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Personally i just have a hard time believing words over actions. I been with my girl for sometime now, always says she loves me but i cant help but notice never "receiving" anything from her. I almost want to say a lack of affection in my opinion. Ive never had her give me a gift unless i mention it or ever noticed her going out of her way to get something that I LIKE this never honestly. Very sweet girl by words but not actions if you know what i mean... Is it that some girls just like to receive more and give little? Im pretty stumped about this =/ what do you gotta say

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Ghosty, is looking at you with those longing, lustful Eyes. My gal,used to at first, faded over the years of course. But for awhile, heaven.

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Ghosty, is looking at you with those longing, lustful Eyes. My gal,used to at first, faded over the years of course. But for awhile, heaven.

Im assuming what you mean fade away is not completely gone and i think this is something related to personality not so much on what you do or dont. You sound like your still in love as if it was the first 5 years, your wife must be a lucky woman indeed.

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We have different love languages. You should look into that book. Sounds like you might need some acts of service. Some need gifts, some need words of affirmation. We each need differently. Both read the book and when you understand what each needs focus on giving that.

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We have different love languages. You should look into that book. Sounds like you might need some acts of service. Some need gifts, some need words of affirmation. We each need differently. Both read the book and when you understand what each needs focus on giving that.

I will look into this book, one thing i have noticed is that everyone loves differently and should accept the way they love as long as its genuine its all that matters. Im not much of a needy guy just lately i been pondering on this.

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Im assuming what you mean fade away is not completely gone and i think this is something related to personality not so much on what you do or dont. You sound like your still in love as if it was the first 5 years, your wife must be a lucky woman indeed.

No. we both fell in and outta love with each other over the last 30 years. The best times are when we both are in love with each other at the same time. Four years ago, we made out like teenagers, couldn't keep her tongue outta my mouth and didn't want to. Life gives you cycles together, sometimes they jell. Right now sickness has imposed itself , sucks too, we were have been in Jell together stage for awhile.

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No. we both fell in and outta love with each other over the last 30 years. The best times are when we both are in love with each other at the same time. Four years ago, we made out like teenagers, couldn't keep her tongue outta my mouth and didn't want to. Life gives you cycles together, sometimes they jell. Right now sickness has imposed itself , sucks too, we were have been in Jell together stage for awhile.

I can more or less understand what you mean, although im sure at times the both of you focus on the positives and what you guys have, that might be just enough to keep relationship strong for long time. Doesn't matter who you are with one thing i know about life is that it will always try to beat you down no matter what, just cant let it take over.

I do not have much experience relationship wise but i have lived a very harsh few years of my life regarding health. Its something that has been grabbing a hold of me very tight and almost feel like its sucking my energy out, but i always try and think of the things i love and want and realize that even health issues are secondary to my mental fortitude. Even tho i have a condition that might be curable or not i still tell myself its not over. So when i see people talk about health and whatnot i can understand what they are going thru because im living it right now, have been for the past 3 years and it has done nothing but made life almost miserable. If it wasn't for my distractions and people around and my effort in staying positive even on a forums with people i may never get to meet i dont know what i would do with myself. All i can say is stay strong and believe that something good will come of this.

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Hey what kind of actions you think woman do when they are in love/likes with a guy? Is there a few pointers you could mention from a woman's prospective im very curious to hear this out. I think its pretty obvious when a guy loves a girl or really likes but i cant say the same for the girl.. Personally if i really like a girl i wouldn't mind texting her all day i wouldn't keep her waiting on a message it shows im interested in her with my actions i get stuff that she likes and whatnot. Im asking out of curiosity really i think everyone loves differently but i feel like there certain actions woman do when they are into a guy? what do you have to say about this? id appreciate a reply.

Thanks for the question, I needed to go ask TheZZMan how he knew I liked him. He said I kept showing up.

But seriously, When we first started dating he said it was in my eyes, and smiling when I saw him. We lost track of time a lot because we would hang out for hours and before we knew it, it would be 2 am and we both had to work the next day, but we still didn't want to leave. Later in the relationship, it was more wanting to do things for him that would make him happy or make his life easier. I never really bought him gifts, but I did try to make him some meals. This is how I knew he liked me, he ate them and still came back for more. I was not a very good cook at the time, I have improved greatly.

I don't believe my gestures of affection were very obvious, but he did know by how I acted that I was into him. Everyone is different however, and some people are not very good at showing their true feelings, but I would say if she wants to be around you and likes hanging out with you, then her "I Love You" is probably a true sediment.

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Thanks for the question, I needed to go ask TheZZMan how he knew I liked him. He said I kept showing up.

But seriously, When we first started dating he said it was in my eyes, and smiling when I saw him. We lost track of time a lot because we would hang out for hours and before we knew it, it would be 2 am and we both had to work the next day, but we still didn't want to leave. Later in the relationship, it was more wanting to do things for him that would make him happy or make his life easier. I never really bought him gifts, but I did try to make him some meals. This is how I knew he liked me, he ate them and still came back for more. I was not a very good cook at the time, I have improved greatly.

I don't believe my gestures of affection were very obvious, but he did know by how I acted that I was into him. Everyone is different however, and some people are not very good at showing their true feelings, but I would say if she wants to be around you and likes hanging out with you, then her "I Love You" is probably a true sediment.

Can't disagree with anything she has said. But let me tell you further detail on how our relationship began.

This was back before cell phones and land line phone was all we had. I had recently been transferred with work to a new city. I was working on buying a house but the normal delays and time involved had me living in a small apartment that was unfurnished and I had only the basics available. I slept on a army cot, had boxes and a board across for my desk and little else. All this waiting for my house to close so I could move in.

Well, I met this gal (you may know her as ZZW) and I was really interested. But I did not have a phone number for her to reach me. After a couple of meetings out on the town, I managed to get her phone number. So, I wanted to ask her out on a date. What to do, no phone at home, cell phones did not exist, living in squaller waiting on a home....So I went to a pay phone next to a convenience store. I put my 75 cents into the phone and made a call to the number I had been given. The phone rang, her father answered, I asked for Zwoman and was told to hold. She picked up, I said HI, I am ZZ, we have met many times before. I would love to take you out to dinner. However I will give you an out. I'm at a pay phone - the number on this pay phone is 555-123-1234. If you would like to go to dinner then call this number back. If you are OK and would prefer not to then hang up and I will be good with that. I then proceeded to hang up. And stare at the pay phone. 2 minutes later, the phone rang....I picked it up and said "You had a chance, now you are mine". LOL - 30 years ago. The best years of my life and we are still going strong.

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C'mon ZZMan. Us po folk didn't have but there were cell phones. My first came in a bag. Company owned and paid for. Hellacious reception.

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Thanks for the question, I needed to go ask TheZZMan how he knew I liked him. He said I kept showing up.

But seriously, When we first started dating he said it was in my eyes, and smiling when I saw him. We lost track of time a lot because we would hang out for hours and before we knew it, it would be 2 am and we both had to work the next day, but we still didn't want to leave. Later in the relationship, it was more wanting to do things for him that would make him happy or make his life easier. I never really bought him gifts, but I did try to make him some meals. This is how I knew he liked me, he ate them and still came back for more. I was not a very good cook at the time, I have improved greatly.

I don't believe my gestures of affection were very obvious, but he did know by how I acted that I was into him. Everyone is different however, and some people are not very good at showing their true feelings, but I would say if she wants to be around you and likes hanging out with you, then her "I Love You" is probably a true sediment.

Sounds like the best way to know is "to know" hah... Its nice to hear you mention you wanted to cook for him. You guys are lucky you were able to spend so much time together tho sounds like a very good way to bond. Thanks for your thoughts i have been wanting to know your opinion on this.

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Can't disagree with anything she has said. But let me tell you further detail on how our relationship began.

This was back before cell phones and land line phone was all we had. I had recently been transferred with work to a new city. I was working on buying a house but the normal delays and time involved had me living in a small apartment that was unfurnished and I had only the basics available. I slept on a army cot, had boxes and a board across for my desk and little else. All this waiting for my house to close so I could move in.

Well, I met this gal (you may know her as ZZW) and I was really interested. But I did not have a phone number for her to reach me. After a couple of meetings out on the town, I managed to get her phone number. So, I wanted to ask her out on a date. What to do, no phone at home, cell phones did not exist, living in squaller waiting on a home....So I went to a pay phone next to a convenience store. I put my 75 cents into the phone and made a call to the number I had been given. The phone rang, her father answered, I asked for Zwoman and was told to hold. She picked up, I said HI, I am ZZ, we have met many times before. I would love to take you out to dinner. However I will give you an out. I'm at a pay phone - the number on this pay phone is 555-123-1234. If you would like to go to dinner then call this number back. If you are OK and would prefer not to then hang up and I will be good with that. I then proceeded to hang up. And stare at the pay phone. 2 minutes later, the phone rang....I picked it up and said "You had a chance, now you are mine". LOL - 30 years ago. The best years of my life and we are still going strong.

Must of been awkward to have to ask for her to the father...

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Must of been awkward to have to ask for her to the father...

Not really, back then it was normal and expected that the father knew who his daughter was going out with. You introduced yourself at the front door when you went to pick her up, shook his hand and exchanged pleasantries.


I even asked his permission to marry his daughter when it came time to propose. Yes, a different time and a more traditional way of going about relationships.

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C'mon ZZMan. Us po folk didn't have but there were cell phones. My first came in a bag. Company owned and paid for. Hellacious reception.

My first "Bag Phone" and any kind of cellular device came 9 years later when my wife was pregnant and I wanted her to be able to reach me in an emergency. I think the monthly plan included 30 minutes of talk time before you went into overcharges which could make the phone very expensive. LOL Our conversations were always very short on cell phones.