Women: How much girth is too much?

[PNS85 Member Find all posts View Profile Close PNS85]

I'll venture out here and provide a possible explanation for your experiences. Looking at your pictures I see that you have a very large CS. And just due to anatomical differences, the CS is much more supple and compressible when engorged than the CC. So basically, one explanation could be that your measurable girth gets compressed a lot when entering girls.

I don't think that's the case. I get pretty solid erections when I'm aroused - they're not semi-hard and squishy like some of the big-dick porn stars (like Shane Diesel and Jack Napier). It's never felt to me like my girth got compressed at all during sex, unless of course I'm not fully aroused/erect for some reason.

It's really quite impossible to tell what the measurement is from those pics. All I can say is that it does indeed appear pretty thick .

The thing here is, speaking at least for myself (but probably others would agree too), I (we) are not intending to be "hostile" or "aggressive". If I came off that way I apologize. BUT, 7 inches in girth is so very very very uncommon that it's hard to believe. Coming together with 8 inches in length (also very uncommon) makes it even harder to believe. If you post a good measurement video that will no doubt calm some skepticism.

I don't honestly remember if I thought YOU specifically came across as hostile. I read a lot of posts by a lot of people and I just remember that some of them felt this way. If some of those were you, don't worry about it! :-)

I will indeed post a good measurement video as soon as I'm able.

Actually mine look a bit longer and possibly a bit thicker at the base. I am 6ft 1" and 232lb strip at the moment.

Hmm, ok. Well I don't know what to say. Just wait for the measurement video I guess.

[namsokiek Banned Find all posts View Profile Close namsokiek]

Believe what you want man, I really couldn't care less. I'll post a video later of me actually measuring it, but if you want to believe that I'm 8x6 for now that's fine with me. I'm 6 feet tall with pretty big hands so perhaps that's why it doesn't look as girthy in the pictures. You really can't tell when there's no tape measure involved anyway - that's the whole point of camera "tricks" in porn to make dicks look bigger.

PNS85, dial it back big guy. We all know about camera angles, hand size, and photoshop. The members on this site have read many extraordinary claims about size. All of these claims are answered first with "if you don't take a photo of the measurement it isn't true." Unfortunately, if you don't post a photo right away then folks start doubting your claim and stating their doubts in an unkind manner.

You've posted photos and you've stated your claims. The last thing to do is to go to walmart and buy a ruler and tailor's tape and take full penis photos of your measurements.

Then you will post the facts for all to see, someone (or some folks) will admit they were wrong, and the world will continue to turn.

p.s. having a thick CS does not alter your girth upon penetration, most guys will kegel during entry, which makes the CS and glans rigid.

[PNS85 Member Find all posts View Profile Close PNS85]

Yes, I understand. Like I said, I'll post a video as soon as I get a tailor's tape (that's what it's called, thanks!) and my poison oak has healed up. Perhaps I made the wrong call in creating this thread before having any concrete evidence of my claims.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I fail to understand if a member says he 14 x 11 why we all have to make a fuss. If we don't believe him fine; then lets just not post here. If we believe him than give him a congrats. Maybe it's late; I'll go get some rum and see who's left alive here by morning!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

You don't need to make a video, we get a lot of guys that will come here and make crazy statements and then they never appear again or they make excuses. I had noticed that you said you used a tape and then basically said that you did not have a tape and I am not mean enough to wish poison oak on you.

My bad for sounding so aggressive, I can not tell your size without a ruler but it does not matter, as far as I can see you are very thick and you should be proud of it regardless of what a tape says.

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

Doublelongdaddy although believed to be pretty full of shit in his own size claims and photoshopping, believes that both diesel and shorty mac had sickle cell anemia causing hypoxia induced megalophallus which you can google about and gives good explanation for the true freaks of nature of dick girth .. and I agree, because if you look at diesel's dick, the top of his dick is much MUCH thinner than the middle and below, consistent of what you'd see in megalophallus "sufferers" or consistent with some kind of surgery or alteration ... now your's looks bout 7.5 x 6.6 midshaft to me, i bet you missed your measurements by a half inch or so, anyways, congrats on the genetic lottery there, but I'd say your girth is more consistent throughout the penis as you would expect because you don't have sickle cell anemia being that you're white lol ... still though, a virgin taking that without pain? lol very interesting

[Closed039 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed039]

That's a hammer regardless of its actual dimensions. No need to mess with it.

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

you got some huge balls too, by any chance did you start to lose your hair early? like recede pretty early and a lot? you know the whole dht connection ... for science.

[PNS85 Member Find all posts View Profile Close PNS85]

@BigO - No worries man, it's all good. I understand that people will usually react with skepticism and doubt when any highly unlikely claims are made without evidence.

@MovingUp: It's definitely possible that I'm closer to 7.5 than 8.0 in length. It really depends on how I measure it... I mean you can easily get that extra half inch in length if you angle it down a little and push the end of the ruler into your pelvis a little... haha. I'm very sure that the girth is accurate though, at least within an 8th of an inch. I kept coming up with 7 and 7/8ths when I measured it, but I still haven't managed to do so with a full erection... by the time I got the tape measure around it and situated in the right position I'd always be SLIGHTLY less than fully erect. I tried several times with the same result, but hopefully I'll find a way to maintain my arousal and not get distracted by the act of measuring it when I finally get around to recording a video here.

Anyway, I feel like my original intention for creating this thread has gone unanswered completely since everyone focused much more on how unlikely my claims were without evidence. I've seen several comments from guys along the lines of this one:

100% agree. It varies women to women and how excited they are (my gf can take mine easily after a few years of practice if she is very wet....other times its like putting a square peg in a round hole...) but to be with 5 women at 7inch girth (almost impossibly rare itself) and never have an issue putting it in....let alone comments about discomfort or pain the next day. Nah i call bullshit on that.

Every girl i was with (including two that have had over 6 partners) said mine was the thickest they ever took and my size queen friend who has saw mine soft has seen over 30 penises (she has exhibitionist parties) and says mine is also the thickest. Its just so rare to be over 6in girth and denny and beng are really in a rare club even on here where people pump and jelq and squeeze every day. I am over 6 beg and nearing 5.8 now for meg (not quite as consistent as i'd like so im not counting it yet) and although it looks normal to me its really not common.

As a result its not going to be something most women will take easilly without practice and lube and even then some might never really enjoy it. I like to take new members at their word (after all others took me at mine) but its the experiences he found more than the measurement that makes it highly unlikely. Plus most 8in long dicks aren't that fat (5-5.5 usually) before PE so to be both long and very very thick....nah....

But really, that just coincides with what I was saying in my original post. It's easy to find posts from men everywhere talking about how most women wouldn't be able to handle more than 6" in girth, but it's very rare to find women who chime in on the subject. On the other hand, as I've also mentioned, it's easy to find plenty of women talking about unpleasant experiences with too much length.

@MySword - I definitely believe you when you say your 6" girth is the most that any of your partners have had. But did any of them actually experience any pain or discomfort with it, or did they simply comment that you were the "widest they had had" or whatever? I'm starting to think that what most men assume about the girth limitations of women stems simply from the "data" we have on length. In other words, length in the top 1-5%, or above 8.5" or 9" is likely to cause pain or discomfort to the average woman. Not all women of course, but most. I'm sure there are plenty of women who can back this up. Therefore we all assume that an equally rare girth would be graded on the same scale, and that a girth as statistically rare (or more statistically rare) than a 9" length would also cause discomfort to a woman.

Again, my personal experience has just led me to doubt these claims very much. None of my partners have ever needed any "recovery time" to speak of. When I first started seeing the girl I'm still with today there were times we had sex 4 or 5 times in the same day, and yes, we were both a bit sore... but I think that would be the case for any two people who have sex that much in one day. I believe my size had nothing to do with it. And even so, we were both typically ready to go within a day or two anyway, and I think the "recovery time" in cases like these was much more just mental (like recharging our sexual energy or whatever) than it was an actual need for her to physically heal or anything like that. With my first serious relationship it was the same way. I felt like my size never caused any issues whatsoever. Sex was very enjoyable for both me and my girlfriend, she never needed time to recover, and never complained about my size causing any pain or discomfort at all.

So, I'll get a video up eventually since I'm assuming that you guys are still skeptical after my tape-measure-less pictures, but for now... are there any WOMEN who want to chime in here? Again, the questions from my OP are here:

So, finally, let me ask the ladies here a few questions:

Have you ever been with a partner who's girth was uncomfortable or painful?

Have you ever been with a partner who's length was uncomfortable or painful?

If so, do you know the exact girth and/or length that caused you discomfort or pain?

Have you ever been with a partner or used a dildo who/which was 7" of girth or more? If so, how did it feel? Was it enjoyable? Uncomfortable? Painful?

It seems to me that a lot of women have actually experienced their "length limit", because there are enough 8" or 9" penises out there that a lot of women have experienced discomfort or pain from a penis going too deep and hitting their cervix, but my instinct tells me that most women probably haven't really experienced any kind of "girth limit", and that all the claims that 6.5" or 7" in girth would be "way too much to handle" probably simply stem from the fact that 99.9% of women haven't experienced anything like this (dildos aside), so they just assume it would be uncomfortable or painful.

So ladies, I'm looking for opinions from women who've actually had experiences with "too much girth", or more than 7" of girth. If you've never actually experienced girth that was uncomfortable and/or painful and/or 7" or more, please don't just arbitrarily guess what you think your girth limit would or should be if you've never actually experienced it.

EDIT: @MovingUp - I'm 28 and my hairline hasn't receded at all. What's this "DHT connection" you're talking about? I'm not familiar with that.

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

DHT is mainly responsible for hair loss and penile growth through puberty and in the womb ..

There are lots of thick guys that aren't that long that have caused pain, it is not simply people confusing length causing pain with girth causing pain, mot girls really do have pain and problems with much less girth than you claim to have.

[PNS85 Member Find all posts View Profile Close PNS85]

Well I'm thoroughly confused then. However, nothing personal against you MovingUp, but you're still just another guy claiming to be knowledgeable about the girth limitations of women, and I found plenty of other threads and posts coinciding with your claims already. The thing is, they were almost unanimously written by guys. The whole point of this sub-forum is to get opinions directly from women, which is exactly what I'm looking for. Anyone?

[MovingUp Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MovingUp]

I would say your dick is much more round than wide compared to some other big girthed guys that cause pain so maybe thats a big part of it

[MrPriapus Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrPriapus]

Lol, this forum can be downright pathetic sometimes. Most of this animosity seems to be what you would here from people upset about there genetic lot in life. I have no doubt that most woman can take 6"+ girth easily. I'm there now and have never had an issue in the past few months I've been at that size. And I've seen more than enough porn videos to know that many woman can also take 7" girth. No reason they shouldn't with proper lubrication.

I am curious though, what size were the women you have been with (petite, average, busty, etc...)?

[jstane45 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jstane45]

Well I'm thoroughly confused then. However, nothing personal against you MovingUp, but you're still just another guy claiming to be knowledgeable about the girth limitations of women, and I found plenty of other threads and posts coinciding with your claims already. The thing is, they were almost unanimously written by guys. The whole point of this sub-forum is to get opinions directly from women, which is exactly what I'm looking for. Anyone?

Hey, PNS85, hopefully some gals will chime in and help you out also. Don't get frustrated or take things personally here, it's really just a combination of the rarity of having those measurements, and the frequency with which this forum gets guys claiming to have dicks far bigger than they actually do.

But I also just wanted to mention that when I dealt with girth issues it was really the guys that had the best help for me. I grew to about 6" girth and saw a dramatic rise in sex issues, and I had already experienced quite a few problems at the former size.

The thing I came to realize was that guys carry with them the experiences of multiple women, whereas a women (usually) only knows what she, one woman, can enjoy and how she can accommodate bigger girth.

But whatever, and whoever, ends up helping you out here I hope you get all your questions answered.

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I am curious though, what size were the women you have been with (petite, average, busty, etc...)?

The girl I lost my virginity to when I was 14 was a bit on the chubby side... my high school girlfriend was taller than average for a woman, maybe 5' 8" or so, but pretty thin and fit. My other three partners were/are relatively small women... my current girlfriend is about 5'3" and 115-120 lbs or so. Three of my five partners have had kids though, including my current girlfriend. I'm not sure how relevant that is.

I have no doubt that most woman can take 6"+ girth easily. I'm there now and have never had an issue in the past few months I've been at that size. And I've seen more than enough porn videos to know that many woman can also take 7" girth. No reason they shouldn't with proper lubrication.

Yea exactly. Shane Diesel is exactly 7" in girth and I've never seen a video of him where the girl wasn't able to handle it. In a few rare occasions I could tell that a girl was maybe a little uncomfortable, but it seems to me like the vast majority of women really seem to enjoy him. Yes, I know that porn is acting, but I'd like to think I can tell the difference between a girl pretending to enjoy sex and genuinely enjoying it. Look up one of Shane Diesel and Vanessa Leon... that's a good example of a girl who's clearly truly enjoying it.

With Shorty Mac on the other hand it's quite common to see women who can't handle his 8" girth, but there are also many who can and many who seem to enjoy it. And frankly, I'd attribute at least some of it to the fact that he's like 5'0" and kinda overweight, which probably made it harder for some of his partners to really feel attracted and aroused enough to handle him.

As I've also mentioned before, I've looked at a lot of reviews of dildos that are 7"-8" in girth and women really seem to enjoy them for the most part. I honestly feel like most women could easily handle up to 7.5" or 8" in girth if they felt close enough and aroused enough by their partner, and I don't even think it would be uncomfortable for the majority of them.

My girlfriend has even taken a dildo that was about 7.5" in girth with no issue, and she was very surprised recently when I brought up the statistical rarity of my girth. Of course she reassured me that I'm very pleasurable, but I asked her if she thought she could handle more girth and she said "easily". Also, as I mentioned, all of my partners have commented on my size at one point or another but none of them specifically made any comments about the girth/width - only general comments about it simply being large and pleasurable, etc. Again, even at 8" in length I've been told "Ouch, too deep" plenty of times (in certain positions), but I've never been told my girth was uncomfortable or painful.

Please note that the following isn't meant to be factual claims, but rather just speculation:

It seems to me that women don't really think about girth that much, and don't really have any idea what their limit would be in that area, whereas like I said, many women have experienced "too deep" before. Of course men everywhere are going to make claims that a woman can't handle or wouldn't enjoy a girth which is "off the charts", because first of all, that's how length works according to both men and women, and second, because well... no guy wants to think that his partner could easily handle girth larger than 99.99% of men on the planet. It just seems to me that girth really doesn't work this way. I mean I'm sure if you get up to something ridiculous like dildos with 9" or 10" girth there would be plenty of women who couldn't even get them in... but as far as HUMAN penises, it seems to me like almost every woman on the planet could handle the girth of any human penis on the planet, whereas there's a good chunk of guys (maybe 5% or so) who will likely cause pain or discomfort to some of their partners due to length. Just my gut feeling on the matter.