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Friday, September 28

Warm up > 3 Flaccid Bends > 2 Erect Bends > 320 s2s > 60 towel raises > 3 minutes edging > warn down

Sunday, September 30

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect beds > 330 s2s > 50 towel raises > warm down

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lol, I was looking at my post and I seriously questioned my sanity for a second. Didn't realize you're a mod.

I might have went overboard in generalizing in the heat of typing. PM it is.

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Sunday, September 30

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect beds > 330 s2s > 50 towel raises > warm down

Monday, October 1

Testicle massage

Tuesday, October 2

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 340 s2s > 80 mins traction wrap+warm down

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Tuesday, October 2

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 340 s2s > 80 mins traction wrap+warm down

Thursday, October 4

Testicle massage
Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 360 s2s > 50 towel raises > Warm down

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Thursday, October 4

Testicle massage
Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 360 s2s > 50 towel raises > Warm down

Saturday, October 6

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 380 s2s > Warm down

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Saturday, October 6

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 380 s2s > Warm down

Tuesday, October 9

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 400 s2s > warm down
testicle massage
50 towel raises

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Tuesday, October 9

Warm up > 3 flaccid bends > 2 erect bends > 400 s2s > warm down
testicle massage
50 towel raises

Thursday, October 11

warm up > 3 flaccid bends, 2 erect bends > 420 s2s > 50 towel raises > warm down
testicle massage

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There have been a few posts lately about divorce, cheating wives and the like, which is why I'm posting this here. I don't want to start a huge debate over it, I'm merely sharing my thoughts about my experiences and relating them to what I see a the PEG.


I started working for this one call center a few weeks ago. It's not the world's greatest job and I've already given my resignation for some place else.
In my training class, there was this girl named Zoe who really caught my eye. She had this punk rock alternative thing going on with her snakebite piercings and wore a devilish smile on her lips. Her pitch black hair bobbed just above her shoulders as she walked in late.
She was told to sit next to me so that I could show her what was going on and from there we became quick friends. She loved to talk, we teased each other and started this little competition about who could take the most surveys that day. I won.

She kept coming over to talk to me. We would make strong eye contact, even when we weren't talking. We would just hold one another's eyes with our own. At first I thought, she wants me. Then she told me that she was engaged. I was very surprised. She told me she was 19 and had been with the same guy for the last 5 years. So in my mind, I discounted her as anything potential from growing between us and put her in the friendzone.

Except, she did want me. She gave me all the signs. She was incredibly flirtatious with me. She kept calling me evil, kept calling me a bad boy. She would punch me when I teased her. When I flirted with other girls in front of her, she got jealous.

I'm not the kind of guy to make others live by any certain standard of life. If you're cheating on your fiance with me, I don't see that as my problem, but rather her problem. She's the one in the relationship. If she wanted to foster that commitment, she would have.

We spoke about her leaving her fiance today because she's unhappy with him. She wrote a list of pros and cons regarding her current partner to determine whether she should stay or leave. I want you to read it so that you can understand my point of view. Here it is, almost word for word as she wrote it:

PROS:
-he sometimes surprises me by cleaning or making dinner.
-he buys me things we both like and use
-he is funny and can make me laugh
-he tries to like the things I like (her snakes - he hates snakes but is making an effort)
-he's smart and educated
-he's good looking
^That all took me 5 minutes (to come up with)

Toadstool, I found the cons flew out easily but I can't think of any pros

CONS:
-he expects everything to be done for him
-he holds me back from what I want in life
-he is very irresponsible with money
-he doesn't understand me
-he tends to make me the punchline of the joke
-he is a bad listener
-he doesn't listen to how I feel
-he makes me feel bad about myself
-he has a drinking problem
-he doesn't clean up after himself
-he can't take responsibility for his actions and blames me for all
-he calls me names
-he doesn't respect my requests or how I feel
-he is insecure
-he yells and gets verbally aggressive quite often
-I cannot talk to guys
-daddy hates him
-as well as my mom
-I feel sexually/physically inadequate
-he can be physically aggressive
-he makes me feel stupid
-sex is like a chore
-he doesn't trust me

PROS (For toadstool)
-listens to how I feel
-cares about how I feel/think
-makes me smile and laugh
-sees my potential
-loves snakes and myloe
-gives me butterflies and makes me feel like the only girl in the world
-makes me happy to be around him
>This took me 30 seconds

I'm not patting myself on the back for my extraordinary game, so don't take me the wrong way. I fully believe that what she feels for me might very well be a fleeting emotion as a result of something shifting inside of her. Maybe her subconscious is pushing her to break up with her fiance and is highlighting any guy who is good to her. Or hey, maybe she does actually see me with long-term potential. Who knows
What I do want to do is illustrate how a person can go from 5 years of relationship and "throw it all away" for another guy. One thing I read here at the PEG is how wounded a man becomes as a result of cheating, as though he had no part to play.
Granted, it hurts badly. I think it was Mikes Mrs. who asked, but what is he doing to make her turn to the arms of another man? I think it's ultimately a good question, though not well placed at the time. I don't believe people go into long term relationships and then sleep with someone else for no reason at all. There must be some reason why it happens and you don't have to look any farther than yourself and your actions.
Have you taken her for granted? Are you mean to her? Do you secretly resent her?

Nothing lasts forever. Even mountains weather away. ...unless you do something to keep it protected.

People often take on the innocent role. It's very hard for people to take responsibility for their actions. At work, how often to you hear someone say "Yea, that was my fault?" It's so much easier to point the finger to someone else and dodge any responsibility for the misgivings in your life. Maybe God or the Universe is playing some cosmic, cruel joke on you and you have no part to play in what's happening. Maybe you really are the victim of your own life. What do I know


I'm just glad I've been able to take a back seat this whole time to the relationship thing. I've been able to see that while it can last for a long time, relationships are very delicate. Like a flower. Once they're dying, it's hard to revive them.
I'm sure this guy could do something to win her back. She wants to be with him. But she wants to be happy and he doesn't give that to her. So she has to find it elsewhere.
I'm sure this is a theme played out in most relationships. She has a need that he does no fulfill so she looks to other men to fill it.

If I could give any advice to people, it's to not be together all the time. Take a trip away from her for awhile and do something without her. Have a boys night out, sleep in a different bed, anything.
Then, go back and tell her how much you miss her. No, don't do that. Show it to her. Find any way to spark that desire for her inside of you and build a fire. Make her feel that heat deeply inside her, just like you did when you two first met.
I think making her feel special, making her believe she's special is a powerful way of keeping your woman. That why spontaneous acts of romance are so nice.
Keep her guessing and she'll want to be around you forever.


Zoe wants me to commit to her. Maybe we won't last, maybe we will... but while I'm with her, I can't see other women.
Maybe that's what I'm looking for. I wasn't big into the alternative anyway. What have I got to lose here?

Today I took her by the hand and led her to an empty parking lot. You know the ones with a roof and several floors? There was a gentle drizzle outside and we hurried into the safety of the parking lot, where we talked and made out.

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Here's my plan:

Morning Stretches: Warming up with 12 second stretches in all directions (Up, straight out, down, left, right) and 25 kegels in between. That adds up to 125 kegels. Then I do ten full rotations, where I grip my penis and rotate it 360 degrees, in each direction and 25 kegels in between. This is where I do my set of tunica tugs or 6-8 reps. I perform this only once.
I repeat this whole process twice for a total of about 350 kegels and about 10 - 15 minutes of stretching.

I type this right after a stretch. I measured my flaccid length: 4.5 inches, but it soon turtles to maybe 1.5-2". I know this is a sign of fatigue. But, my dick usually turtles; it's common for me. I'm not exactly sure what to make of it. Throughout the day, i'll notice it fluctuate in length, too.


Then i go on to the actual stretching. It's pretty much the same as the warm up, but without the kegels and I hold the position longer. I do every direction for 30 seconds. This adds up to another 15 minutes or so. I would throw in something else but I don't know any other exercise because they aren't posted.

After I'm finished this, I cool down. My cooldown is basically the warm up. My kegel muscles are pretty tired after.

More than 6 hours later, I'll do my exercises:
Night Routine: I'll warm up (as mentioned above) and then lube myself up. I will do 60 jelqs, then 60 V jelgs. I do 4 sets of this then I do 6 compressions and 4x30-45 second uli jelqs.
I cool down and then I'm done.

Seems like a pretty good routine dude., and I have the same issue with turtling itll shrink up from 6" to about 2" which sucks I heard wrapping it to keep it from turtling so I'm gonna start doing that I'm just taking some time off and next week I'm going to start the jp90..

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She has been with him for 5 years because she hadnt met you yet. He has already lost her. Best of luck. Have you noticed any results from the erect bends yet?

[Nachos87 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nachos87]

She was thinking logically. It's easy to find things to hate on attractive guys, when you're trying your best to justify you leaving him.
I changed the list a bit so it reflects the general sources of attraction. Gray being irrelevant. Dark purple makes an attraction more intense but I don't approve of it.

PROS:
-he sometimes surprises me by cleaning or making dinner.
-he buys me things we both like and use
-he is funny and can make me laugh
-he tries to like the things I like (her snakes - he hates snakes but is making an effort)
-he's smart and educated
-he's good looking

CONS:
-he expects everything to be done for him
-he holds me back from what I want in life
-he is very irresponsible with money
-he doesn't understand me
-he tends to make me the punchline of the joke
-he is a bad listener
-he doesn't listen to how I feel
-he makes me feel bad about myself
-he has a drinking problem
-he doesn't clean up after himself
-he can't take responsibility for his actions and blames me for all
-he calls me names
-he doesn't respect my requests or how I feel
-he is insecure
-he yells and gets verbally aggressive quite often
-I cannot talk to guys
-daddy hates him
-as well as my mom
-I feel sexually/physically inadequate
-he can be physically aggressive
-he makes me feel stupid
-sex is like a chore
-he doesn't trust me

Purple is the exact reason why she stayed with him for 5 years. She's just looking at it logically to find an excuse.
Girls want approval. If she can't get it, she'll stick around untill you approve of her. I think, in this case, she just got a little tired of the chasing game, and she wants some approval finally, before she gets insane. But I think she is definatelly still attracted to him. Which doesn't mean she won't leave him anyways though, for now.

There is proof for this everywhere. I don't watch TV, but I heard recently that Katy Perry was begging some rock casanova on her knees, to take her back. I'm quite certain that it's not because he was buying her stuff, taking her to romantic places and cuddling her all the time. Also, Rhianna and that repper guy etc. I'm sure there are a lot more examples.

I'm just saying this so you're carefull of what you do, or she'll just jump right back to him, right after she gets some approval from you. I think that, the rough idea of what she likes is obvious, according to her list. Why would she stay with him for 5 years if he's that bad?

But you should listen to yourself. I'm just here to give an advice.

EDIT: Just a quick shortened story from my own workplace from yesterday:
There was this girl with her female friend, asking me some stupid question. She was probbably just looking for an excuse to talk with me because that question didn't need an answer. I made her look silly (stupid even) in a playfull way and both of them laughed their asses off. Then, they proceeded to finish the stuff they came here for, but at the end they had this "stupid" question to ask my coleage. I heard this, dropped the stuff I was doing and adjusted my chair to witness the show. The girl I teased, saw me doing this and laughingly said "Don't laugh at us!", I said "Of course not". Question was actually in place, but I proceeded to laugh anyway, because I found her insecurity adorable.

At the end, she came by, and flirtautusly (spell check isn't working) slapped me on the shoulder and said "You're mean! Why are you laughing at us?". I kind of gave her just a bit of attention but remained unimpressed and kind of uninterested. We chatted for 10 minutes, while she flirted more heavily by the moment, and at the end she gave me her number and left, because we couldn't go further... I was on my workplace after all.

This story goes with what I said above it.

EDIT2: Don't worry, I won't spam your thread with this. Unless you want to discuss.

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I'm trying to figure out your routine here...Increasing the s2s stretches by 20 every workout and doing towel raises every other workout? Those along with the bends and warm up/down. and a 1 time traction wrap too?

Are you holding back on edging/masturbation?

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She has been with him for 5 years because she hadnt met you yet. He has already lost her. Best of luck. Have you noticed any results from the erect bends yet?

I've seen an increase in libido. I'm getting erections just from thinking about something that turns me on. That almost *never* happens to me.

I'm trying to figure out your routine here...Increasing the s2s stretches by 20 every workout and doing towel raises every other workout? Those along with the bends and warm up/down. and a 1 time traction wrap too?

Are you holding back on edging/masturbation?

When it comes to the towel raises, I don't have a set pattern. I do them whenever I feel horny enough to stay erect for them.
That traction wrap... heh. I bought TAPE accidentally and tried to use that. But tape is is not safe to use. It was hard to apply and even harder to remove.
Money's a little tight right now, so I'm doing LAS's instead, whenever I get the chance. When I find a proper wrap i'll be doing that more often.

Just like those biker hangs. I keep saying I'm going to do them again, but I'm not consistent with them. Truth is, i don't like the biker hang. I MUCH prefer the LAS, and it's much more effective.

I also don't post every time I do something that counts as edging, like sex or beating it. I'm trying to keep the masturbation down to 2-3 times a week.
I'm trying to work my way up to 10 minutes of edging after the towel raises, but it's difficult. So far I'm at 3

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I quite like the biker hang, although I'm not doing it the way Big Al suggests with a elastic band.
I had 3 yale padlocks in my desk drawer but the loop was a bit too small to fit my penis through but I thought that if I opened it and lock it behind the head that it would fit perfectly and it did.

So what I do now is wrap just behind the glands with a bit of bandage for padding (I learned that lesson after accidentally catching some skin in the padlock when I closed it too fast ) then I lock 1 of the padlocks behind the glands on the padding and looped through that padlock I have a shoelace with the other 2 padlocks attached.

I find that gives a good passive stretch and I wear that for an hour at night. (it's even secure enough that it could take a bit more weight)
It's also not so tight that it cuts of the circulation.

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Hm. Interesting. I used the elastic band and my glans turned blue. That's why I didn't like it. There also wasn't much of a stretch going on.
Unlike the LAS, where I get a big stretch and no blueness.
That's something good to share imac, thank you.