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New questions from El Curious (hee, hee):

Are you offended or flattered if a man opens the door for you?

If so, why?

If not, why?

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For the women here:

Have you ever had an orgasm or close to an orgasm by massage alone? (e.g. being massaged by a professional masseuse)

No, when I get one, my mind is on relaxation mode nothing else.

What meal do you wish he would attempt to cook and what was the most memorable meal he ever presented to you (whether he cooked it or not)?

I love breakfast for dinner and he makes this magnificent strawberry créeme filled crepes from scratch. he is an awesome baker too, so anything that can be baked, he can make it. He also smokes meats all the time and I love prime rib, salmon and veggies smoked. Since he already does so well, there is nothing I can think off that I would like him to make/

What makes a woman really smile?

Normal stuff such as acts of love and kindness.

Why do women make so many disparaging remarks about men's obsession with their own penis?

It seems that women could be more understanding and even relate, when you take into account all the parts of their own bodies that they obsess over.

IE their:

Butts
Boobs
Waist
Hips
Lips
Weight
Eyelashes
Eyebrows
Noses
Toeses
Vagina
Labia
Clitoris
Skin tone
Hair
Teeth
Nails
And basically every other part of their bodies and aspect of their person you could think of.

I am happy with me as I am, so I don't tend to have the usual female body issues. I don't know why women say disparaging remarks about men, there is plent of other stuff where more important than criticizing body image, in my humble opinion.

Do you women ever just get horny for no reason whatsoever? With no visual or physical stimuli, etc.?

24/7 I am not kidding, I am horn dog. Ask the Mr.

New questions from El Curious (hee, hee):

Are you offended or flattered if a man opens the door for you?

If so, why?

If not, why?

I love it, is very Gentlemanly and shows respect. I know a male knows I can open the darn door, I feel privileged when they do, especially when you are in public and strangers do it. I always see it as a sign of culture and education, it was part of manners while growing up.

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While there isn't something that's as physically life threatening as anorexia you can't deny that there can be a big problem with depression, anxiety, social dysfunction etc associated with the kind of body dysmorphia that accompanies that kind of obsession. How many members have there been on here that are depressed or have anxiety to the point of not even wanting to talk to women? How many are having their daily lives affected because of obsessively focusing on ONE ASPECT of their being? I don't know that I'd say that it's that much less common that anorexia.

We certainly see a lot of it here but then it is a dick site .
Of course a lot of it is down to bigger dick ex comments and the like.
If we are talking about social anxiety ,depression yada yada then you are taking in a large % of the female population.

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New questions from El Curious (hee, hee):

Are you offended or flattered if a man opens the door for you?

If so, why?

If not, why?

I am flattered when a man opens a door for me. It tells me he respects me and cares for me as a woman. I love to be treated like a lady.

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girls you suffer menses and child birth we suffer penis anxieties

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

New questions from El Curious (hee, hee):

Are you offended or flattered if a man opens the door for you?

If so, why?

If not, why?

I'll be honest, it doesn't really registered to me. Whoever's ahead should hold/open the door for the person close behind.

I do it all the time and if a man does it, it's just normal.

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Do you women ever just get horny for no reason whatsoever? With no visual or physical stimuli, etc.?

I do, all the time. Sometimes wished I didn't!

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For the women here:

Have you ever had an orgasm or close to an orgasm by massage alone? (e.g. being massaged by a professional masseuse)

I always get turned on from being massaged either by a woman or a man but I've never orgasmed or been close.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

What makes a woman really smile?

Hmmm A cockney with a white sport's car...

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

New questions from El Curious (hee, hee):

Are you offended or flattered if a man opens the door for you?

If so, why?

If not, why?

Like Tara I just find holding the door open for the person behind you to be a matter of courtesy and respect, it doesn't matter to me what the gender (or age) of either person is.

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Heck, I even open the vehicle doors for my wife or daughter if we're out. I've always held doors open for the person behind me if they are close, or if they are elderly. It usually doesn't matter what gender they are, I think it's the courteous thing to do.

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I remember the heyday of militant fem where I got abuse from women if I held the door open.

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Watch any romance movie, or a scene where supposed love making is being performed and even if you are into Porn, you see women wailing in ecstasy, eyes rolled back, howling/moaning like the earth is about to part. Rarely have I encountered this in real life. Do you see these acts as phony and over dramatic as I do? Is it an act that the woman put on to make the man feel better about what he is doing? Thoughts?

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Watch any romance movie, or a scene where supposed love making is being performed and even if you are into Porn, you see women wailing in ecstasy, eyes rolled back, howling/moaning like the earth is about to part. Rarely have I encountered this in real life. Do you see these acts as phony and over dramatic as I do? Is it an act that the woman put on to make the man feel better about what he is doing? Thoughts?

God I hope not. The Mrs isn't loud, but eyes do roll back, her back arches, her mouth falls wide open, like she can't breathe, then exhales hard, with a Gutteral sound, while she contracts on my little guy. And then starts all over again, over and over. Kinda distracting, I mean I love to watch and feel her orgasms, but I'd like to get there Too. Finally on the 4th attempt yesterday I was able to finish, after 3 15 minute fails.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Watch any romance movie, or a scene where supposed love making is being performed and even if you are into Porn, you see women wailing in ecstasy, eyes rolled back, howling/moaning like the earth is about to part. Rarely have I encountered this in real life. Do you see these acts as phony and over dramatic as I do? Is it an act that the woman put on to make the man feel better about what he is doing? Thoughts?

If you are watching it in a movie, even a porn one, then it is almost certainly just (or mostly) acting. The entire point of it is not for the 2 performers to be having a good time, it's for the VIEWER to be enjoying it. They need to make things obvious to the viewer, so it goes over the top. The viewer doesn't have the benefit of the sense of touch, they can't feel her heart racing, or her breath against their skin. They can't see the subtle, involuntary movements. They can't hear the quiet noises she makes. So they have her make exaggerated movements and sounds so they're more apparent to the viewer.

Women do have many of those reactions in real life, but generally to a much lesser, more subtle extent. There are some women that are very loud (like me), some that are very active etc. But I think that in general it's not to the same extent as in a movie - especially porn. Just like performers get into some positions that you know are uncomfortable but they're great for the camera so both try to sell it as much as they can and make it seem like they're having the best time ever.