is 7" really above average?

[GettingOverIt Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GettingOverIt]

Bro, my ex-wife would cum multiple times during sex, but still fucked with my head about size. She's the source of my performance anxiety, too, because she'd always act so disappointed that I wasn't fully hard as soon a my pants dropped.

I thought very often about doing the same shit right back to her, but I'm not a vindictive narcissist, so I took the high road. It led to me dreading sex with her altogether, so I'd avoid it, and that was used as an excuse for her cheating.

If you do what you're thinking about doing, you're just loading a gun and handing it to her. Believe me, women are "emotionally intelligent" and she knows exactly what she's doing. My advice would be to get out now and let her go find someone else to mindfuck.

Agree with the emotionally intelligent comment. Definitely possible. I noticed that for some reason it's only this subject that my wife can really mind eff me. Everything else she's highly intimidated by me... like she knows that I'm pretty sharp about things. But somehow on this she's has this way of confusing the eff out of me. Because it's the only thing that I can't actually prove or straight call BS on.

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

Agree with the emotionally intelligent comment. Definitely possible. I noticed that for some reason it's only this subject that my wife can really mind eff me. Everything else she's highly intimidated by me... like she knows that I'm pretty sharp about things. But somehow on this she's has this way of confusing the eff out of me. Because it's the only thing that I can't actually prove or straight call BS on.

Which also has to make you wonder...
And aren't her claims of being able to PIV orgasm with her ex somewhat dubious even?

[BundleUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BundleUp]

Agree with the emotionally intelligent comment. Definitely possible. I noticed that for some reason it's only this subject that my wife can really mind eff me. Everything else she's highly intimidated by me... like she knows that I'm pretty sharp about things. But somehow on this she's has this way of confusing the eff out of me. Because it's the only thing that I can't actually prove or straight call BS on.

That makes it even more of a possibility. When you get down to brass tacks, most human behavior can be boiled down to an attempt at gaining superiority or establishing dominance. If that's all she's got, that's what she's gonna use.

If it were me, I'd sit her down and say "look, you've made it obvious that I'm not good enough for you. I get it, and I want you to be happy and satisfied in all ways. So I think you should go find someone who can satisfy you, and I'll find someone who appreciates me" and then I'd go for a drive and let her stew. Part of your problem here is that you're letting her get away with it. Demand better and let her know that you'll either be treated better by her or by someone else.

[Thedorkykid Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thedorkykid]

Are these measurements bone pressed?

[Thedorkykid Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Thedorkykid]

Thatd from /bigdickproblems
Imo if fairly accurate

Length
metric imperial percentile classification
<8.1 cm <3.2 inches <0.02% micropenis
8.1-9.8 cm 3.2-3.9 inches 0.02%-0.6% very small
9.8-11.5 cm 3.9-4.5 inches 0.6-7% small
11.5-13.2 cm 4.5-5.2 inches 7-30% below average
13.2-15.0 cm 5.2-5.9 inches 30-70% average
15.0-16.7 cm 5.9-6.6 inches 70-93% above average
16.7-18.4 cm 6.6-7.3 inches 93-99.4% big
18.4-20.2 cm 7.3-7.9 inches 99.4-99.98% huge
20.2-21.9 cm 7.9-8.6 inches 99.98%-99.999% enormous
>21.9 cm >8.6 inches >99.999% truly massive

Are these measurements bone pressed?

[VIIby5 Member Find all posts View Profile Close VIIby5]

Are these measurements bone pressed?

I think they are supposed to be, but pretty hard to believe huh? I hope it is BP but NBP aligns much better with my perception at least.

Anyone here 5.5" NBP? Lets assume you have a 1.1" fat pad. Do you feel you are above average or big?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I think they are supposed to be, but pretty hard to believe huh? I hope it is BP but NBP aligns much better with my perception at least.

Anyone here 5.5" NBP? Lets assume you have a 1.1" fat pad. Do you feel you are above average or big?

Lots of guys onsite with over average dicks do not feel big thus they come onsite.

[Hailtotheburrito Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hailtotheburrito]

There was a study where women got to hold blue dicks of different thickness and sizes. They chose 6.5 as the size they liked. Since they were holding these things and not seeing them on real people we can assume they would represent the NBP. Therefore assuming that most of us have about an inch of fat pad the target to satisfy women by their standards and experience would be 7.5 bone pressed. If you want to be one of the biggest they have ever had or on the larger side go bigger. I personally am shooting for 8 inches or so bone pressed. Maybe a little above to account for cementing and such.

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There was a study where women got to hold blue dicks of different thickness and sizes. They chose 6.5 as the size they liked. Since they were holding these things and not seeing them on real people we can assume they would represent the NBP. Therefore assuming that most of us have about an inch of fat pad the target to satisfy women by their standards and experience would be 7.5 bone pressed. If you want to be one of the biggest they have ever had or on the larger side go bigger. I personally am shooting for 8 inches or so bone pressed. Maybe a little above to account for cementing and such.

Why would we assume nbpel? Seems foolish to me,

[Alwaysbbetter Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Alwaysbbetter]

Are 36 Cs above average?

[CBateman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CBateman]

Why would we assume nbpel? Seems foolish to me,

Because the woman saw 6.5 inches of blue dick visually. Meaning, we are addressing the NPBEL.
If you theoretically had 6 inches NBPEL and 8 inches BPEL because of a huge fat pad, a woman wouldn't call you big.
They judge primarily visually and with their hands etc.
I mostly agree btw, Hailtotheburrito. My own thinking is 7 inches NBPEL is ideal. Very big statistically yet you won't have any problems in terms of length in 99% of cases.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

You'll be among the select few but there will be few bigger also. Just statistics.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Are 36 Cs above average?

Depends where in the world . A C cup is average in some places and not others .

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Because the woman saw 6.5 inches of blue dick visually. Meaning, we are addressing the NPBEL.
If you theoretically had 6 inches NBPEL and 8 inches BPEL because of a huge fat pad, a woman wouldn't call you big.
They judge primarily visually and with their hands etc.
I mostly agree btw, Hailtotheburrito. My own thinking is 7 inches NBPEL is ideal. Very big statistically yet you won't have any problems in terms of length in 99% of cases.

No plain wrong . Previous studies had relied on visual this one did not; the girls got to actually get hold of the object and feel it . So your whole visual premise is plain wrong . Girls are usually not as visual as men .

[CBateman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CBateman]

No plain wrong . Previous studies had relied on visual this one did not; the girls got to actually get hold of the object and feel it . So your whole visual premise is plain wrong . Girls are usually not as visual as men .

So if a woman has a penis in her hand e.g., does she actively try to compress the fat pad to reach the full length?
When you pull your pants down, the first estimation she will make of the size is completely visual. Then, she may have it in her mouth and hand but will most likely also only use the NBPEL. MAYBE for sex this is different, but then the estimation of size has already been established to a large degree. First visual impression is what counts and this has an anchoring effect of how the size will be perceived from then on.

While we don't want to encourage the gigalomaniac in this forum, I also think it is foolish to assume a too low estimation of perfect size.
Keep in mind, perfect is defined as being seen as most desirable by the biggest percentage of women.
Some will think 6NBPEL is perfect, more will think 6.5 NBPEL and IMO most 7 NBPEL. 7.5 already less women than 7 etc.

Just anecdotal, but I also want to stress I started with exactly your perfect size or very close: 6.57BPEL x 5.5 girth in the middle (very homogenic girth distribution). And I received some, but very few compliments of being the perfect size. I will gladly provide more evidence when I have gained another inch and tell you if the percentage of compliments if higher at 7.57 BPEL.