn't matter if i end up going overboard a lot in the beginning with the fleshlight? thanks

[The Next Big Thing Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close The Next Big Thing]

Thank you a lot!

[ThirdArm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThirdArm]

If you want it, use it jcarrier. If it creates a more pleasurable and satisfying masturbation session, you'll probably find it easier to moderate your masturbation versus using your hand and not really enjoying it. See what I mean? This way you can make your masturbation time both pleasurable and useful (building stamina).

Plus, the acutual ejaculation is only a problem if it interferes with your PE session, in my view.

[jcarrier Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcarrier]

If you want it, use it jcarrier. If it creates a more pleasurable and satisfying masturbation session, you'll probably find it easier to moderate your masturbation versus using your hand and not really enjoying it. See what I mean? This way you can make your masturbation time both pleasurable and useful (building stamina).

Plus, the acutual ejaculation is only a problem if it interferes with your PE session, in my view.

3rd, in the last sentence, do you mean that I should not edge or masturbate right after the PE session, but rather do it a few hours apart? Don't you believe this device can in fact help build stamina in real sex? Thanks

[ThirdArm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThirdArm]

Nah, the other way around actually. It will interfere with PE if you do it right beforehand and then can't maintain a half chub to jelq with. Afterwards, I see no problem.

I've never used one, but I bet it could have some carry-over in terms of stamina. Just make sure that you actually strengthen your kegels and rk's and work on disciplining yourself when you get close to PONR. Don't use the device as an excuse to masturbate excessively. I only caution you because delayed ejaculation can happen from excessive masturbation (especially if it's done roughly with your hand, something a device should prevent). Anyway, stamina is not the same as desensitization. But now I'm rambling. Short answer: It's fine. Use it in moderation and avoid using it a few hours prior to PE. Other than that it should be fine, jcarrier.

[jcarrier Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jcarrier]

Nah, the other way around actually. It will interfere with PE if you do it right beforehand and then can't maintain a half chub to jelq with. Afterwards, I see no problem.

Short answer: It's fine. Use it in moderation and avoid using it a few hours prior to PE. Other than that it should be fine, jcarrier.

Cool. I will do it then.

[ThirdArm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThirdArm]

Nice. Let us know how you enjoy it after a few tries with it. Someone recommended it to me once, but I didn't buy it.

[Girth5 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Girth5]

OK so, if I finish my 15 mintunes of edging but I haven't ejaculate as yet, should I finish the sensation by blowing my load.
OR
Is it safe to just stop and continue the next time.

[akai87 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close akai87]

Edging can cause size increase nothing to worry about . While edging is well tolerated in isolation stay within your condition level, so a sudden increase from 5 min to 1 hr is not recommended.

How does edging increase size?

If edging increases size, does just normal masturbation increase size as well? What's the difference - is it due to stroking the penis for longer?

[tjuven77 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tjuven77]

Hi guys wonder if anyone could help me with an dilemma.

I am astonished by the effects of Edging on my EQ though it has went from a 6/7 to a solid 9.
The problem is that I only get this 9 after a few minutes of edging, do anyone know if I will get the EQ boost on normal erections after a while or if I need to change something in order to get an EQ of 9 on ordinary erections?

ps. I've only been edging about six times,

Thank you, peace

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

If you want it, use it jcarrier. If it creates a more pleasurable and satisfying masturbation session, you'll probably find it easier to moderate your masturbation versus using your hand and not really enjoying it. See what I mean? This way you can make your masturbation time both pleasurable and useful (building stamina).

Plus, the acutual ejaculation is only a problem if it interferes with your PE session, in my view.

Right on, this is the ultimate goal of edging

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Your EQ will improve ads you practice. Often as you penis is growing from PE you may expeience fluctuating EQ.