Losing Your Virginity: the 411

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

I just read this thread start to finish and I have some issues with it.

1. I understand it is suppose to be informative, but why was a thread aimed mentally of virgin males made by a woman, whom I'm willing to bet lost her virginity in her teens and may have never had sex with a virgin. And if she hasn't had sex with a virgin male then her whole little initial posts has zero credibility.

2. There is absolutely stress to losing your virginity as soon as possible, and lets face it, there are a lot of friendly roasting session ahead of you if you are still a virgin in your 20s. and it does get more awkward and more importantly, more difficult to lose, the older you get because you should always disclose that information to someone if "you're able to." It's in human nature, not just female nature, to have a certain opinion about something until he/she experiences it firsthand.

3. Any guys who claims he's saving himself for the right person is either overly religious or pretentious; This is a forum dedicated to improving one's sexual tool, so no one here is so religious that it just has to be the right person. Scenario: In your opinion, the Sexiest woman ever walks up to you and ask for sex, but she has an absolutely stank personality, do you oblige her? I would.

4. Watching or not watching porn will make absolutely zero difference unless you let it. In my experience, Watching has been beneficial.

5. Doing P.E. pretty much trained me for my first time. I was doing 10 second kegels during my edging exercises so I was easily able to stymie ejaculation for as long as I remembered to do so. My first time I last 13 minutes in the 1st round. I clamped regularly so that helped to dull my sensitivity.

Yes it IS a very informative article, written by a professional, aimed at educating the males on this site on the subject, whether you agree with the content or not doesn't give you the right to launch such an attack.

As for your remarks, I suggest you reread the thread again, you seem to have missed the entire point of the whole conversation and let some preconceived ideas rule your judgment.

[JohnnyMinotauro Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JohnnyMinotauro]

Yes it IS a very informative article, written by a professional, aimed at educating the males on this site on the subject, whether you agree with the content or not doesn't give you the right to launch such an attack.

As for your remarks, I suggest you reread the thread again, you seem to have missed the entire point of the whole conversation and let some preconceived ideas rule your judgment.

Quite a few posters disagreed with the OP but because they attacked with humor and sarcasm, it wasn't an attack? Buddy, Something I will NEVER is sugarcoat. The fact still remains that no one wants to be told how to feel about something by someone that has never gone through what they're going through and never will. Would a Lion take advice on how to cope with being a bad hunter from a Gazelle it couldn't catch? And Just because someone is professional, does not necessarily mean that they're doing their job right. A thread like this is and will always be completely out of bounds for any female to make. And once again, Im willing to bet that she has never had sex with a virgin.

P.S. You shouldn't down rep someone simply because you disagree with them. This a debate, and I did not directly attack her person, and I attacked the points she made in her article.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Quite a few posters disagreed with the OP but because they attacked with humor and sarcasm, it wasn't an attack? Buddy, Something I will NEVER is sugarcoat. The fact still remains that no one wants to be told how to feel about something by someone that has never gone through what they're going through and never will. Would a Lion take advice on how to cope with being a bad hunter from a Gazelle it couldn't catch? And Just because someone is professional, does not necessarily mean that they're doing their job right. A thread like this is and will always be completely out of bounds for any female to make. And once again, Im willing to bet that she has never had sex with a virgin.

P.S. You shouldn't down rep someone simply because you disagree with them. This a debate, and I did not directly attack her person, and I attacked the points she made in her article.

Feel free to RESPECTFULLY disagree with anyone, that is a debate, but to bring it to this level is not acceptable.

And your analogy is far from relevant.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

I just read this thread start to finish and I have some issues with it.

1. I understand it is suppose to be informative, but why was a thread aimed mentally of virgin males made by a woman, whom I'm willing to bet lost her virginity in her teens and may have never had sex with a virgin. And if she hasn't had sex with a virgin male then her whole little initial posts has zero credibility.

2. There is absolutely stress to losing your virginity as soon as possible, and lets face it, there are a lot of friendly roasting session ahead of you if you are still a virgin in your 20s. and it does get more awkward and more importantly, more difficult to lose, the older you get because you should always disclose that information to someone if "you're able to." It's in human nature, not just female nature, to have a certain opinion about something until he/she experiences it firsthand.

3. Any guys who claims he's saving himself for the right person is either overly religious or pretentious; This is a forum dedicated to improving one's sexual tool, so no one here is so religious that it just has to be the right person. Scenario: In your opinion, the Sexiest woman ever walks up to you and ask for sex, but she has an absolutely stank personality, do you oblige her? I would.

4. Watching or not watching porn will make absolutely zero difference unless you let it. In my experience, Watching has been beneficial.

5. Doing P.E. pretty much trained me for my first time. I was doing 10 second kegels during my edging exercises so I was easily able to stymie ejaculation for as long as I remembered to do so. My first time I last 13 minutes in the 1st round. I clamped regularly so that helped to dull my sensitivity.

I see your points too but re-read your point number one and you will see why, is not respectful. It sounds like a personal attack which are not allowed here.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Do we want to harp on every word from someone who is trying to help and make an issue over it? Well all know that I talk way too much around here but even I know that there are times just to be quiet. Talking about when and if and to who she lost her virginity is just silly.

By the way I happen to know she lost her virginity at age 47 to a former Buddist monk. How do I know that? Well I googled it of course! Okay who's buying lunch!

[OneEyedWilly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OneEyedWilly]

^^^^^
CUSP, you seem to be eating a lot today! Don't be getting any anxiety issues on us.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hello Frustr8dVirgin,

Nice of you to stop by another one of my threads although I see from what you have written that you are still as angry and combative as ever. It also seems you have once again either misread or misinterpreted what was being said and by whom. Apparently you have also misunderstood the intention of the thread too.

Well that's unfortunate.

That being said, the decision not to disclose either my personal sexual history and experience or professional credentials does not diminish the information I have provided nor does it make it any less true.

Also, you are certainly entitled and even encouraged to share your opinions about the subject matter but I would strongly suggest you be very careful with your personal accusations and what you are "willing to bet" where I am concerned since your assumptions would most assuredly cause you to lose those bets. I hope this clears things up for you.

Have yourself a lovely day.

I just read this thread start to finish and I have some issues with it.

1. I understand it is suppose to be informative, but why was a thread aimed mentally of virgin males made by a woman, whom I'm willing to bet lost her virginity in her teens and may have never had sex with a virgin. And if she hasn't had sex with a virgin male then her whole little initial posts has zero credibility.

2. There is absolutely stress to losing your virginity as soon as possible, and lets face it, there are a lot of friendly roasting session ahead of you if you are still a virgin in your 20s. and it does get more awkward and more importantly, more difficult to lose, the older you get because you should always disclose that information to someone if "you're able to." It's in human nature, not just female nature, to have a certain opinion about something until he/she experiences it firsthand.

3. Any guys who claims he's saving himself for the right person is either overly religious or pretentious; This is a forum dedicated to improving one's sexual tool, so no one here is so religious that it just has to be the right person. Scenario: In your opinion, the Sexiest woman ever walks up to you and ask for sex, but she has an absolutely stank personality, do you oblige her? I would.

4. Watching or not watching porn will make absolutely zero difference unless you let it. In my experience, Watching has been beneficial.

5. Doing P.E. pretty much trained me for my first time. I was doing 10 second kegels during my edging exercises so I was easily able to stymie ejaculation for as long as I remembered to do so. My first time I last 13 minutes in the 1st round. I clamped regularly so that helped to dull my sensitivity.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Ahahaha Cusp...well I think your googling skills may need to be updated...I was 52 and he was a virginal Scottish Druid.

Do we want to harp on every word from someone who is trying to help and make an issue over it? Well all know that I talk way too much around here but even I know that there are times just to be quiet. Talking about when and if and to who she lost her virginity is just silly.

By the way I happen to know she lost her virginity at age 47 to a former Buddist monk. How do I know that? Well I googled it of course! Okay who's buying lunch!

[Bigdaddy55 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigdaddy55]

I think it would help the virgins if others told them about their experience/how it felt.

Warm apple pie.

[Bigdaddy55 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigdaddy55]

This is how I thought at 18 'it should happen this year but as long as I do it before I turn 20 and I'm still a teenager, then that is acceptable'.

Sure let 18 year old me down a lot...lol.


I think losing your virginity is something I'd say you should try to get rid off in your mid-late teenage years, it just becomes really awkward as you get older.

Says who? I'm in my mid 30's and I'm still as bad as an 18 year old. My wife doesn't understand how I am still this horny all the time.

The big reason I worry these days is because guys start to not have as good libido as they once had when they get to 30 and onwards (earlier for some) so I'll feel pretty angry if I start having those problems or even P.E or something like that, I'll be angry that I wasted so many years.

If you're that worried then go to Backpage, find an escort and do it already. You can tell girls that you're no longer a virgin, the frustration that is weighing on you is gone and if you're bad who care because you paid for it and you won't see her again.

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

I'll try paying attention to this post when I've actually found someone to have sex with. Still a fucking virgin at 27 years old!

[Sir_Laid_A_Lot Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Sir_Laid_A_Lot]

I lost my virginity way back in 2004 to a Thai hooker when I was doing my under graduate studies in Bangkok. I have slept with 270 women so far. Will add to my list soon enough.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

I lost my virginity way back in 2004 to a Thai hooker when I was doing my under graduate studies in Bangkok. I have slept with 270 women so far. Will add to my list soon enough.

I don't mean to question you, and congrats on all that coitus, but how do people remember numbers like this when it comes to sex? Is there some sort of journal, diary, or sex abacus that folks use to keep track?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I have another question why even try to build a high number . The double standard also troubles me a woman with 270 partners would be looked down on by many.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

When I got to 500 notches on my bed, the dam thing collapsed!
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She said it was her Best "O" Ever!