Adios pe log

[RalphPhoLauren Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RalphPhoLauren]

What has your routine been when combating pre E, and what do you think has helped you the most?

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

I never do kegel or rk. All i been doing is dry ballooning and wet edging for about 20 mins per session with porn. I try and keep the stimulation going for the entire time even if that means i just touch the base of the penis. And i have been doing it with tighter grip. Hopefully it keeps improving

[snakers99 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close snakers99]

when you say dry ballooning, are you just rubbing your penis head the for 20 min straight?

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

My head is never the problem so i dont deal with it. Its the underside of my penis but yes the mthod is the same regardless of the area. I rub it dry

[adios01 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close adios01]

Received fleshlight today and decided to give it a go. I didnt even think about edging with it, i just started thrusting it. It didnt feel as good as i expected (maybe the media hyped me up) but it was still good rather than moving my hand up and down. I was gettig close to ponr but it was slow process rather than jumping from 0-10. Then i slowed down rather than stopping completely and the urge was gone. After that it was so hard to cum and i had to edge and thrust to see which would get me off and i came with thrusting at 14 mins mark. I kind of realised my pe problem has got to do with arousal. I think the visual arousal gets me off so quick hence porn was destroying me for years. I havent watched porn for about a few days. Is it something that can be reversed?.i mean its good to use fleshlight because if i cant easily cum with thrusting it, then i think sex is 'boring' so it will make me last longer in the long run hopefully.

[greentea05 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close greentea05]

Received fleshlight today and decided to give it a go. I didnt even think about edging with it, i just started thrusting it. It didnt feel as good as i expected (maybe the media hyped me up) but it was still good rather than moving my hand up and down. I was gettig close to ponr but it was slow process rather than jumping from 0-10. Then i slowed down rather than stopping completely and the urge was gone. After that it was so hard to cum and i had to edge and thrust to see which would get me off and i came with thrusting at 14 mins mark. I kind of realised my pe problem has got to do with arousal. I think the visual arousal gets me off so quick hence porn was destroying me for years. I havent watched porn for about a few days. Is it something that can be reversed?.i mean its good to use fleshlight because if i cant easily cum with thrusting it, then i think sex is 'boring' so it will make me last longer in the long run hopefully.

(p.s. not being arsey, but try to break your stuff up in to paragraphs its difficult on the eyes to read a solid block of text )

I took a few years back bought the training Fleshlight. I think i've had it three years now and used it about 6 times. Don't think it feels too good - in fact at times it hurts as it can be a bit too much sensation for the penis...especially when you've just cum in it...NOTHING like a vagina.

I don't think it can be compared to sex though. I'm not really an advocate for "don't watch porn its making you cum quickly" - on the contrary I think porn is emulating the arousal state I have with a woman. If I can last during porn, I can last even easier with a woman (porn can be the set up to be the perfect visual and mental stimulation and you can touch yourself in exactly the right areas....sex isn't like this, sex is often awkward with some people or they're not very good at turning you on and the stimulation is never as direct).

Also, without porn or some kind of arrousal, unless I catch myself with a morning hard or something i've got nothing to put into the fleshlight anyway. I'm not so easily aroused I can just create a hard penis - and neither are any men. Its very easy to touch yourself with no stimulation and last all day - but thats not sex is it, when you've got massive pair of tits, a gorgeous arse in your hand and a girl telling you how much you're turning you, how close she is to cumming whilst you've got a cock in her arse and a vibrator up her pussy and she needs you to fuck her harder NOW....its not quite comparable to relaxing, taking a deep breath and rubbing a part of your penis in the middle of the day with no other stimulation.

To be honest even porn struggles to get me hard like a woman does. Within seconds of being intimate with a woman i'll have a strong 8 inch erection. On my own, with porn...it probably peaks at 7 inch and is never fully erect whilst masturbating. Its a sort of arousal but not really. Its the psychological part of sex. Although without that at all, I don't have a high enough sex drive to get hard with my own imagination (and the odd times I have, its only basically like watching a porno in my head where I think of the utter filthiest sex i've had with women in the past!)